Radio rape scandal: Is it time for Kyle to be sacked?

Mondo Rock says:

02:47pm | 29/07/09

Sorry Veronica - it was both a violent event AND a sexual experience. Just because it’s one that doesn’t mean it can’t be the other.

Kyle’s not PM - he’s not even well liked by most Australians - he has no obligation to live up to the ridiculous standards set by our professional finger waggers.

If you actually listen to the interview you will see that Kyle’s question was at the request of the girl’s mother, who was using the program to try to find out whether the young girl is currently sexually active.  The girl dodged the question by raising the rape allegation (which the mother was already aware of, and by the sounds of it doesn’t believe) and so Kyle pressed her to answer it. 

There’s nothing wrong with what Kyle did.  Everyone needs to get a grip.

Trance says:

02:52pm | 29/07/09

one can only hope…

Gordon says:

02:53pm | 29/07/09

Can we finally get this idiot off the air! I’m sick and tired of people being humiliated and hurt by this idiot in order to win ratings.

Wetnose says:

02:54pm | 29/07/09

It seems to me that Kyle definately chose his words wrong, but he was just trying to clarify the question for the purposes of the lie detector. I’m not a big fan of him, but I think for him to be fired over this would mean that his comment would have to be taken out of context. Re-think your word choices Kyle.

dan says:

02:54pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is a sick peice of trash.  Out of this entire event I hope at least kylie will lose his job

Nick says:

02:55pm | 29/07/09

Im not too sure it’s as bad as your’e all making it out to be. If that was his intent, then yes certainly he should be banned. But from reading this article, it looks as though Kyle was asking if the rape was her first and only violent experience. All he asked her was is that your only experience…

Daniel says:

02:56pm | 29/07/09

This is appaling.
Kyle Sandilands you be banned from Radio. Both him and Jackie O think they are above normal society. He needs to loose some weight, stop dying his hair and become a real man, alot of talk behind the microphone and not to peoples faces. If i saw him on fire I wouldnt, well you know.

John Doe says:

02:57pm | 29/07/09

Pfftt.. whats he suposed to do? turn into a psychiatrist and ask her how she feels about that… Kyle has done nothing wrong and should stay on the air. This politically correct idiotic cotten wool society we live in needs to harden up!

Appalled says:

02:57pm | 29/07/09

Mondo, would you be saying the same thing if it was your daughter? You need to get a grip. This has been done for entertainment purposes and backfired badly. Kyle is and always will be an idiot and a twat. The sooner he is out of the public eye the better.

g says:

02:59pm | 29/07/09

agree with mondo. had you actually listened to the segment you will have heard that kyle and jackie had no prior knowledge of the rape allegations, and as soon as this was brought to their attention they ended the segment straight away.  Kyle and jackie are not to blame, if anything the girls mother is the one to blame she is the one who put her daughter in that situation and asked her the question even though she knew about her daughters history.. what kind of mother puts her daughter on national radio to talk about things like that!

For once i wish the tabloids would leave kyle and jackie alone, they provide amusing discussion in between music on the radio, that is their job and they do it well so stop spinning absolute garbarge about them!

P says:

02:59pm | 29/07/09

Why is this woman using a public forum like this to find out if her daughter is sexually active?

megs says:

02:59pm | 29/07/09

Why was he asking teenage girls about their sexual experiences anyway?

Not Impressed says:

02:59pm | 29/07/09

Mondo Rock try growing a brain.  If this does not appeal to you as entirely inappropriate, I’d have to ask what Planet you are from, and what your particular lifeform evolved instead of a brain.  Probably pretty much the same useless piece of terminal evolution that afflicts Kyle Sandilands with foot in mouth disease.  I hope the Broadcasting Authority and the Police kick both of your arses.

Bobbo Bobson says:

03:00pm | 29/07/09

How is this old fool still relevant to his station’s target demographic? Get rid of him. He’s nothing more than a pathetic attention seeker. Bye bye Kyle.  Don’t let the door hit your enormous arse on your way out. Loser.

Peter says:

03:01pm | 29/07/09

There are many more words to describe this guy and if I do so you won’t publish my comments, just use your imagination what I’ll say about him. He is making money out of misery of a child that was rapped. Ignorant isn’t quite the right word. Sacked? How about jailed?

anne says:

03:02pm | 29/07/09

you guys are idiots! you guys didn’t even listen to the full segment and here you are criticizing this and that. SHAME ON YOU

Kevin says:

03:03pm | 29/07/09

After reading the headline and the story here I immediatly thought what Kyle had done was completely unacceptable.
However after listening to the whole radio segment I have a completely different view. I strongly agree with Mondo Rock.

Andrew says:

03:04pm | 29/07/09

Kyle and Jackie O simply cannot get people to listen to their show as they are so boring, this is another stunt to try and encourage people to listen to them.  Kyle,  you need to be left in a dark room and forgotten.

