Note: For the background to this piece read SA Treasurer Kevin Foley’s unprompted tell-all interview here.

Regardless of whether you think Kevin Foley is a good bloke and a talented treasurer, or a boofhead and an economic incompetent, only the most flint-hearted observer could watch his unravelling this week and not feel some empathy for the man.

SA Treasurer Kevin Foley at this week's media conference.

In order to succeed in the often horrible business of politics, politicians must almost dehumanise themselves – that is, they must think through everything they do, what they say, how they dress, who they are friends with, how they choose to spend their limited free time, because everything they do has potential political ramifications.

Right down to the level of getting your partner and kids to put on their glad rags for the glossy mailout you send out to 20,000-odd households once every four years, projecting yourself as the very epitome of domestic bliss.

That is not intended as a sob story on their behalf. They know the rules when they go into the game. And given the influence they wield over people’s lives, and the fact that it’s the people who pay their wages, people have every right to know more about them than they do about private individuals.

But that disclaimer should not erase their humanity. And over the past few days, we have seen in Kevin Foley a bloke who has been mugged by his own humanity.

Watching him unravel, starting with his jaw-droppingly candid and heartfelt interview with The Advertiser, we have seen in Foley a bloke who suddenly stopped acting like a politician, who went spectacularly “off message”, as the strategists would say, by painstakingly chronicling every one of his foibles before the world.

There can be no political strategy to what he has done. It’s probably destroyed his chances of becoming premier. And it’s unlikely to have helped the Government, as it’s everything political parties try to avoid – instead of the clichéd mantras about steady hands on the tiller, working for jobs, investment, the future, we’ve seen a self-described lonely guy who has trashed his marriage, whose subsequent high-profile dalliance with a TV celebrity sputtered to a halt, who has fooled around elsewhere, who is on medication for depression, who virtually dismissed his positioning for the leadership last year as a flight of ego-driven fancy, who takes solace in cooking himself curries.

Hasn’t exactly got a “Vote 1 Kevin Foley” ring to it, has it?

So if you’re prepared to accept there’s no strategy there, then I’d suggest it follows logically that you can’t feel anything but empathy for what he has done.

No-one can work out why he has done it.

Few in the Labor Party knew about his depression, even if they were wise to his wandering ways. The signs of Foley’s descent into introspection were there a few weeks ago when he started to open up about his demons during a meeting with stunned MPs. Perhaps fearing the news would leak, it was at that point that he decided to go to the press, at length, with complete indifference to the political consequences.

There has been a Polly-Anna aspect to some of what Foley has said. As a journalist, I’m bemused by his being puzzled at the apparently excessive media interest in his private conduct, given his well-established enthusiasm for putting the hard word on hot chicks who are often a couple of decades younger than him. Sounds like a story to me.

But the bigger story with Foley, the human story, is about a bloke whose external confidence so obviously masks a serious level of insecurity and a genuine sense of remorse at some of the sillier personal decisions he has made.

I can’t help but think that much of it stems from the pride he takes in what he has achieved as a bloke who comes from the wrong side of the tracks, and who on seizing power, probably started to think: “Jeez, how good am I going?”

In all my dealings with Foley over the years, which have never really got beyond extended small talk over a beer at sporting events, it’s struck me how much pride – justified pride – Foley takes in being a Taperoo High boy who ended up running the State’s finances.

He has always remembered that people who are close to me were also educated at that school, and have also done well in their careers, and it’s often the first thing he raises when we catch up.
In a city which still has its pathetic network of hyphenated dandys, with their rounded vowels and old collegian ties, and which gravitates in the same gentrified inter-generational social circles that Daddy and Grandpa did, Foley has every right to feel good about himself for making a fist of things without a headstart.

But I’m sure that it was that sense of achievement helped propel him towards self-absorption, especially in power, when he found himself lauded, feted, sought out.

Watching him implode this week reminded me of an extraordinary personal story in Sydney around eight years ago involving a judge who was sacked after spectacularly perverting the course of justice.
It was September 12, 2001. The judge’s marriage had fallen apart. He had lost custody of his kids. He was drinking himself senseless every night. And on the night of September 11, he didn’t go to sleep at all. He sat there, shit-faced, in front of the TV, crying like a baby as almost 3000 innocent people were burned, asphyxiated, jumped to their deaths from the Twin Towers.

