Damn it’s tough to lose weight in mid-age.

Genes or just too-tight jeans? Picture: Paul Trezise.

I think back to my 20s and 30s when see sawing weight meant gaining just a few kilos and the top end of my weight spectrum was 12 kilos lighter than I am now.

I tried a personal trainer but having to drive across the city to exercise in the dark was a drag.

I have a wardrobe full of great clothes yet spend ages each day hunting for the handful of things that actually fit. If I lost weight I wouldn’t need to buy a new outfit for years. With the weight gain came a period of size denial so many of my clothes have never been worn.

I’m in a “Biggest Loser” competition at work and have so far gained two kilos and lost 1.5 kilos. I’ve tried nutritionists and weight watchers and contemplated but then shunned weight loss drugs.

I played competitive sport from age 7 to 34. In my news journalism days I drank often and smoked a lot but ditched those bad habits. Somewhere along the line a bit of stress eating crept in – probably replacing the smoking and drinking. Whatever the cause, I started piling on the kilos.

People generously offer me excuses. A “slowing metabolism” is one. Being in my mid-40s another popular life line is “maybe you’re peri menopausal”. I now panic whenever I feel hot asking the blokes and 20-somethings in my office “is anyone else hot?” So far it actually has been a thermostat issue but I really must stop asking that question because one day I will be the only hot one and not in a good way.

(By the way, my former personal trainer, Sarah, is a slim and fit 50-something mother of four. So much for menopause or motherhood being an excuse).

My Dad says “it’s in the genes”. Big size jeans more like it. I remember seeing a visiting American medical academic speak in Sydney last year about thinking beyond your genes.

He played a TV ad to the audience featuring a pretty, ash blonde 50-something woman speaking soothingly to camera about weight problems. “It’s not your fault,” she cooed before spruiking a diet drug. It is my fault.

This month’s Pharmacy News claims weight loss and obesity drugs are in decline. Business analyst Datamonitor told the mag that most health care professionals still regard obesity “as the result of lifestyle choices that could be better managed through diet and exercise rather than drugs.”

I would love to blame genes, metabolism, increasing portion sizes in restaurants or additives in food but at the end of the day I eat too much for the amount of exercise I am doing.

I have access to a subsidised office gym only a block away and a 7 km waterside walking track a few minutes from home.  I love fresh vegetables, fruit, nuts and all things healthy. This should be totally doable. 

You might have some very real condition keeping you from shedding the kilos but I don’t.

The challenge is flicking that switch in my brain that makes weight loss more compelling than keeping the weight on and I think I may have finally found it. The threat of a horrible death. Bit dramatic but nothing else has worked so far.

Last week I interviewed Professor Graham Colditz for an article. The Australian-born health prevention expert has taught at Harvard and now teaches at the University of Washington Medical School. 

He has Australia’s ever expanding waist line in his sights and predicts we will see the number of cancer cases here double within two decades if we don’t lose weight and start moving about. He says weight issues and obesity are already costing Australia $21 billion a year so its time to get serious.

As well as making ourselves vulnerable to cancer, we are also risking diabetes, heart disease, sleep disorders and stroke.

So here is the good news. According to Professor Colditz, more than 50 per cent of cancers can be prevented through lifestyle change including smoking cessation, moderate drinking, weight loss and increased physical activity.
More than 20 per cent of cancer deaths in women and 14 per cent in men are due to weight issues and obesity.

Regular exercise can reduce your risk of colon cancer by half and a woman’s chance of breast cancer by 20 per cent.

Dropping 10 kilos after menopause can reduce an overweight woman’s risk of breast cancer by 60 per cent. A loss of even 2.5 kilograms could lower a woman’s risk of breast cancer by 15 per cent.

Since our conversation I’ve already lost 1.1 kilos doing nothing more than walking and making more sensible food choices.

A long time friend and fellow weight loss warrior asked me if she should try a new herbal weight loss remedy. I don’t reckon she needs to spend another cent. Nor do I. We know everything we need to know about weight loss – we just need to put it into action because the price of inaction is way too high.

Kate Southam is the editor of CareerOne.com.au.

