By all accounts Jai Morcom was your average Aussie high school kid. The 15-year-old student had a good circle of friends who describe him as a peaceful and happy young man.

Bashed to death: Year nine student Jai Morcom on his Facebook site.

Last Friday, Jai found himself at the centre of what sounded like a fairly routine schoolyard squabble, a fight over who was allowed to sit at a lunch table.

The result of this squabble was anything but routine. Jai Morcom is dead. He was bashed so savagely – possibly because he was trying to break up the fight – that he died of massive head injuries on Saturday morning.

Mullumbimby High School on the NSW north coast is now a major crime scene. There is every chance that one or more students at the school will be charged with attempted murder or even murder over Jai’s death.

The school is experiencing a hellish ride as the students and some parents go public with their version of events. Some say the fight was the result of tensions between the jocks and the emos – that is, the sporty kids and the introverted gothic kids – and that Jai got caught in the middle. Some blame the principal and question the extent to which bullying had gone unchecked at the school. Others blame the Education Department.

Aside from the specific tragedy for Jai Morcom and his devastated family, this case is unnerving for every parent and student in that it shows the absolute worst case scenario of schoolyard bullying.

It also seems to suggest that for all the noble and often successful anti-bullying strategies that are put in place in the early childhood years – framed around role-playing and education and awareness – there might be a need at the high school level for something which is tougher and more punitive.

Rightly or wrongly, there is a perception in the community – and it fuels enrolments at private schools – that the state system has given up the fight on discipline.

Teachers in the public system will tell you that one of the biggest problems they face is an inability to take any significant action to weed out the recidivist trouble-makers.

This is because the rights of the student – albeit a student who is making life hell for the rest of the class – have been elevated to such a point that they can almost lord it over their teachers.

That’s not to advocate the re-introduction of corporal punishment – especially as the studies show that the worst bullies often act like they do because they have been beaten themselves at home or by other kids. Giving these kids the cane is unlikely to make them more peaceful or civilised.

But it seems that schools must now jump through far too many hoops in order to exclude a teenager who has threatened or used violence against other students. The onus has swung too far towards defending their right to an education, versus the right of civilised students to obtain one without fear of being victimised or attacked.

For all his flaws, former Labor Leader Mark Latham made a very good point some years ago when he talked of the inversion of the good Samaritan principle – where you see somebody bashing an innocent person and immediately wonder, what must have gone wrong in that poor man’s life for him to attack a passerby at random?

Given the shocking result of bullying at this north coast school, it’s worth asking the question – are we helping the right people here?

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    • Jolanda Challita says:

      07:56am | 01/09/09

      This process of not dealing with bullies and giving them power has been designed by those in power at the DET so that they can not deal with the bullies within their ranks and the bullies can reach total power.  Our Education Department is being run by bullies and/or those who protect bullies either by their action or inaction.  That is a fact.  The playground is just a reflection of that.  Education Keeping them Honest http://jolandachallita.typepad.com/education/  Our children deserve better.

    • Tony Cullum-Brown says:

      08:10am | 01/09/09

      Because of the fact that teachers are legally unable to discipline students, I suggest the following….
      How about all the teachers of that school go sick for the EXAM week.
      It’s a sort of protest which will have an incredible impact on the students, and their future, if they are unable to sit the exams.
      The students themselves, will realise, ‘Hey, we’re suffering because of these idiot (fellow student) kids!’ 
      By placing the responsibility into the students own hands,THEY can decide how best to change the behaviour of certain ‘bully’ individuals, and effectively take control of their own lives and future.
      Let control and discipline be from within.

    • Geoff Cass says:

      10:00am | 01/09/09

      No-one will ever pay any realistic penalty for this killing. Because our current laws make it impossible for anyone to even try to prevent youngsters from doing whatever they want, where and whenver they want.
      All anyone can do at present is to say “Please stop that”, but in a pleasant voice.
      Delete the current dangerouis laws/rules and bring back the older days.

    • darren says:

      11:14am | 01/09/09

      I don’t think I have ever heard and read so much crap about a story - even one as tragic as this - there has always been bullying and fighting at schools - in 1973 1st year students (as we were then known) had our heads shoved down toilets, were strung up by our ties under buildings and beaten up on a daily basis - if the offenders were caught (you would never dob them in) they were caned. That did not stop them from continuing their behaviour - tough laws do not stop stupid teenage violence -

    • melanie says:

      01:01pm | 01/09/09

      This isnt just an issue of public schools.. I have a son in a private school and it happens there also…my son has endured years (10 yrs) of bullying and we have had our first term on no bullying since he started school… It was simply…The bus service my son uses set a BOUNDARY….something the school and his primary school failed to do as it was easier to blame him for the bullies behaviour….the bus service told the bullies that if they continue with their behaviour they would be removed permanently.( since they live 35kms away no parent would want to drive them back forth)...and the bus service also had the guts to inform their parents ..something else the school never did… as for a student who kept bullying at school I phoned his parents…it stopped…had the school had the guts to do the same it would have stopped years ago…the parents of the bully had no idea and where ashamed….Children and Teenages need boundaries…its that simple… they break them…they suffer the consequence… its time to stop making excuses for their behaviour…bullies are not all from bad homes ...nor are they low in self esteem and confidense…infact they are the opposite. they are very confindent and climb upon the backs of their targets to gain even more power ....its time people woke up….and maybe its even time bullies where named and shamed in school newsletters…all teenagers that bully know that their impact could be fatal…they are not stupid…to Jai"s family…. my sincere condolences…this should never have happened

    • P says:

      02:29pm | 01/09/09

      Just public schools, eh?  Xavier College springs to mind ...

    • Liz says:

      03:56pm | 01/09/09

      Kids and parents need more boundaries.Is excluding a kid from school a punishment or a reward?Chickens have come home to roost for the education system and parenting styles,sadly for this family, but it could have been any family with a teenage kid.

    • Kel says:

      03:20pm | 03/09/09

      I went through both the public and private school systems and have to say that I found bullying to be rampant in both.
      The only difference between the two from my experience was that the bullying at the state school was far more overt.
      It went on just the same at the private school, but in a more subtle and possibly more sinister manner.
      Bullying is disgusting and I wish I knew the answer to it.
      I agree wholeheartedly with this article and hope that something will be done to prevent anything like this from ever occurring again.

    • Rach says:

      09:54am | 10/05/12

      I think there should be harder laws on students. At this stage I am currently a student in year 11, and throughout my schhool (both private and public) I have experienced bullying. I believe that each teacher should be trained to deal with any form of bullying and to stop it before it becomes that extreme. Students who are causing problems for others should be punished and have parents notified. If it continues they should be put on an anti-bullying contract with the school, that also involves their parents. If they break the contract the kid should be kicked out of the school.

 

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