Last Friday we lost a remarkable Australian in Sonia McMahon. She was a lady of impeccable grace and style, but also a woman of great depth and substance.

The then first lady, Sonia McMahon, photographed in the late 1960s.

A Lady by title, but she was also truly a lady by reputation, and deservedly so.

Most Australians knew Sonia as the wife of former Prime Minister, Sir William McMahon or the Prime Ministerial wife that wore “that dress” to the White House, but she was so much more than that, she was an influential figure in her own right, intelligent and had opinions on everything.

Sonia and I first met over ten years ago in Sydney at a lunch with mutual friends. I still remember it like yesterday. Her beauty, style and grace were impossible not to notice. As I was introduced, I acknowledged her with the respect that she deserved as “Lady McMahon”. Straight away she replied “enough with that, call me Sonia”. That’s the kind of person she was.

Sonia had a strong belief in giving something back to those less fortunate and she did that by raising money and supporting many diverse organisations. She was one of those quiet achievers, a woman who worked hard for a variety of charities that she believed in, like the Australian Cancer Foundation, The Brain Foundation and Sydney Children’s Hospital to name just a few, but her contribution should not be underestimated.

Sonia also had a love for politics and was always a great ambassador for the Liberal Party. Her hunger for politics began when she joined the Party at the age of 18 and it continued through her life even after Sir William left office – she was always up for a debate on any issue and argued her point of view with great authority – you were never left wondering where she stood.

She strongly believed that Australia was built on hard work, something that she was not averse to herself. Sonia had a colourful career, firstly training as an occupational therapist before moving to United States to work for the Australian Consulate and then 20th Century Fox as a production assistant. It was after she returned to Australia that she met and married William McMahon.

William and Sonia’s marriage was a very strong partnership and he often used her as his political sounding board - Sonia understood people and the community, but she also understood politics – it is without a doubt that together they were a formidable team, built on trust, loyalty and commitment, but most of all their love for each other.

Sonia had an abundant zest for life and believed you needed to live for the moment - she certainly did that and nothing got in her way. I remember a few mates and I were attending “Boys can Cook”, a cooking class for blokes on a Saturday, where in true male tradition we would watch someone else cook whilst at the same time watching the footy on TV. Sonia soon found out that we had been going and instantly wanted to join us. In suggesting the cooking class was for blokes she replied “that’s not going to stop me from coming along”. She joined us the next week and loved it, instantly fitting in with everyone from lawyers to tradies.

It never mattered to Sonia what you did, it was all about the character of the person you were.

There are not many Australians who are able to leave a legacy that will span generations, but the significant contribution that Sonia McMahon has made to our nation will certainly ensure her legacy will live on.

I don’t think Sonia truly realised how many lives she touched during her lifetime and I am honoured to say that she did touch mine.

Goodbye my friend, you will be missed and never forgotten!

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    • Just Checking says:

      10:23am | 06/04/10

      I note Damien is Chief of Staff to Bronwyn Bishop.  Shouldn’t that be Senior Electorate Officer or has the Opposition had an unannounced rush of resources?

    • Formersnag & swinging voter. says:

      11:00am | 06/04/10

      Had been watching this article with interest all morning & was wondering when somebody from the red/green/labour coalition would find a way to leave a negative comment. Albeit, not about, Lady Sonia McMahon. i could see their little minds ticking over, just looking for an excuse, to score a “free kick”.

      Get all “Polly” staff stooges or “Galahs” off the net.

    • Just Checking says:

      12:25pm | 06/04/10

      It’s a nice article well penned, but ostentatious overstating of titles is one of my pet hates.

    • Peter says:

      02:10pm | 06/04/10

      JC - Bronwyn is now a Shadow Minister, which means that she is now entitled to personal staff (under the MoPS Act).  It is quite plausible that the writer is her Chief of Staff.

    • Just Checking says:

      03:05pm | 06/04/10

      But then he would be an Adviser.  It is like when Turnbull was sporting a ‘Deputy Chief of Staff’.  These roles just do not exist.  Junior Shadow spokespeople don’t have Chiefs of Staff.  It ain’t Westwing you know.

    • Rod J'That says:

      10:44am | 06/04/10

      Who’s going to host ‘Dancing with the Stars’ now?

    • being pedantic says:

      02:46pm | 06/04/10

      Peter - i think it would be a stretch to assume that BB has any more than one MOPS staffer (perhaps 2 if you include a receptionist/diary person) - so i have to agree with JC - the Chief of Staff moniker is a little on the imaginative side.  It is a term commonly used for the most senior member of the staff in the office of a Minister in Govt, or the Leader of the Opposition’s office - ie large political offices.  and I have heard that Abbott s office accounts for most of the policy people in the opposition ranks.

      this overstatement is a shame as it spoils an otherwise pleasant reminiscence by Mr Jones of Lady Macmahon.

    • Rev says:

      11:20pm | 06/04/10

      Spoils?  Jeez mate, you’re likely to find a bucket of dog turds at the end of a rainbow if this ‘overstatement’ ruins your day.

    • Brett says:

      03:03pm | 06/04/10

      It’s great to read a personal reflection on a life that truly made a difference to Australian politics and society. It’s refreshing to know that even though she lived much of her life in the gaze of the public, she was down-to-earth and without pretense until the end! She is a wonderful role model that will be sorely missed.

    • Julie says:

      03:20pm | 06/04/10

      Great article. Without a doubt Lady McMahon was the most glamorous resident to have graced the Lodge. She leaves behind a tremendous legacy indeed.

    • Scott says:

      04:09pm | 06/04/10

      A wonderful woman that made a great impact on the psyche of the Nation. Very few other Prime Minister’s wives will be remembered with such fondness. It’s sad that the comments on this post deal with MOPS and not a remarkable Woman.

    • Willy K says:

      05:18pm | 07/04/10

      Never has the gulf between true class been larger than in comparison between Lady McMahon and the obese wife of the muppet we have as PM.

 

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