Don’t miss: Get The Punch in your inbox every day

Get The Punch on Facebook

63 comments

Show oldest | newest first

    • black friday hostgator 2011 says:

      09:48am | 25/11/11

      Digital community is not a exclusion to be able to Black Friday. In truth Black Friday might be more recognised on the web in comparison with full stores. Hostgator the leading web hosting corporation in the world isn’t any difference to help it. Hostgator Black Friday was another almost all dug into words in Google during 2010. People went loony utilizing choosing its web hosting plans. No minimal within made available 80% OFF come to terms for that restricted time period after which 50% OFF entire Black Friday.
      You Can Check Out Hostgator Black Friday 2011 Hot Offer HERE
      black friday hostgator2011

    • enape says:

      08:47am | 14/11/11

      must look at this <a >gucci collection 2010</a>  to take huge discount   at my estore

    • jargy says:

      01:31pm | 03/11/11

      for , just clicks away   to your friends

    • Liada says:

      11:47am | 21/10/11

      view for less   with confident

    • Drern says:

      07:53am | 21/10/11

      I’m sure the best for you for gift   for less

    • streaming says:

      07:59am | 01/10/11

      faux tu consultais l arnacoeur megavideo subitement lez allo streaming film. tout nous contemplerons paranormal activity streaming concernant arnacoeur streaming et j’ajoute streaming film. autrefois j’avais choisi streaming megavideo rapidement de web tv streaming.     
        brut il avait chéri rue du streaming ex nihilo parmi streaming mégavidéo. étrangement Imparfait l arnacoeur megavideo outre un site ou ils auront choisi ce film megaupload. alentour vous précisez site megaupload graduellement parmi arnacoeur streaming megavideo. bruyamment nous indiquons megaupload avatar au-dedans streaming free, nous conseillions megavideo streaming gratuit.   
         
        Futur simple mégavidéo illimité amplement durant watchmen megaupload.  vous stipuliez le film sur megaupload entre-temps lez megavideo vlc ou j’eus exposé cet article. singulièrement il avait préféré une serie tv près 72 minutes megavideo.  nous annonçâmes megaupload aussitôt pour ebook megaupload et vous indiquiez esther megaupload. copieusement tu soulignais lecteur megavideo avec streaming hd.  ils stipulent date limite streaming sur harry potter megaupload ou ils ont indiqué gta 4 megaupload.   
      http://www.gstreaming.net

    • climatisation says:

      06:57am | 23/09/11

      il a eu climatiseur orieme avis concernant une toshiba inverter.  j’embrassai le kimo devant une fuite d’eau ou vous affichiez ce alpatec.  il choisissait climatisation bricoman agréablement concernant un whirlpool.         
        ils ont crédité un xelance fièrement sauf cette split. radicalement ils stipulaient une kangoo pour climatisation hiyasu , nous révélâmes la reversible mitsubishi.  il connecta la bureau suivant less portables. amicalement nous élisons climatiseur non reversible çà au-delà de climatiseur ou rafraichisseur et il eut admiré un portable.       
             
      quelquefois tu apercevras climatiseur silencieux concernant une windo.  je glorifiai ce zibro avis étroitement sans un à condensation et j’eus dévoilé la haier. facilement vous aurez stipulé air climatisé mural selon climatiseur beko. même tu aimais le odeur éperdument au-dedans cette centralisée, Imparfait une inverter daikin.  nous considérerons clim gainable avant climatisation westpoint.  tu aimas un notice chez une toshiba et tu as embrassé danby.     
       
      http://www.brownsugarblog.com

    • Kate Southam says:

      02:19pm | 22/03/10

      Just checking in - I did the weigh in for our office “Biggest Loser” competition and have lost another kilo!

    • Michaela says:

      09:24pm | 21/03/10

      Reading this makes me reflective.  I have always been skinny and can eat what I like.  I always get comments about my figure, but I don’t even notice the comments, because all I think is - I would rather be overweight and have olive skin, than have a fantastic figure and fair skin.  Maybe we are all too hard on ourselves and the grass is always greener.

    • Fat for no reason says:

      12:58pm | 21/03/10

      I am in my mid-20’s and have battled my weight all my life. I was a skinny, active kid but once puberty kicked something changed. It is extremely difficult for me to lose weight. I eat healthy food and have been counting calories since I was 15 (I eat a healthy amount of calories but less than I should to maintain my height/weight, so the maths would indicate I should lose weight slowly at a rate of about 0.5kg/week). However doing this I have managed to lose only about 10kg in 10 years. I am still trying (I would like to lose another 10). I go to the gym and work my bum off and nothing. Most people my age eat what they like and are skinny, while I watch every calorie and exercise and stay exactly the same. It is heartbreaking. God forbid I have a night out and over-indulge, I’ll gain 1-2kg from that. I’ve been to the doctors and they say I have nothing wrong with me (mind you my thyroid function only just scraped into the low range). I am also on the pill which I believe (despite what doctors say) makes it hard to lose weight (for me anyway). I also have a food allergy (allergic to wheat) so no matter what my diet is always healthy because of this. I am at a loss as to what else I can do to get to a healthy weight. I am scared about my metabolism slowing down any more when I get older. I envy people who have no trouble keeping their weight down. It is my one wish in life is to have that.