Dan says:

03:05pm | 29/07/09

I coudln’t put it better then the quotes in the story - arrogant, fat, talentless, callous, heartless, and ignorant.
Kyle is a disgrace to the Australian media, even to the tabloid section of it.

Time to go to wherever it is you came from Kyle.

Jonathan says:

03:05pm | 29/07/09

I agree with Appalled:  Kyle is an idiot and a twat.
I reckon he should be sacked just on principle. 
But I don’t really think this is a scandal per se, apart from the predictable media beat-up.  Yeh, Kyle’s a dick, and if this gets him sacked I applaud the media for the witch hunt.  But in his defense, I don’t think the man has an ounce of compassion or empathy and responded thusly when confronted with this rape allegation.

Also, can someone label this as a GenX attack on a GenY?  I haven’t had enough of that yet…

natalie says:

03:06pm | 29/07/09

I think Jackie O is far worse than Kyle. She is extremely ignorant and has zero talent.

Sahara says:

03:06pm | 29/07/09

Personally I think Sandilands is a goose but let’s cut the guy a little slack here. I think the poor girl blurting out that she was raped at 12 would be enough to off-put anyone. Under the circumstances I would suggest for one of the few times in his life Sandilands was lost for words. Being the radio veteran he is he knows that silence is a killer and he just said the first thing that came into his head. Unfortunately it happened to be a poor choice of words.

Claire says:

03:06pm | 29/07/09

Good call Megs! Why the hell were they allowed to drag a 14 year old onto live radio and drill her about her sexual experiences in the first place? That mother is just as big a moron as Kyle and Jackie O. God people suck.

Claire says:

03:07pm | 29/07/09

It is totally inappropriate to ask a young girl about her sexual experiences on-air, even if her mother did request it… he surely can’t be shocked that it backfired on him so spectacularly!

Craig says:

03:07pm | 29/07/09

Kyle has nothing to offer, I don’t watch or listen to him for the simple reason that he carries on like an idiot day in day out.  I have no idea why he’s on air in the first place, must be a Sydney thing.

Molly is right, he has no talent. Bone him I say..

Radio critic says:

03:07pm | 29/07/09

I only listen to 2DayFM in the mornings because of them - not so for Jackie O but for Kyle as he is a great person. Based on what I heard on air, it was from the questions being directed by her mum - who the hell would ever known that she was raped. He has helped a lot of ppl in the past and even now with his donations, no other radio announcer does that. Good on you Kyle!!! People just don’t appreciate that you are doing way better than them.

ollie says:

03:07pm | 29/07/09

that show is gay I don’t listen anymore

jason says:

03:08pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is probably sitting back laughing his head off at all this publicity. That is what he lives for. He is shallow, callous, mindless and probable even d**kless and when it comes down to being a decent human being, i dont think he ever has been or ever will be..

Greg says:

03:09pm | 29/07/09

Sorry, but Kyle over stepped the mark on this one, there are certain lines you do not cross- Kyle did this in the most repugnant disrespectful way possible. These type of questions should be asked by trained professionals ONLY, regardless of what the mother tried to find out, the comment left by “Mondo Rocks” is truly insensitive and should get a reality check. Yes there is PLENTY wrong with what Kyle did.

John Ramsay says:

03:10pm | 29/07/09

The fact that 2Day FM even have this guy on air shows what kind of a radio station they are. This moron offends people everyday and he just thinks he’s entertaining, 2Day FM is a complete joke and their management are a bunch of idiots.

Nat says:

03:11pm | 29/07/09

Regardless of whether the presenters knew of the young girl’s history, the question remains - what were they doing asking a 14 year old girl about her sexual experience?  Surely that is unacceptable and inappropriate in any circumstances.

Shaun says:

03:11pm | 29/07/09

I took 2dayFM off my radio presets last year sometime after Kyle went into a rant, during a news report, about how the cervical cancer vaccination can be bad and how young women shouldn’t be so quick to line up for theirs since “one girl he knew was adversely affected by it”. Face it, the guy is a dropkick and thrives off controversy and making a scene - this latest act shows how heartless and pathetic he really is. The Chaser were suspended for less, get him off the air.

PJC says:

03:11pm | 29/07/09

In what universe is this appropriate content for radio? It is neither entertaining or informative.  I just do not get this stuff at all

Melanie says:

03:12pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is a piece of scum, and Jackie O has been going along with him all these years, giggling at his antics, so she is right there with him. Who listens to these people and why???
Kyle needs to get back to where he started - begging on the streets, because his use to society amounts to nothing.
And the mother needs to be investigated by DOCS…...

Brad says:

03:12pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is THE reason I don’t listen to B105 in Brisbane anymore.  I’m not even sure if he even has a show on that station anymore but it doesn’t matter.  That station is dead to me and not even tuned in on any of my radios.