The next day in court he was hearing a case involving a paedophile. The prosecution was making a hash of the case, so much so that the judge knew this shocking excuse for a human would walk. So during the lunchtime adjournment he approached the prosecutor and quietly advised her to change tactics, suggesting some new lines of inquiry which would see the paedophile go down. The prosecutor did what she had to do. She reported the judge, and he lost his job.

Setting aside the little fact that this judge’s conduct represented the complete and utter desecration of our judicial system, I still find myself almost applauding what he did. He forgot what it was that he was meant to be in life, and found himself acting instead like a human being.

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    • Isabel says:

      07:14am | 06/11/09

      ” that this judge’s conduct represented the complete and utter desecration of our judicial system”
      Surely this says a lot about the adversarial system of justice? Is there no other system which would allow the judge/s to assemble all the facts supported by evidence and allow the judge to do the questioning? I am sure there is, it is just that I have never lived under such and wonder if that would have allowed the judge to be both judge and a human being at the same moment in the same place?

    • Paul says:

      07:17am | 06/11/09

      If this was an isolated event I could have a moment of sympathy but their is a pattern here of power-drunk dysfunctional Labor MPs across the nation carrying on like schoolies and then expecting media redemption when they confess. It has become a trend just like male sporting boganism.  While Labor spins on about these MPs, homelessness and public housing is going backwards -fast. Humanity? Perhaps its Labors crisis in internal party leadership/management that is leading to Labors humanity being mugged by its own lack of humanity. And lack of ‘tough’ love for its narcissistic and increasingly wayward MPs

    • Liz says:

      07:29am | 06/11/09

      This has been totally misread by people who have no understandin g of depression and are true cynics.Why would anyone reveal something so personal? It’s a sign of strength and courage to speak about one of the last taboos for Aussie blokes.Go Kevin!! Get some empathy,understanding and learn to walk in others shoes the rest of you.
      I’m the biggest cynic of all when it comes to pollies so no-on accuse me of being naive, purlease, before you even think about it.And yes I did hear the interview and read the article, did you?

    • Daniel says:

      07:30am | 06/11/09

      Im still trying to work out what this guy in SA has actually done? Is he depressed?

    • RT says:

      07:53am | 06/11/09

      Good luck to him. But are you sure that this is not an equivalent of putting himself on a dating site, but with much more profile from the publicity, and for free?

    • @tchapman says:

      08:07am | 06/11/09

      I liked that Penbo. Good job.

    • Frank says:

      08:16am | 06/11/09

      I live in another State, so am unaware of the public ‘personna’ displayed by this politician in the past. The fact that he has revealed his sorrow and loneliness at finding himself partnerless may be contrary to his previous style, but demonstrates a number of realities of life. There are people who prefer to live independent lives and there are also those who prefer to live in partnerships. When a longstanding partnership fails, the impact is substantial. One of the wonderful features of longstanding partnerships is the growth of interdependence which develops, the sharing of responsibilities and the division of duties. When such a partnership ends, each partner takes with them their share of the functions they performed during the partnership. And it can take years for each departee to learn the skills they had abrogated to their former partner. In my case, I had to learn to cook, if only to avoid starvation! It took years for me to learn all the skills I needed to be self-sufficient and it that time, I too, was extremely lonely. I know the feeling all too well. I know how I too, made efforts to find a replacement partner. The early attempts were not only premature, but utterly foolish. Once again, I can sympathise with anyone who yearns to develop a meaningful partnership. It’s not easy to achieve. And in the meantime, one suffers enormous emotions of sadness, loneliness and deprivation. For someone who is in the public limelight, these efforts and the subsequent outcomes may be fun to gloat over, however this fellow is enduring an awfully tough time and deserves a modicum of sympathy and respect…..irrespective of his past ‘posturing’ and his high profile.