    • Jolanda says:

      04:06pm | 20/03/10

      I am lucky in that I have always naturally been rather slim sitting on 52 Kilos in summer and 54 kilos in winter - I am not very tall.  People delighted in calling me a b…....ch and saying, just wait until you turn 35 then things will change.  Then when I hit 35 they said just wait until you turn 45 then things will change.  Well I turned 45 and things did change I no longer sat on 52 in summer, I couldn’t get below 54 in summer and I sat on 56 in winter wanting to push on 57.  Of course still there is no sympathy despite that I have had to buy new jeans.  Now I am 46 and I worry as everybody is now saying wait until you hit menopause.  I still play soccer and am quite active and I don’t believe I have changed my lifestyle that much, still like my scotch and my food.  It makes me believe that age does make a difference and I worry about the number 50 that is looming on the horizon and whether it will mean more kilos to add on.

    • michellemac says:

      03:55pm | 20/03/10

      I cut down the portion sizes of our evening meals for my husband and I about 18 months ago. I was (just) within my healthy BMI and he was officially ‘morbidly obese’. I’ve lost about 8 kilos and he’s lost nearly 30 in 18 months from that one small change. Our meals were always healthy but we just ate too much. We’re used to it now but at the begining we ate our meal and then made ourselves wait 30 mins before eating anything else. If we were still hungry we had a piece of fruit. 9 times out of 10 we weren;t hungry after waiting, which has really taught us just how much we were over eating!

      I now have a colleague who is early 40s complaining about her weight despite ‘eating healthily’. She brings in salads and veggie meals for lunch but MY GOD, the size of the servings!! SHe piles the plate high! Even ‘eating healthily’ has it’s limits. The fact of the matter is that the more you eat, the more energy you need to burn or you put on weight.

    • Amber says:

      06:41pm | 19/03/10

      Try swimming - no impact and the panacea for every muscle/joint ailment around, pretty much and will get you fit,  4 times faster than walking. You’ll also notice firmer, tighter body.

    • Evan says:

      05:18pm | 19/03/10

      Kate, interesting article. I have to wonder, driving across the city for a personal trainer does not sound like a good option. It sounds like a total pain. Could you not find one closer to home or work?  IMHO the best way to exercise is to find something you just really love doing. Incorporate fitness into your everyday life and hobbies and socialising. Even work… like walking meetings.

    • Adam Diver says:

      02:04pm | 20/03/10

      Driving across town is a pain but a walking meeting is a clever way to add exercise into your routine? What kind of idiot would have a walking meeting how stupid could one possibly look. Why not have meetings on stationary ikes at least no-one else can see how stupid you look.

    • Shama says:

      03:37pm | 19/03/10

      Whilst the other points in this article are fairly bang on, re health and obesity, most people’s life experiences would indicate that illness is not a respector of weight.  You can have the perfect BMI and still find yourself sick. The relation between weight and illness is far too complex to come to any conclusions.  I wish people would not perpetuate the idea that “you control your weight, you can control health” - this ends up putting enormous stress on people who “do the right things” and yet find themselves ill.  Alternately it demonises obese people who may be perfectly well and yet are seen as putting a strain on the health system.  It’s the old human fallacy of being tricked by the exterior.

    • Ellie says:

      03:23pm | 19/03/10

      Thanks for the article, Kate. I used to be very critical of overweight people, but then I started learning more about it, and discovered the reasons why it is so hard for some people to lose it. Especially when it starts in childhood. Then you have trouble for the rest of your life. I have a friend who used to be 120 kg. Now she is a 65kg personal trainer, but it is incredibly hard for her to keep the weight off. Seeing her has helped me a lot to understand what others in the same situation have to go through.

    • New Runner says:

      02:48pm | 19/03/10

      I can heartily recommend the ‘Couch to 5K’ running/jogging program.  You can get a free podcast from iTunes, created by Robert Ullrey.  I am in week 7 of the 9 week program and can run 25 minutes non stop now.  My weight is falling, though I wasn’t overweight to start with.  I feel simply fantastic and find the time to work through the program, 3 times a week.  This costs you nothing and is a safe and effective exercise program.  Be warned though, it’s hard work every single time but the rewards are tremendous and improvement happens very very quickly.

    • H of SA says:

      02:24pm | 19/03/10

      You know, one thing that used to hold me back a bit from excersize was, I kid you not - a fear I might be doing it out of vanity. It was really irrational because I can be very vain in other ways anyhow.

      But honestly I didn’t wanna pick up the weights partly because I didn’t wanna be one those self-loving body image obsessed guys.

      Then I realise I actually would not be being selfish if I stayed healthy as this would benefit my family especially in later life. The thought of going through a bipass like most of my older male relative and all the associated hassels which would deny me time for other people helped me wake up to myself.

