Servile Marriage

Remove romantic love from the concept of marriage and what are you left with? A partnership, long-term companionship, shared living and financial arrangements, the promise of a family - or a domestic horror story? 

I do (if mum and dad agree) Photo: Indianblogspot.com

For the 16-year-old Lebanese Australian girl who successfully took her parents to court last month to protect herself from a forced marriage, it’s definitely the latter. The Sydney judge presiding over her case agreed, and praised her bravery in defying her parents’ decision.

Unfortunately this story is not uncommon. Forced or servile marriage arrangements have reared their ugly heads in many Australian communities of late. Take the last year. A 14 year old Melbourne girl and a 17 year old Sydney girl. Both contacted the AFP in desperation, fearing their family’s plans to force then into marriage overseas.

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  • Sam says:

    06:26am | 16/10/11

    “relationship”? doesn’t sound like it. Go play in the sandbox with the other children. Read more »

  • Bruno says:

    12:08pm | 14/10/11

    richard, be honest, you wish your parents could find you a nice girl? you dont honestly expect everyone to believe that you’re really happy trawling the west for boilers do you? You ought to move out to Fairfield, single mothers everywhere, you would love it Read more »

 

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