    • KD says:

      09:10am | 06/11/09

      Please, please don’t let all this polly soul searching become the new black - I’ve heard enough of John Della Bosca this past year to last me a lifetime!

    • Carl Palmer says:

      09:28am | 06/11/09

      The incident that is consistent between the two are their marriage break-ups. Both the judge and pollie slid to the deepest depths of depression because of it. They both tried to work thru it themselves using different paths – affairs and or grog and neither worked.

      The other parallel is that their judgment became severely clouded, flawed and brutally compromised. One hung himself out and the other committed a very serious breach of the law.

      As I think Sir Robert Menzies once said – sometimes it wise to step back and “lick ones wounds”. Sound advice. Having said that, it is still sad to see and you do feel for anyone in that predicament.

    • Paul says:

      09:34am | 06/11/09

      @KD right on! Can’t Kevin release a teary blues song to entertain us through his Catholic forgiveness phrase? Perhaps a duet with the loverboy Bosca?  Spinners Note: Please, do not use these people to raise awareness of mental illness.

    • Jenny says:

      09:34am | 06/11/09

      Kevin Foley has risen in my estimation from zero to 100 for his honesty and humanity and I am heartened to read such a sympathetic and realistic piece of journalism on Kevin’s situation. I am deeply touched by his courage and hope that this disclosure and public support/acceptance helps in his recovery. I am not a Labor Party supporter, but I think these are the sort of politicians we need - including John Della Bosca and wife Belinda Neal - real people who have the guts to face up and fess up in an honest and heart-warming manner.

    • Liz says:

      10:08am | 06/11/09

      Onya Jenny! Some real understanding and empathy being shown at last instead of prejudice and fear about depression.
      This is a disgracefully unsupportive article .What if the writer had done a piece in support of suffers,atempting to show what help was available,how sufferers really feal and the things they face? Wouldn’t that have been useful instead of the usual media beat up. Shame on you David and shame on you The Punch.This deserves too be taken further.

    • David C says:

      10:18am | 06/11/09

      What is it with people from the wrong side of the tracks crashing and burning? They seem to work hard and succeed in breaking through the barriers and achieveing real success only to stuff up on some stupid mistake usually involving members of the opposite sex. It smacks to me of them not really believing in their success (or themselves). They then revert to type, stuff up and blow it all and end up with depression.

    • Steven says:

      11:01am | 06/11/09

      Paul, I agree with everything you said about this issue but don’t bring the Catholic forgiveness thing into your comments. The likes of Foley and Della Bosca are confronting the truth because that’s the surest way to inner-peace and the first step on the road to personal redemption, whether you’re Catholic or not. These politicians may not necessarily deserve sympathy but I do think they deserve pity.

    • SeanT says:

      11:14am | 06/11/09

      no snobbery there at all David C—“revert to type”. Just what is the “type” of people from the “wrong” side of the tracks???

    • David C says:

      11:20am | 06/11/09

      SeanT point taken and wasnt my intention, (I am actually that side of tracks myself) I meant more revert to a type of behaviour that has probably been covered up/ concealed all those years and then the guard is dropped and voila disater strikes.

    • Kay says:

      11:44am | 06/11/09

      I dont pretend to know why he has admitted his depression, apart from some obscure reason.  I suffer from clinical depression myself and hold down a high level management position and wouldnt dream of letting people know.  Only because of the ignorance of some members of our society. Last time I looked 3 out of 5 suffer some form of depression and hopefully one day it will lose the stigma attached to it. I too am from the “wrong side of the tracks” and proudly attended Taperoo High School.

    • Cameron Price-Austin says:

      11:49am | 06/11/09

      It was a poorly planned political stunt that backfired. Simple as that.

    • Kay says:

      12:21pm | 06/11/09

      I agree Cameron.

    • KJAX says:

      01:14pm | 06/11/09

      The real shame is that Foley couldn’t find it in himself to become human much earlier. He’s been carrying on like school-yard bully for eight years, and now he bursts into tears on camera.