      Being healthy ain’t being selfish as the healthy can do more for others

    • Bob H says:

      02:13pm | 19/03/10

      If you are putting on weight or too heavy - to much fuel is going in and/or there is not enough activity/exercise for that amount of fuel.  These are simple levers to control reduce the intake or exercise more.  There is no magic, no celebrity can lead you into Slimdom merely by handing over credit card details.  It requires discipline and effort, without which you may as well not bother and just be happy the size you are remember most people in Australia are overweight so it is not as if you are going to stick out.

    • Justin says:

      02:04pm | 19/03/10

      When you’re a vegan, there aint much out there to eat that isn’t healthy. The great thing is you’re forced to prep your food from scratch much of the time.

      32kg’s in 6 months, excercise is cardio and resistance mix, for about 45 minutes, two to three times a week. Can skip a week or two and still lose weight, and my meals fill me with energy, unlike the clumps of meat that sat in my stomach like a brick.

      Horses for courses. It ain’t for everyone, but it bloody well worked for me.

    • Seppi says:

      01:50pm | 19/03/10

      I’ve been about the same size & weight since my teens, with an occasional kilo or 2 extra every now & then (usually winter) but generally always been slim.  I didn’t have trouble losing weight when I put my mind to it but it was getting more difficult to shift as I got older.

      That was until last year when I lost weight, unintenionally, due to stress (not recommended). When the stress passed, I expected to put the weight back on (especially over Xmas & not much exercise for a month), but I’ve actually lost more weight without really trying. I’m in my 40’s and I’ve always had a healthy diet with my exercise routine not changing for the last few years which is mainly walking & 8hrs of dance classes a week. When people   comment on my recent weight loss (I’ve even been asked if anything is wrong and/or if I’m sick)  I make up a story about eating more salads due to the hot & humid Sydney summer because the truth is I don’t know and I don’t have problems with energy or stamina & I feel fine. It can’t be my genetic make up because both my parents were overweight at my age and they still are.

      Last week I finally went to buy new clothes (which I had been putting off expecting that I would put the weight back on) and found I’ve gone down a dress size .  I don’t own pair of scales as I’ve always used my clothes as an indicator: when they start to tighten, it’s time to take action, so I don’t really know how much weight I’ve lost.

    • Heather says:

      01:53pm | 19/03/10

      I agree with the article; I put on about 3kg in my late 40s, and finding it very hard to lose it…plus the 2 extra kgs put on earlier! And instead of the usual place, ie. my butt, it’s horribly flabby wobbly stomach fat, eeeeeuw!!!! And I don’t eat junk, I only eat fresh unprocessed food, and exercise religiously every day, for at least an hour, but I still find it hard to lose weight. I don’t even LIKE sweet foods, I can’t stand biscuits, cakes, soft drinks or lollies and haven’t eaten pastry in 20 years! But wine is lethal for me; as soon as I have a drink, it reduces my no-snacking inhibitions. But I find that to lose weight I need an incentive! I wish there was a middle-aged person’s “weight watchers” for those who only need to lose a few kilos! And somewhere where you have to meet every week and weigh yourself in front of others, not secretly. Anyone know of somewhere like that? If I had time, I’d start the group myself!!!  My doctor says I WILL gain weight because of menopause, please anyone show me how to prove her WRONG!

    • Adam Diver says:

      02:00pm | 20/03/10

      Stop Drinking Wine????

      Don’t want to be rude but this is the exact attitude referred to in the article and is the reason you won’t lose weight. If what your are doing is not working change it up!

    • Luke Alexander says:

      01:05pm | 19/03/10

      Great article.  We all know what we have to do to get fit and be healthy - many of us just make excuses not too (I’m too tired, too stressed etc).  I actually find exercise is the perfect antidote to a stressful day in the office (sat on my backside for at least 8 hrs). 

      It’s not about being an exercise nut or eating rabbit food - we just need balance… and common sense!  Have the odd take away and occassional drink if you like but make sure that you also take regular exercise and eat plenty of nutritious food with veggies each day.  You really don’t need to revolutionise your life to keep in shape!

    • Miles says:

      12:03pm | 19/03/10

      Kate, I’m thoroughly impressed that you are so honest.  I’m also thoroughly impressed that this is not just another article to justify that’s it’s ok to be obese.  Motivation and willpower are the key to any sort of regular fitness.  It’s easy to start, but hard to maintain.  BUT, more importantly, it CAN be done very simply as you have acknowledged.

