Shh, don't tell anyone I'd rather be at home

It has been reported in recent times that the proportion of women on corporate boards and in the top management of Australia’s leading companies is actually shrinking has come as a shock to many.

Australia was once ranked second only to America in the number of top companies with a woman senior executive, and we now fall last on a list of comparable nations including New Zealand, Britain, South Africa and Canada.

In Australian about 55% of the top 2000 companies have at least one woman in an executive management position – compared to 85% in the US.

Despite the decidedly male countenance of the “ocker” Aussie, we have always been a nation of pioneers when it comes to the equality of women. We were one of the first countries in the world where women won the right to vote and be elected to parliament.  Dame Enid Lyons became a Cabinet Minister in 1949 – a very long time before feminism became fashionable. 

Participation rates for women in the Australian workplace have been increasing rapidly over the past 30 years.  We even “gifted” the world with one of the most outspoken feminists ever in Germaine Greer.

So how and why has this decline in Australian women figuratively banging that old glass ceiling happened in recent years?

In today’s world it’s just a little too simplistic to look at figures such as these on face value and describe them as “disgraceful” as the president of Chief Executive Women Naseema Sparks did.

We need to ask whether these statistics reflect a dark and backward trend of Australia’s top women being actively discriminated against, their talents sadly underutilised, or do they have more to do with the personal challenge of achieving that elusive “work/family” balance that has become the modern-day juggling act for many professional women.

Given the skills shortage and the internationally competitive nature of Australian companies, I’m inclined to think that our top corporations would be desperate to utilise the best available talent -regardless of gender.  It would clearly be contrary to their own corporate livelihoods if they didn’t promote capable women where they were the best person for the position.

So I am a little skeptical that the long-term trend of women’s advancement in the workplace has suddenly been turned around by the renaissance of a new-age “boys club” mentality.

But there seems to be a growing social trend that is rarely talked about, rarely acknowledged, and that many modern feminists won’t even consider – that some professional women are making a conscious decision not to pursue a high-powered career.

Some professional women have come to the conclusion that, as our Governor General Quentin Bryce so eloquently put it, “you can have it all, but you can’t have it all at the same time”.
Undoubtedly there are women deciding that the “work/family” balance just gets too out of whack at the highest professional level, and they are making the decision that “having a life” comes before pursuing a career – for now at least.

Perhaps it’s no co-incidence that this data on women’s declining role at the Executive level is released on the same day that a study by the University of Sydney shows that Australians work some of the longest hours in the developed world.

About one in five Australians now work more than 50 hours a week – and in professional jobs, there’s no doubt that proportion is much higher.  What time does that leave for having, let alone enjoying, a family?

The trend towards women taking up part-time employment and rapidly increasing participation rates in those aged over 50, also suggest that family-based decision making might be a factor.
Perhaps women are making the “sacrifice” of not pursuing their career in order to ensure that they are able to manage the work of running a home and caring for young children, of which working women still do the lions share in most Australian households.

A recent study found that on average Australian fathers spend just one minute a day alone with their children during the working week.  One minute a day. 

The argument could of course be made that women are being “forced” to take up the slack because men still aren’t taking equal responsibility - that for all the advancements over the years, we are still essentially “chained” by the drudgery of these “chores”.

No doubt a case can be made for the need for quality childcare, for family friendly and flexible workplaces, for the menfolk to pitch in with the housework more – and these are all factors that affect women’s participation and advancement in the workplace.

But before we cry “gender foul” and raise the spectre of discrimination and the need for “quotas”, we must also allow for the possibility that a growing proportion of women- including university educated professional women - have made a choice not to pursue their careers to the highest levels.  That they’ve worked out where their priorities (and the joys in life) actually lie. 

We must allow for the fact – not often debated and discussed in polite circles -  that many women, while immensely enjoying their careers, view parenting as their most satisfying and important role in life. 

There’s a chance that Australian women have actually figured this out and are making choices based on what’s right for both them and their family unit.  Women are smart like that.

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    • Hannah says:

      09:53am | 11/06/09

      I couldn’t agree with you more. In the last decade women have realised their fertility is not a never-ending thing, and as Ms Bryce said, they can have it all but not all at once. Having children is the best thing anyone can do—people without children do not understand that, but anyone with a child does. The choice between fighting office politics and power plays and seeing your child grow up and discover the world? No contest.
      I had a big, big career—but having children was easily the best thing I have ever done. I dont even think about a career anymore.

    • Emma says:

      10:00am | 11/06/09

      I would have thought with the increasing trend of tertiary educated women remaining single women, and/or not having children. I would have thought this would mean more women available and wanting to break that glass ceiling.

    • Monique says:

      10:20am | 11/06/09

      It’s a pity that it has to be an either/or decision. I think if workplaces could be more flexible women could pursue their professional aspirations as well and caring for their children and running the home.

      A lot of it comes down to cultural attitudes to what is required to be in a management or executive position. Having tried to work part time in a management role part time while spending the rest of the time at home with children (3 days in office, 1 day from home) it didn’t really work because my senior manegement at the time weren’t really supportive or understanding of how this might work.