    • Beej says:

      01:15pm | 06/11/09

      Don’t forget that Kev Foley is one of the toughest, most brutal political operators in the nation. He saw how his beloved mate Rann played the sympathy card so well when he was smacked on the head with a rolled up magazine, and so he has decide to play for some sobs and cuddles himself to try and redeem himself from his well-earned bullyboy label. David Pemberthy and others - you have been well and truly sucked in. It’s all so depressing.

    • Simon says:

      01:35pm | 06/11/09

      I ponder the notion that Kev has possibly destroyed his chances of becoming Premier. I would have thought a real human being with balls to say things as they are would be a perfect leader, as opposed to many. I also notice how many ladies are responding in his defence. Smooth move Kev…........!

    • Paul says:

      01:45pm | 06/11/09

      @Steven No mate, you’ve been sucked in by bullies like Rann/Foley. No sympathy for bullies or callous manipulators of ordinary Aussies. My Catholic comments were entirely accurate, as the Catholic ethos is, run amok, do whatever you want through the week but confess on Sunday and everything is cool. That’s not adult, it’s not moral, and it’s not leadership.

    • Rob says:

      01:55pm | 06/11/09

      I can be critical of Kevin Foley for the way he has tended to play the man rather than the issue, his arrogance and his agressive behaviour. Maybe he sees it as a “tough political style” but it is bullying in anyone’s language. Is this in any way attributable to his depression? I think not. Would we characterise his as someone who demonstrates empathy for others? Well certainly not based on what I see of his public persona. His tell all piece on the weekend did not mention his depression. All of the words demonstrated a remarkable inability to understand himself: “I don’t like it that people think I’m a bully” - its the job. I can’t maintain a stable relationship - its the job. He doesn’t see his own behaviour as having anything to do with it. That doesn’t sound much like depression to me either. So how am I supposed to feel empathy for someone who appears not to demonstrate any toward his fellow man?

    • Eric says:

      03:21pm | 06/11/09

      It’s good to see that rich and powerful men can rely on David Penberthy for sympathy and compassion.

      Too bad the same can’t be said for ordinary blokes who suffer from discrimination and abuse. They get only nastiness.

    • Flint-hearted Observer says:

      04:24pm | 06/11/09

      Fair dinkum, just when you thought it was safe to open a paper and not have the Foley Diaries Soap Opera playing out yet again, Penbo pens this opus. In a Ruddlike manner (trying to please everyone) Penbo reckons whether you like Foley or not, you couldn’t help but feel empathy. Apparently only flint hardened folk wouldn’t. Penbo forgot to add and those who have seen enough Stage Performers in their time to know when a person is lip synching. There’s a good ploy pollies use & Penbo should be cynic enough to know it - it’s called wagging the dog. Remember the Movie of the same name? It was about a spin doctor working for the Presidential re-election campaign, who must create a situation that will distract the public from the President’s scandalous affairs. Queue The Foley Diaries. Labor and Power Without Glory go hand in hand.

    • Mental As Anything says:

      05:11pm | 06/11/09

      Just a heads up Penbo…Foley failed to deliver the post March 2006 Election Budget on time in May of that year as planned. The budget was delayed for over 4 months despite the fact that Fioley was the incumbent Treasurer who knew where the money for Rann’s Election Promises was. Well you’d think his promises were fully costed - he wouldn’t mislead the good people of SA? Anyway,  the delay wasn’t challenged by the Libs who were suffering their own bout of depression following the Rannslide massacre. Coincidentally, Foley was apparently diagnosed with his depression around that time.  The question is, therefore, did his depression affect his capacity to deliver the budget or not? Has it affected his judgement on other matters? You see he claims it isn’t that big a problem to warrant time out. But from the hype over his revelation you’d have thought he had a terminal illness. Of course it may have just been a Movember publicity stunt gone very wrong indeed. Wag the Dog.