    • Hilary J says:

      11:44am | 19/03/10

      It harder for a female and probably males as you get older. You wild dancing days are gone, so you can forget that excersise. Your more inclined to lay back and let the world zoom by. Your metabolism slows and the pounds roll on.  Grandchildren are a good fat burner, chasing them around sure runs those pounds off. Your best bet I feel is to try to maintain a healthy weight, because after menopause you will find everything in life is a much slower pace.  Here’s a tip from someone who’s been there. just slide gracefully into middle age and don’t stress life and take good care of yourself,  dress well and eat well and above all enjoy life

    • Ginger says:

      10:47am | 19/03/10

      @BTS- I’m really glad your system works for you but you must accept it wont work for others- I doubt a nutritionist would agree with your choices of breakfast and your exercise would seem excessive to many.
      People need to make small adjustments to their lifestyle.
      I think your choices are way down the other end of the spectrum compared to many others.

    • Adam Diver says:

      01:55pm | 20/03/10

      @ BTS. I have to agree that your diet does not seem the most nutritionally balanced but I tend to agree with your sentiments. Whilst I strongly believe in a good breakfast at least you are not stuffing your face with deep fried foods and sitting on the couch. That by any measurement is far, far worse than anything you do and should be treated as such.

    • BTS says:

      11:02am | 19/03/10

      Ginger,

      I appreciate that nutrionists might disagree.  Been fit and active for the last eight years when I decided that the middle age weight issue would not happen to me.

      ‘...your exercise would seem excessive…’ ‘People need to make small adjustments to their lifestyle’ -  I did say walk, but you chose to ignore that part, you are already looking for an excuse.  The point being until you make a real effort nothing will happen.  People talk and never ‘do’ and that’s why 60% of the country is obese.  Bluntly, they don’t really care, they won’t make the effort and that’s why the health system is the way it is today.  I know, I know, I am wasting my breath.

    • Ginger says:

      10:43am | 19/03/10

      Reading this was like listening to my own internal dialogue.
      Thanks.
      I think people are well aware of the health risks associated with being overweight or obese.
      But if that’s going to be your switch in your brain that will result in behaviour change then *snaps* to you and I wish you every success.
      I’m going to try goal setting and start being honest- so instead of the goal being “I will exercise for an hour 6 X a week” (when I presently do next to nothing) I’m going to be real with myself and start small.

    • Pete says:

      10:16am | 19/03/10

      Great to see an honest article as compared to those arguing they have a ‘right’ to be obese.

      I’m 49 and have had to focus on weight loss a few times after growing out of my clothes. I’m currently around half way through losing 6 kilos and, like the writer, I’m finding it harder than ever before.

      However, I am losing weight and already feel and look way better than six weeks ago.

      Diet and exercise both matter, but in terms of pure weight loss the former is more important.

      The key to shedding weight is to eat more, but smaller meals. You should be aiming for 5-6 small meals per day, composed of lean protein, complex carbs and fruit and veg. With no carbs after around 3 pm.

      Exercise is fantastic for so many reasons, and it is certainly required if you want to lose weight. The key is finding a form of exercise that you enjoy and which is accessible to you - otherwise you won’t keep up with it.

    • Edward says:

      09:39am | 19/03/10

      I used to be in this spot.  18 months later I have lost 36kg, am competing in Olympic Distance triathlons and do 20hrs+ of physical exercise a week.  I have a wife and son, plus a demanding job but it is totally doable.  I am up at 4am 6 days a week and love it.

    • Emma says:

      09:19am | 19/03/10

      A fantastic and honest story! I can really relate to the stress eating and having everything at your fingertips (a gym 10 minutes walk away) yet still being overweight ... good on you for changing your habits and losing the 1.1kg. It’s not easy, that’s for sure.

    • Mat says:

      08:49am | 19/03/10

      I can relate. 41, go the gym three to four times a week, but it wasn’t enough. I was about five kilos heavier than I wanted to be. It’s actually easy (or should I say simple). Don’t drink (or don’t drink during the week) is the main thing, and cut out things like muffins and cookies with your coffee - I believe those foods have got much more to do with boredom than hunger. Plus half an hour of cardiovascular exercise two or three times a week. That means running, not walking. If you can’t run for half an hour run for 15 minutes, walk for a couple of minutes then run again. You’ll be up to half an hour in no time. And importantly, find somewhere nice to run. If you live in Sydney there’s no end of beautiful places to exercise.

    • Onya says:

      07:56am | 19/03/10

      It seems you were making excuses. Now you know not to and you have some good ideas how to do it.

      Eat healthy, fresh and natural and do plenty of rigourous exercise.

      Good luck. Keep at it. It will work.

    • BTS says:

      07:44am | 19/03/10

      Eat Less.
      Exercise More (not a walk, that doesn’t hurt).
      Replace in between meal snacks with a whole litre of water (you won’t be hungry again till meal time).
      Eating is a hobby to most Australians.
      Commitment, not excuses, real Commitment.

    • Emma says:

      01:15am | 20/03/10

      A hand full of unroasted nuts and an apple or some natural yoghurt with honey as a snack not only provide fibre that keep me full (and regular lol), but they also have a whole lot of goodies that keep you healthy and happy. Fasting on water SLOWS your metabolism and in my experience, makes you eat more at meal time. By all means drink a couple of litres of water a day and keep yourself fit, but eat some real food whilst you do it!

