There is an online revolution occurring with women taking to the blogsphere at a phenomenal rate.

They are connecting, supporting, sharing, creating and doing business with people they probably have never met.

It is a new wave of feminism.

This past weekend in Chicago, 1500 people attended the largest women blogging conference in the world at BlogHer. It was sold out with a waiting list.

The size of the conference has doubled since 2006 when 700 bloggers attended.

Women blog on a variety of topics including politics, food, craft, diet and exercise, sex, and fashion.

However a portion of these women online are mummy bloggers. At the Blogher 2005 conference Alice Bradley who writes the blog Finslippy said “Mommy blogging is a radical act.“ She was reacting to comments from other bloggers where it was suggested if the “mummy’s” added in some political comment in their blogs they may find a wider audience.

What Bradley meant by “radical” was a woman writing about her life could be beneficial to other mothers. She felt that prior to blogging it was very hard to get to the truth of the “both its hilarious and horrifying moment.”

Mummy blog topics vary from the mundane like the boredom of doing the laundry, and the best way to use the leftover roast chicken, to the more complex like coping with post-natal depression or living with a child who has autism.

To find out you are not a mothering freak of nature because you are bored by your gurgling baby can be a relief.  To know your toddler is not the only child that will only eat two types of vegetable is reassuring, and that you are not the only person who sometimes (ok all the time) lets their child watch too much TV takes away some of the mother guilt.

Linking through cyberspace lessens the isolation a women can feel once they are having to spend more time at home. It is also entertaining to interact with interesting woman who you would not get to meet in your daily life.

It would be interesting to know if any studies have been done on whether woman who obtain support online through blogs or other social media are more likely to avoid post-natal and other types of depression, or if their depressive episodes are less severe and shorter in length.

In the US the mummy blogger is a cultural and marketing phenomenon.  Heather Armstrong who writes the blog Dooce has been named by Forbes as one of the top thirty influential persons in the media.

Her open and honest writing style was always popular but she gained a new level of readership when she blogged about her struggle with post-natal depression.

In the US marketers are keen to link up with popular mummy bloggers to promote their products. These bloggers normally have gained credibility with their readership over a number of years so an endorsement can lead to increase sales. However, there is currently a debate on the ethics of this product endorsement, known as blog-ola, and whether the blogger should acknowledge they have been given a product or have been paid to write the review. My view is they should.

In Australia the number of mummy bloggers are on the rise and they are gathering readership in Australian and overseas.

Some of the more popular ones are:

  • Magneto bold who writes about her awesomeness, and her son who is autistic;
  • Miscmum , who started her blog after she was diagnosed with post natal depression;
  • Pickle bums
  • And one of my personal favourites All Consuming who writes about her four boys, one with special needs, and her battle with depression all with a wry sense of humour.

These bloggers and many more make me laugh, I feel their frustrations, I rejoice in their achievements, and they also make me think and reflect. Other women bloggers have helped me decide which restaurants to go to, which books to read, given me a different perspective on media and political issues, and helped me with what to cook for dinner. My life has been enriched by my cyber community, and just maybe one day in Australia we too could have a women’s blogging conference where interesting, and creative women can get together to share their knowledge and inspire each other.

Emma Ashton is a mother and she blogs at www.realityravings.com

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    • GMB says:

      09:05am | 30/07/09

      Bring it on! You didn’t mention the Graandmummy bloggers with their rich experience of life,politics and making choices.You also didn’t mention the blogs of support for victims of child abuse and adoption where bloggers are deriving a great deal of comfort in a world-wide community of those with like experiences.

    • Margie says:

      09:09am | 30/07/09

      Here, here Ms Ashton! After being off work for a few months recently I have only just discovered this wonderful world of blogging. To be able to read about ‘everyday women’ with the same interests as me, has not only been informative but incredibly fun. From toddler taming, restaurant reviews and even where to pick up a frock for a friends wedding, its all there and all written by women in the same boat as me. I stumbled over your blog during the whole MasterChef juggernaught, and the articles and following that you had was just as much fun as actually watching the show.

    • Ray J says:

      02:08pm | 30/07/09

      Seems like another way of mother’s avoiding looking after their kids.

    • katepickle says:

      03:09pm | 30/07/09

      Oh thanks so much for the link love… great post. I always find the ‘mum blog’ thing an odd combination of geekiness and coolness!
      Through online communities (forums in the beginning and now blogs and twitter) I have found such amazing support and some wonderful friends - so this crazy mum blog geeky coolness thing has worked for me on so many levels!

    • jane doe says:

      03:15pm | 30/07/09

      Emma, you have definately taken the yummy mummy to new heights…bring on the rise of mummy bloggers!!!!!! my mum always knows best, it took me until my later years to realise mums just have a knack & insight!
      i praise your blog and i must admit it is my daily vitamin. I too share a rather addiction to all things reality tv and you add a spice and flair, your humor is just delicious!!
      love that now i can finally put a name and a face to the blog…

    • Naomi says:

      03:39pm | 30/07/09

      Blogs do provide a valuable new community space.  Investigating the benefits of social media, particularly the impact on groups such as new mothers, would be interesting.  Perhaps a project for you?!

      I’d also be interested in how the families of the “mummy bloggers” feel about their lives being recorded in such a way.  I know most bloggers are careful to protect their identities (and those of their kids) but I wonder how the kids will react when they’re old enough to identify their mums and reflect on their mums’ feelings as blogged?  At least the parents will have a rich resource for 21st birthday speeches!

    • Steve B says:

      03:54pm | 30/07/09

      It’s just a pity that many of these “Mummy Blogs” have been transformed into nothing more than advertising sites “reviewing” all the free products they are sent by companies hoping to cash in on new (and not so new) mothers’ insecurities. Some of these “Mummies” admitted (during an interview with NPR’s “All things Considered” that they never provide a negative review of a product, if they don’t like a freebie they recieve they simply don’t publish the review rather than risking not getting more freebies.

    • Peta says:

      07:19pm | 30/07/09

      Steve B- I think thats a bit cynical. Don’t read the ads, don’t buy the products. As a first time Mum wading through this adventure I think they are fantastic! It’s a bit like reading a newspaper, you glance over the the bits that don’t interest you and spend time reading the things that do.

    • kim at allconsuming says:

      04:22pm | 31/07/09

      HOLY CRAP Emma - you mentioned me on THE PUNCH!?!

      And here I was feeling sorry for myself that the Ed hadn’t responded to me with my piece on being at home with sick children during the holidays.

      Now they’re all going to come visit and I don’t even have my lippy on. At least I washed my hair this morning.

      And Ray J? Bite me.

    • Sally T says:

      04:34pm | 31/07/09

      The best thing about mummy bloggers? They provide a sense of connection, and a means of overcoming isolation, that new mothers can find a godsend. For that alone I applaud them.

    • Ana says:

      01:31pm | 29/08/11

      The internet is unfortunately now an over saturated world of boring mummy blogging.  If SAHM’s want something useful to do, they can come over and wash my windows!!!!

 

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