    • Debbie says:

      05:28pm | 06/11/09

      Great Article.  The problem in society is hiding mental illness because of the large stigma attached to it and also people’s belief that those that suffer shouldn’t be working or would be unfit to work. Mental Health lists actors and actresses who suffer with illnesses to show that ordinary people who do suffer with an illness are not alone.
      There are those in Politics who do have disorders who hide them, or do not admit to it or do not see the error of their ways. 
      Those that come from insecurity from broken up home’s who seek power. Such as the Power Brokers do not have empathy to true. Yet it’s us as people who do have empathy.  Usually these guys never admit they have a problem. Yet the one’s that do, make better men.
      I agree there is too much Prestige in our country which makes those from high schools seem not good enough as opposed to those from Private Schools. They have to try and prove themselves more.
      Rob he did admit to his past behaviour and if you look at traits of these disorder’s bullying is one of them and i’m not talking about depression but other problems that can be associated with it.  You don’t hear many owning up to them. Good on him for speaking out.

    • Rob says:

      08:33pm | 06/11/09

      Debbie, Foley frequently admits to the error of his ways. It doesn’t stop him from repeating the behaviours. He has some pretty ordinary traits but I personally think they are much more consistent with narcissism than depression. Indeed he seems to have some of the characteristics of a narcissist who hasn’t yet found his mission in life. Personally, I think he has enough faults that he should resign anyway. Whether that has anything to do with depression or not, I don’t know and I don’t think it matters one way or the other. Supposedly he’s been under treatment for some considerable time and I haven’t noticed him becoming any less arrogant or being any less inclined to play base politics or more inclined to be straight with the electorate. I do think the weekend article was a political stunt. I don’t think his subsequent admissions in relation to depression were a stunt but nor do I think he’s provided any reason why I should be any more accepting of his behaviours - they simply demonstrate a lack of respect for others.

    • Lisa says:

      10:54pm | 06/11/09

      Have to agree that the real story has to be the judge, being sacked for attempting to help a lousy prosecution case. Is the lousy prosecutor still working, I wonder?

    • Paul says:

      09:53am | 07/11/09

      @debbie get a grip, there is nothing hidden about mental illness amongst these male baby boomer politicans. Either you are not looking or its that it is so common, so on display, and/or camouflaged with spin and happy stories. Narcissism Personality Disorder is a mental condition and leads to 3-5% of the general population being bullies. But they are usually promoted or favored in the backstabbing, aggressive realm of politics. Even the Premier of the state Mike Rann is a candidate for obsessive compulsive disorder - or lets call it the common ‘control freak’  with authoritarian urges, who cannot tolerate dissent or people disagreeing with him. Rudd & Howard are similar examples.

    • Dan says:

      05:01pm | 07/11/09

      Lisa, the judge was rightfully sacked. It’s not his role to help either the prosecutor or the defence. There can be no justification for what he did really.

    • Alex says:

      09:09am | 08/11/09

      If someone dragged the Treasurer before the Executive Council and got him kicked out of Parliament on the grounds of incapacity, you could see just as easily see off over half the States’ workforce IMO. The real point is that the media more and more are looking at politics like it was the Big Brother reality TV show– who can we vote off/ slag off tonight? Does this sell product? Hey, smart idea!

      Take the Rann (alleged) assault. Weeks of copy for the media, but nowhere do they investigate who was sitting round the tables with the cabinet members and what interests they were pushing. The media treats commercial interests with such delicacy and discretion! We couldn’t possibly violate their privacy, could we…

    • Steven says:

      08:12pm | 08/11/09

      @Paul. No mate, you’ve got it wrong with such a misconceived and negative attitude of Catholicism. I agree with you that Foley is a pretentious bully who has sown what he reaped but Catholicism has nothing to do with his antics. Tell me exactly where in Catholicism it says that the Catholic ethos is to “run amok during the week and then confess on Sunday.” The fact of the matter is that Foley and Della Bosca came crashing down because they rejected some of the Catholic values they should have practised (i.e. being faithful to one’s spouse).You’ll present far more persuasive arguments once you’re able to discard your small-minded bigotry.

    • Paul says:

      09:29am | 09/11/09

      @steven no mate, you need to get out more. I was raised in the Catholic Church and I’ve never met such a bunch of well meaning, two- faced, control-freaks , ‘Sunday -Christians’—who seriously and criminally damaged two of my mates lives. The small-minded Labor folks come close.

    • Taperoo High boy says:

      11:19am | 10/11/09

      I always thought he was a Royal Park High boy…

 

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