Compensation

[My father] took me to Windang police station and told them what was going on, I think he was hoping I would tell them who the father was. In those days carnal knowledge was a crime. My father got angrier and angrier he punched me in the face in front of the police who did nothing, about an hour later a lady came to the police station and took me home and told me to pack a bag.

An apology is the tip of the iceberg for forced adoption victims. Picture: Herald Sun

Not everyone can be friends with their past.

For the thousands of Australian women who found themselves young, pregnant, and forced to give up their babies, Australia of the 1950s and 1960s was a painful place. It would be excruciating to go back there.

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  • Donna says:

    08:18pm | 09/03/12

    Joan-Beautiful post and beautifully eirttwn.  I wish that more adoptees and mothers could think outside their own experience and see the larger issues of the abuse and control of women.  Thanks for being so sensitive to the mothers.  We appreciate it, I can assure you.Sandy Young Read more »

  • RBarron says:

    11:23am | 06/03/12

    amy says:11:05am | 02/03/12 child steling? taking kids away from a situation hwere the parents can;t raise them isnt pleasant but its hardly child stealing Amy it was child stealing and that is what the Senate Committee report found laws were broken back then. The church made alot of money… Read more »

 

Last week, The Punch introduced you to The Angry Cripple, a new anonymous contributor. This week, AC explains that despite the complaints of some, s/he will remain anonymous, and reveals the source of the name.

I’m angry for good reason. I’ve used the word cripple for good reason. And I’m anonymous because I have to be…

Sometimes life's a beach; sometimes, a bitch. Pic: CARA.

Whatever I write, some will agree and others will disagree. Some will be downright nasty. I read on another forum that if I turn out not to be a person who uses a wheelchair, there will be blood.

So, my anonymity will remain. It doesn’t matter who I am. I could be a parent or carer of a person with a disability, a deaf-blind actor, a teacher at a special school, a student with MS, or a person with a severed spinal column.

So get over it. There are plenty of more important things to worry about.

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  • Benevolent Malcontent says:

    06:13pm | 18/11/11

    Danzig, This is the problem with people like you. You don’t have a solution so “let’s kill them?” The last person to think that way shot himself in a bunker in Berlin. Read more »

  • Benevolent Malcontent says:

    05:56pm | 18/11/11

    As a person with three separate disabilities, I have encountered every conceivable kind of abuse, have had to live with a convicted criminal (who was also disabled) and have encountered corruption and laziness from support workers. I could say more, but decency doesn’t permit. I am sick and tired of… Read more »

 

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