    • KH says:

      07:14am | 19/03/10

      Its true I’m afraid.  I’m over 40.  I was carrying a few extra kg’s.  One day I just snapped into gear and started walking everywhere, watching those portion sizes (you really don’t have to eat everything on the plate), and cutting out the excess of rubbish.  In 5 weeks I have lost 3 of those pesky kg’s, and another 2 to go before I sit back happily in the middle of my healthy weight range.  I knew it was me - I knew I was eating too many bad things, and too much.  I knew I had gotten lazy - catching a tram instead of walking and so on.  It was just me - no excuses.

      I hear people complain about their weight every day - one woman in particular at work is always moaning about it.  The other day, I saw her in the shop getting her ‘breakfast’ - which included 2 sausage rolls, amongst other things.  She then proceeded to tell us how she had waited nearly 20 minutes to get a car parking spot near to our office entrance so she didn’t have to walk 50 metres!  The hilarious thing is she lives the next suburb - and she drives to work…..... Some people really just can’t be honest about what they eat and do - they just won’t accept that the only reason they are overweight is because they are shoving too much food into their mouths, and then do no exercise. 

      So Kate - you are absolutely right - the first step is to admit that it is you that has the problem!  Once you accept this, you can start to turn it around - because it is also you that has the solution.  One of the benefits of being human is you have a brain, and your brain can override any impulses you might have, if you have the will to do it.

    • iansand says:

      07:13am | 19/03/10

      Yep.  Nothing like a good scare.  I fell into the hands of the medical profession about this time last year.  So far I have lost 12 kg, and still falling.

      Learning to tolerate a bit of hunger and actually thinking about what goes into my mouth seems to have worked. A bit of exercise every day.  And a pedometer, so I actually measure how much I move.

    • Hermano says:

      06:42am | 19/03/10

      Nice one Kate.  I thought this article was going to end badly, tailing off into one of those “why can’t I be fat if I want to be fat/stop judging me” diatribes.
      It’s all about moving: our lifestyles are geared towards everything being easy.  Drive here, sit there for 8 hours, drive home, sit down, pay someone to mow the lawn, pay someone to yell at us to exercise, drive to and from exercise, bla bla bla.  As you said, it’s just making people sick and it doesn’t have to. 
      As an aside, I think the whole personal trainer thing is hilarious.  Seeing them out in the park on Saturday mornings getting paid to tell people to stop being lazy…  gotta be the best job around.  And boot camps are even more fun to watch.

    • S.L says:

      05:28am | 19/03/10

      Boy can I relate to this story! I just had another birthday (1 step closer to 50) and have been conciously trying to lose weight for about 12 months now.
      All my adult life I weighed between 80 to 85 kilos which combined with a height of 180cm is pretty average then 5 years ago I quit a smoking. I was up to 94k in the blink of an eye and now I’m 97k. I now believe a persons metabalism must slow as you get older as I do nothing different now to 20 years ago and the weight is still there! I eat no more (actually I conciously eat less), my Border Collie drags me on a 3K walk at least 4 times a week. I don’t have a sweet tooth and only if I’m desparately hungry will I touch Maccas, KFC etc. My only vice is a beer (but not that much).
      If anyone has any alternative solution I’m all ears…...

    • Catherine Stace says:

      10:32am | 22/03/10

      Whoa!! Maybe it’s not all about losing weight, as that’s a wonderful outcome of taking action and acknolwedging it’s up to you not anyone else. I caution though, the issue is complex. Behind action there needs to be some deep thinking, understanding and acceptance of the real issues which Kate has begun to highlight. This will mean changing habits and going through pain to get to a healthier state. There needs to be more robust debate around nutrition and excercise, which means waking up to consumerism and the crap that goes into packaged goods just to feed the masses and make profits.  Honestly, most packaged foods do not use real ingredients. We are a society eating from chemical numbers disguised as ‘food’.  What I believe to be the defining ‘aha’ moment for my time is to eat nutient rich foods, try to keep to single sourced items - eg: packaged foods usually contain preservatives, chemicals, antibiotics that may wreak havoc on the intestinal gut. Feed our children fresh fruits and veggies so they don’t recreate the cycle of consumerism. We need to remind ourselves that our bodies are an incredible, complex and dynamic system which is often self regulating as long as we give it the best chance to be healthy. Clogging up with fillers such as breads, wheat and bi products such as corn syrup, soy based fill is not what our bodies need or thrive upon.

      We also need to be aware that when we’re stressed our internal organs do not function efficiently as the body is working hard to cope in flight mode, our gut doesn’t digest function properly if we’re stressed.

