This handy ready-reckoner is offered in the spirit of the silly season for those of you with a song in your heart at the tail end of a night out. I have now been to karaoke a couple of times and quite enjoy it - I think you’ll enjoy it too.

Rule one: Full action.

This is a term coined by a karaoke-obsessed Indonesian journalist called Donny Dahono, the first bloke to ever drag me along to karaoke, who would explode with rage if the singer remaining seated, turned away from the crowd, or offered anything less than what he defined as “full action”. Donny makes a crucial point. None of us can really sing anyway so why not over-compensate with stage presence? Also, to use a radio term, there should never be any “dead air”. When you get in make sure everyone has a song lined up and wait your turn for the first hour, before taking on all-comers in a shameless bid to sing everything.

Rule two: Respect the song.

As a wise karaoke-loving friend puts it: “Karaoke’s not there to be taken seriously, but it’s not about showing off or taking the mickey.” Karaoke should not be approached with a sense of slacker irony. Air Supply, Barry Manilow, The Carpenters…these are great artists. And if you find yourself singing All Out of Love, Mandy or Superstar, remember you are privileged you are to have custody of such a classic song and should try to do it justice over the ensuing three minutes.

Rule three: Respect the singer.

Anyone who is up there having a go should be supported. They should not be laughed at, heckled, howled down. Singing along is fine, but they should not be drowned out. And unless the song is a duet, do not join the singer on stage unless invited. Also – despite those marketing opportunists at Idol turning William “She Bangs” Hung into a minor star, there is nothing innately funny about people singing in an Asian accent, even if they are doing Crocodile Rock.
Rule four: Duets are fine but no group songs.

Unless it becomes a group by accident because everyone in the room is singing along.

Rule five: No-one is allowed to do Khe Sanh.

Except Chisel. And no-one’s allowed to do My Way either.

Rule six: Karaoke must be mixed.

That is, mixed in terms of ballads and up-tempo numbers, and mixed in terms of gender. While I’m sure it’s fine for women to go to karaoke in a group, there’s something a bit effete about doing it with all men, which no amount of Black Sabbath can erase.
Rule seven: No songs that go for more than five minutes.

This means no Bohemian Rhapsody (5.52), no American Pie (8.36), no Stairway to Heaven (8.02) - Sweet Child of Mine (5.56) is the exception to the rule, for the simple reason that everyone loves singing along to the “where do we go” bit.

Rule eight: If you’re almost out of time, order a really long song.

The qualifier to rule seven. And Bohemian Rhapsody is a pretty awesome song.

Rule nine: Please, try the alcopops.

Aside from making a political statement in defence of a noble industry, you will also be complimenting the karaoke aesthetic. You can’t sing I’ve Never Been to Me by Charlene while holding a VB. Think the Raspberry Breezer or Guava Cruiser.

Rule ten: Don’t go on your own.

I know someone who did once and apparently it was just embarrassing.
Rule eleven: Try one new song every time you go.

Not a rule but a suggestion. If you’re new to karaoke, you should only try songs you know like the back of your hand. But after a few visits it’s worth scouring the byways of the song book, where Til Tuesday’s Voices Carry, Night Ranger’s Sister Christian or We’re All Alone by Boz Scaggs may just be waiting to become your new signature tune.
Rule twelve: No champagne or fireworks.

Just because I saw that on a sign at a karaoke bar once.

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    • Beckala says:

      03:11pm | 15/12/09

      I’m a big believer in NO MEATLOAF - they all go for something like 10 minutes each and involve the kind of operatic singing that nobody (except the exceptionally talented, and never the people who do choose the songs) is ever capable of.

      Also, remembering - you don’t actually OWN a song. At a karaoke night down at Northies, some guy would nearly ‘punch on’ if anybody picked ‘Ice Ice Baby’ - I’ve actually seen him walk up to someone and say “Hey, when it’s Wednesday night’s at Northies, Ice Ice Baby is mine, and don’t you forget it”. Yes, it’s annoying if somebody picks the song you want to do, but it just means you will have to open yourself up to new opportunities.

      One way of making it fun is if, in a group, you pick each other’s songs - but in a way that is fair (i.e. if someone is over 40, they may not be aware of the current top forty, and the reverse - you don’t give a 60s hit to the new 18 year olds). Just mixes it up a bit.

    • Wilko says:

      04:06pm | 15/12/09

      Penbo, does rule six apply to the time you and I did “(You make me feel like) A Natural Woman” as a duet and all the women left the room? Should we have stopped?
      And on behalf of all those who know you, Mandy should be on the banned list.
      W

    • Tony says:

      04:06pm | 15/12/09

      “None of us can really sing anyway so why not over-compensate with stage presence? “

      Now i understand why you jumped around so much when you were singing with cerveza y putas.

    • Bob H says:

      04:31pm | 15/12/09

      No “Midnight Oil” the risk of Garrett dancing is too high and the songs should never have been recorded anyway.

    • Chris says:

      04:39pm | 15/12/09

      Sources close to me reveal Mr Penberthy that you are a serial Rule Ten offender, and to be frank, more power to you. As long as that Power is from Huey Lewis, Snap!, or IceT.

    • TB says:

      05:33pm | 15/12/09

      I find I cannot agree with Rule Four. At the very least, I can think of one exception which I have gleaned from personal experience. Nothing beats a group of about 4 or 5 horrendously drunk men belting out “Eye of the Tiger” - and I do mean belting. The lyrics are not so much sung, but shouted with gusto.

      Another suitable group song has just sprung to mind - I’m sure nobody can object to a re-enactment of Tom Cruise’s (in)famous serenade of “You’ve Lost that Loving Feeling”?? I (vaguely) recall a similar incident taking place at my sister’s wedding reception.

    • Alex says:

      07:36pm | 15/12/09

      Re: Rule three - Irish accents are fine, though. I’ve long suspected that the war in Northern Ireland ended in part to silence Dolores O’Riordan howling about tanks and bombs and bombs and gons in “Zombie”. Karaoke is a fitting arena to offer tribute.

    • May says:

      08:26pm | 15/12/09

      Lol, I was born in 1988 and recognise a very small percentage of songs on your list. You must be getting old. Did you have to let it linger?

    • Nola says:

      10:10am | 16/12/09

      Possible addition of Rule 13: Keep your clothes on

      Vague memories of singing INXS Never Tear Us Apart standing on the bar of a pub in my underpants to win bonus points for the trivia final. Probably should not say that as this comment might now be blocked by an internet filter as I mentioned singing and near nudity in the same sentence.

      I learned two things from this encounter:

      1. Never Tear Us Apart possibly one of the best karaoke songs of all time.
      2. I am a very valuable member of any triva team due to my dedication to the cause, but would advise keeping ones clothes on at karaoke (unless there are bonus points and it’s the grand final.)

 

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