      Now however I have a senior manager who also has two young children and works from home one day a week for a half day so she can do the school drop off and pick up. I work 4 days a week for reasonable hours and still feel like I can have some career aspirations.

      The recognition of your work should be on the outcomes you achieve not on the hours you spend at the office. People need to be prepared to put off discussions till you are in the office etc

      It’s not easy but I’m sure there must be a way. I just regret that we don’t get the ‘super mum’ label any more, it’s all kind of just expected of you.

    • Carolyn says:

      10:34am | 11/06/09

      Whilst I agree a great part of the difference is women opting out, there is one other trend that isn’t mentioned here that could also account for the falling levels of participation.

      Increasingly, women are changing the rules of the game by leaving corporate life and setting up their own businesses.  Why struggle working with someone else’s rules when you can make your own? As a result, the number of small business start ups by women continues to grow.


      12 years ago I made that choice.  Although I have more recently come back into large corporate life (with an EOWA winner) I really enjoyed the autonomy and experience it gave me.

      Despite the fact that SMEs are a large part of the Australian economy, they are usually invisible in these debates. As a result, women’s contribution to the economy is (once again) under-rated!

    • Amber says:

      10:51am | 11/06/09

      I wonder if it has anything to do with the lack of paid parental leave?

      The fact is, we expect such long hours from professional staff and offer so little flexibility that many women are forced to drop out as they just can’t juggle it all.

      Coupled with that is an expectation that it is a man’s job to be the breadwinner and male stay-at-home parents are often viewed as some sort of alien species.

      With the possibilities of telecommuting and working staggered hours, etc, there should be no reason why companies shouldn’t be more competitive when it comes to family-friendly working conditions.

      I really truly know only a handful of women who just want to drop out and not use the degrees and workplace experience they have built up during their 20s and early 30s.

    • Reg says:

      12:50pm | 11/06/09

      May I suggest that the opportunity has been offered and the ladies have not managed to come up to expectations? What I read above is excuses such as opting out. In fact my experience of women in the work-place indicated an expectation of special consideration leading to a less than vigorous job application. The very invention of the glass-ceiling is an excuse for failure, something men cannot avail themselves of.

    • Will says:

      12:58pm | 11/06/09

      It is most refreshing to read a an unbiased article on gender equality. You’re absolutely right Ms Mirabella, women are beginning to realise there’s more to life than blindly following the men in the rat race, and that family life and families are far more important.

      For too long, feminism has been all about aping men and ‘wearing the pants’ figuratively, and has ignored the special,irreplacable role of women in producing and looking after our future.

      I sincerely hope the Liberal Party continues to look after family values and interests which is facing an onslaught from leftist so-called feminists. I hope you don’t support a taxpayer funded maternity leave scheme, which will only legitimise the practice of only caring for newborns for a short period after birth when child-rearing is a full-time art that should continue for much longer than a few months.

    • Hannah says:

      02:38pm | 11/06/09

      Oh Reg, you are a JOKE

    • Mad Man says:

      03:06pm | 11/06/09

      I love Betty Draper!

    • iansand says:

      04:02pm | 11/06/09

      The failure of feminism is that feminists sought equality by trying to become like men, instead of convincing men to become more like women.

      Yes, yes, an incredible generalisation, but maybe women are opting out of that particular con job.

    • Kate says:

      04:49pm | 11/06/09

      It’s funny that Reg should associate a request for flexible conditions with failure. In my experience, the women who work from home one or more days per week are highly organised and efficient - and usually more productive than the men working around them. Some men take pride in working “long hours” but how many of these extra hours are fully productive?

      It seems Reg’s failing is his own lack of flexibility about efficiency in the workplace.

      The sad thing about this article is that there is no mention of men being able to have this choice. This shouldn’t be a gender-specific conundrum.

    • Ben says:

      02:46pm | 12/06/09

      ‘We even “gifted” the world with one of the most outspoken feminists ever in Germaine Greer.’

      ... and we’re still very, very sorry World. Please forgive us.

      I think it is simply the fact the current generation of women in childbearing age range want to do the ‘mum’ thing right. My wife and her friends are all in the 25-35 age range, mostly in professional fields, and they all hope to take substantial time off from their careers to be good mums. I certainly hope I can support both my wife and our kids when we choose do start a family, as I’d rather my kids be raised by their parents than childcare workers.

      I’m sure their are plenty of women who want to run companies, smash glass ceilings and all that, and most have twigged that it isn’t easy to do that AND be mum at the same time. Surely feminism is about choice, not wearing pants.

    • eve says:

      05:45pm | 15/06/09

      I work in the media and of all the companies I have worked for (mostly small, with less than 100 employees) none has supported flexible work practices. Not surprisingly most women that had babies didn’t come back. The dads that left at 5pm were looked down upon.

      At a time when we have all of this technology - and it is reasonably priced - it is crazy that we are still needed in the office and to work 9-5. Management is not keeping up, but funnily enough the boss always has a laptop and sometimes works from home!

 

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