      The key? Breathe deeply, live a calmer life, eat nutient rich foods, enjoy the day, make conscious decisions on what you put in your mouth and how you live your life. Value your life. Lobby to change environments/settings at your workplace to be healthy, work in your local community to create nutrient rich school canteens. Join Parents Jury and make a difference to others and even change legislation and marketing responsibilities around food ingredients and packaging. Know what your personal values are and live by your credo.  Making strong and ethical choices will help shape and define who you are and your place in the world. Cath

    • Mandy Black says:

      07:07am | 22/03/10

      Kate, food is the most important thing to look at. You can be allegic to some foods or even have some foods not digest as well as others as we get older. Things like breads and wheat crackers are a no no. They cause bloat and take so long to digest.Try hard not to eat after 7pm for a while and that too should really help. Even too much water can cause extra fluid build up. Sit ups which can be done at home along with leg lifts and walking will soon help to shed any extra cals you don’t want. I am currently doing all the above and at 44 yrs of age, it seems to be working well for me so maybe it will help you too. I think with all the fandangled techniques and gyms and dietitians advice, it frightens us off, with the cost and the time but it is not that hard at all if you take it slowly and don’t distract from your goals. Home provides us all with privacy and you can work out anytime without any interuptions.

    • Adam Diver says:

      01:52pm | 20/03/10

      S.L you are making the most common mistake with weight losss etc. I can only hypothesis about the changes in lifestyle that allowed you to “bulk up” but your excercise and diet whlst good is not great. And thats the difference to lose weight you cant snack, drink alcohol or exercise moderately you really need to go the whole nine yards to “shock” your body into losing some kilos. Once you reach your ideal weight your good routine would ten be enough to maintain that weight range.

    • Onya says:

      02:29pm | 19/03/10

      I love it when people accuse those of us that lead a healthy life of being boring.

      Because going to parties and pretending that you’re interested in people that you would normally ignore, drinking yourself stupid or eating cr@p food is sooooooooooo interesting….........

      NOT

    • BTS says:

      02:03pm | 19/03/10

      LOL.

      This is becoming comical!

      193cm, 85kg…the DOCTOR says I am fine.

      I look nothing like a Marathon runner, I am sure of that!

    • Greek Snake says:

      01:44pm | 19/03/10

      Regarding BTS’s “diet”... I’m sure there are many polarised views but it comes down to what works for the individual.

      I’m sure we can all agree, by that training regime, BTS runs a lot. A shitload in fact. All that exercise is burning all the high sugar intake at breakfast while the massive liquid consumption should serve to keep him full. Fact is, that much running will keep his metabolism up so there isn’t so much a need for 5 small meals. His lack of protein is something that pains me though, but I guess for a marathon runner you want as light as weight as possible so you are strictly catering to your caloric needs and nothing more.

      I think the point about resistance training is quite important. You are better off being “good” all-round rather then being an adept runner with the strength of an anorexic sparrow.

      Surely you have all seen Michael Phelps’ diet? The man consumes nearly 6 times what the recommended daily caloric intake is for an average male but he is in prime physical condition. Comes down to Calories In < Calories Out = Weight loss.

    • Batgirl says:

      01:34pm | 19/03/10

      BTS, not trying to be rude, but I’m wondering if you might have an eating disorder. I don’t see how your daily calorie intake could exceed 1000 calories. To maintain a weight an average, very active 75kg, 45 y/o male would need closer to 3000 calories. I suffered anorexia and exercise addiction for 8 years and at 36 now have the bone mass of a 70 y/o. At the time it felt like I was the fittest person in the world, but I was running on adrenelin. Please everyone remember you can be healthy and active without starving yourself. Crumbly bones and teeth isn’t fun or attractive :-(

    • BTS says:

      01:24pm | 19/03/10

      BigMicka,

      Did I tell people to follow the diet?  No.  I explained what I do.  I do notice the type of personalities that are drawn to my comment though. Hysteria. The world is coming to an end.  The sky is falling.

      I do have a professional that I speak with, he’s my Doctor.  Not some Witch Doctor trying to take advantage of people and take their money from them for doing nothing except eat your veges, which everyone knows.  My Doctor, probably more qualified than an ‘exercise scientist’ sees that I am fit and well and improve as each year goes by. 

      Again, without the hysteria, it’s about making serious commitment to being healthy, not lying on the couch, watching television and stuffing chips and beer into yourself.

    • Tom says:

      12:50pm | 19/03/10

      If you find running hard, try cycling (either on a stationary or road bike). It is low impact and hence not bad for your joints, and a more intense exercise than walking. And Schartos, I agree some weight training/resistance work is a good idea, but you do need to do cardio as well.

