Apologising is tough work. Most of us are hard wired to defend our actions, even when deep down inside we know we were wrong.

There are certainly historical precedents that show politicians are reluctant - to the point of childish stubbornness - when it comes to saying sorry.
So here’s to Opposition immigration spokesman Scott Morrison, who this morning apologised for his “insensitive” comments questioning whether we should foot the bill for families to attend the funerals of those who died in the Christmas Island boat tragedy.
Oh, wait – hold on. He’s not sorry he made the comments. Just about the timing. That timing being on the day of the funeral, when people were burying their loved ones.
He said today – a day later – he’s definitely still angry about the money being spent.
“I have to show a little more compassion than I did yesterday, I am happy to admit that,” Mr Morrison said.
Sounds like something he was told to write on the blackboard 100 times. Must show more compassion. Must show more compassion. Must show more compassion.
Mr Morrison has form – the day after the boat sank, leaving up to 50 people dead, political reporter Mark Kenny wrote that politicians had put aside their differences in the wake of the tragedy.
And they had – mostly. Except Mr Morrison, who said the incident had been “our worst fears realised”.
“In other words, I told you so,” Kenny editorialised at the time.
Saying sorry means accepting blame. But when politicians - and sportspeople, and others with something to lose - apologise, it is usually to dissipate blame. To try to regain the high ground, to get out of the headlines.
So what Mr Morrison has done here is try to ameliorate the effects of his insensitive comments, which were broadly condemned by people, including some within his own party.
But then he’s stayed aligned with the right-wing rage against asylum seekers by heavily qualifying his apology.
It comes across as forced, insincere, cynical.
He’s gone for a win/win, but he’s got a lose/lose.
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