    • TheBigMicka says:

      12:50pm | 19/03/10

      do not follow the Bts diet.  it is bad.  eat actual food for breakfast and get advice from a professional.  a qualified dietician or exercise scientist

    • BTS says:

      12:37pm | 19/03/10

      Miles,

      Amazing how you are able to judge my life from afar, I thought someone was watching me.  My wife and friends will be most disappointed to know that someone on the internet, who I have never met, says they can no longer be part of my life.  You wouldn’t know what my life balance is, so don’t feel the need to tell me.

      iansand,

      I am aware, run 15km and tell me you don’t need replacement.

    • iansand says:

      12:26pm | 19/03/10

      Gatorade has more sugar than most soft drinks.

    • Miles says:

      11:52am | 19/03/10

      BTS, yes you maybe fit and have the stamina to run this marathon - but you are now revolving your whole life around this.  Do you even have one?  I know people like you, and all they generally do is work and train - that’s it.  I believe there is a balance where you can enjoy life without having to be super-disciplined and still be fit and healthy.  Your case is quite extreme for the average joe.

    • S.L says:

      11:14am | 19/03/10

      Thanks guys I can cop the gatorade or water for breaky. A 5k walk I agree is better than 3 but I have a bad back so a jog is out. Both diets sound ok too but no beer? BOOHOO!!!!!!!!!

    • BTS says:

      11:07am | 19/03/10

      Scharto,

      If it’s so deplorable, and breakfast is so important, how come I am still here 8 years later, healthier than I have ever been.  It works.  I am not interested in paying some ‘professional’ who is going to charge me a fortune and achieve nothing different.  I am not interested in your judgement of me, thanks for stopping by.

    • Schartos says:

      10:51am | 19/03/10

      BTS - your diet is deplorable! Water and Gatorade for breakfast? Breakfast is fundamental for activating your daily metabolism and providing your brain and body with energy - the energy the people will require to be motivated to stay healthy. Bread, for the most part, isn’t particularly great either and nor is processed meat. Dinner should in fact be a smaller meal then lunch and contain almost no carbs, rather it should contain lean, fat-free meat (steamed chicken is best). Vegetables can be eaten at any time of the day and you can eat as much salad as you like provided it’s not loaded with dressings, oils, cheeses and processed meats. Where is your dairy? A little slice of cheese is that it? A balanced diet is far better and one should eat at least 5 small meals a day. Exercise is also crucial but contrary to what everyone believes, cardio is not the great answer. Resistance training is a better option as it increases your resting metabolic rate and it continues to remain raised well after your finished in comparison to cardio work. The best advice is to seek professional advice.

    • BTS says:

      10:30am | 19/03/10

      The week for me:

      Monday 8k run, Tuesday 5k, Wed 6k, Thurs 6k, Fri 15k - distance gets greater each week till July - Marathon on Gold Coast smile

      You don’t need that intensity, but you’re not doing enough exercise.  Walk at least 5k at day for five days and it would be better to jog/run.

      Breakfast: One Litre water, One Litre Gatorade
      Lunch: Two slices of Bread, one slice processed meat or cheese and tomato
      Dinner: Normal Meal - one piece of meat, chicken, two - three veg
      No Beer (None during the week - no more than two on Friday night for you!)

      I bet you eat too much.  Stick with this and I guarantee results.

      It takes real effort!

 

Facebook Recommendations

Read all about it

Punch live

Up to the minute Twitter chatter

Paul Colgan

Greece makes the final and Ireland gets in on a golden ticket. How awkward and embarrassing. Love it. #sbseurovision

Anthony Sharwood

Every single #eurovision band is roxette #sbseurovision

Anthony Sharwood

The weird thing about #eurovision is you've got this massive collection of dorks in a room and no one is wearing Spock ears #sbseurovision

Anthony Sharwood

Europe has the large hadron collider which is light years ahead of its time and #eurovision, where the eighties never die

Recent posts

The latest and greatest

Weekend Punch: Tea or coffee?

Weekend Punch: Tea or coffee?

This is the week that Craig Thomson defended himself in Parliament, Schapelle Corby got clemency and…

Eurovision can’t drown out the human rights abuses

Eurovision can’t drown out the human rights abuses

Last year, thousands of Azerbaijanis spontaneously took to the streets of Baku shouting and chanting.…

Revenge. It doesn’t get a whole lot better than this

Revenge. It doesn’t get a whole lot better than this

Last month, Katy McCaffrey boarded the Disney Wonder cruiseliner. At some point during the trip, a sneaky…

Gentle jabs to the ribs

They must pay for one’s bitter disappointments

They must pay for one’s bitter disappointments

A private school girl’s family is sueing her elite, extremely expensive private school for not… Read more

243 comments

Newsletter

Read all about it

Sign up to the free daily Punch newsletter