Belle says:

03:13pm | 29/07/09

I dont think this sort of thing should even be used as “entertainment”. What sort of low does the entertainment industry need to go to these days just to keep viewers? Isnt it bad enough that they are choking us with deadbeat reality series (enough already)? I listen to the radio for music but I have a hard time hearing a song or two because all they do is talk about stupid sh*t. I’m only 25 and I’m fed up with it. The mum should be more responsible than to air her dirty laundry via a public forum and moreover, people should be more responsible in realising that Kyle is simply grabbing ratings and upsetting people because he thinks its fun to do so.

mzd says:

03:12pm | 29/07/09

This sort of segment just exploits idiots who want their 30 seconds of fame. It was always going to backfire. What sort of moronic parent would put their daughter through this? Answer - people who have no clue and look to celebrity for answers.The only good to come out of it is that they’ll get the counselling they probably should’ve had six months ago.

The station needs to take a good hard look at themselves and their accountability.  This was brought up by Media Watch in the past - why wasn’t anything done or the segment tempered slightly. I know the mother should have disclosed this beforehand but not everyone knows how the media works.

Quentin says:

03:13pm | 29/07/09

The people in here screaming sack kyle, he’s a twat etc, have you actually listened to this mornings sample?
In my opinion Kyle did nothing wrong - sure choice of words could have been better.
To Peter July 29th, 2009 at 02:01pm; how is he making money off this issue?
Kyle and Jackie O clearly didnt know that this was the case and wouldnt have proceeded with questioning the girl about this topic had they of known.

Head check people!

Satyen says:

03:13pm | 29/07/09

You guys only think about white australians getting raped but not about other nationalities getting killed? You gotta be kiddin!

PJC says:

03:14pm | 29/07/09

Please remember these segments are pre-recorded. Someone at 2Day FM decided it was appropriate to air.. and after the fact have apologised..

Epicfail 2DayFM and Kyle!

May says:

03:13pm | 29/07/09

I’m more concerned about what type of mother takes her child on a radio station to grill her about her sexual habits. Surely she would be better investing time in improving the lines of communication?

And Mondo, YOU’RE wrong. As someone who has been raped, I think I’m qualified to tell you that there isn’t anything sexual about the experience. It’s about violence and asserting authority.

katrina says:

03:14pm | 29/07/09

sack the bastard!

AD says:

03:14pm | 29/07/09

any excuse to get that idiot of the radio. good riddens.

Quentin says:

03:14pm | 29/07/09

To Kevin July 29th, 2009 at 02:03pm - completely agree with you there!
You need to LISTEN to the sample, and not just believe what you read!!
Stupid sheep out there i tell you!

Justin says:

03:14pm | 29/07/09

I would like to knock Kyle out. Where and when suits?

John says:

03:15pm | 29/07/09

THE POWER IN YOUR FINGERS.
the only way to stop companies like this to change is to Switch or Turn OFF.
I am sick of people winging that the one thing they can do is to change station or totally turn off. this WILL MAKE COMPANIES TO CHANGE.

Paul says:

03:15pm | 29/07/09

A smack in the mouth is all thats needed . Pretty simple

Michelina says:

03:15pm | 29/07/09

I think everyone is focusing on the wrong thing here. The mother is a stupid should never have taken her daughter on radio to ask such personal questions. If she know her daughter had been raped at 12 why did she do nothing about it. DOCS should investigate.
Yes I am a fan of Kyle and Jackie O and I do degree that they should have researched this in a lot more depth before putting it to air but I think sacking them over this is really ridiculous.
If you don’t like them don’t listen!!

D says:

03:15pm | 29/07/09

There’s only once place for brainless twits like Sandylands and that’s F Block at Long Bay and see how he enjoys his first sexual experience

IV says:

03:15pm | 29/07/09

That was 100% the mothers fault. Who would do that to their kids???

Helen R says:

03:15pm | 29/07/09

Much as I don’t like Kyle or Jackie, having listened to the replayed broadcast, I would have to say that I don’t think Kyle did anything wrong. He was simply put in a bad position and I hold the mother of this girl totally responsible. With a mother like that, this daughter doesn’t need any more enemies. How heartless.

davo says:

03:16pm | 29/07/09

Kyle you are a total jerk. You have this idea that you are some kind of tough guy who grew up hard. I really did have an abusive childhood and I am the nicest person you could ever meet. You are a bully, scum, and a coward. Who would victimize a young girl like this. You should be in jail.

Jasmine says:

03:15pm | 29/07/09

There is something very wrong with this man!...aren’t there laws in place that protect minors from all forms of sexual abuse, be it physical or emotional…and for 2Day FM to contining support of the low brow idiot shows that they are more interested in ratings. Why doesnt this moron and his over sexed wife get a room and get of air in any format.

Burgo says:

03:16pm | 29/07/09

I think more focus should be shone on the mother’s role in all this. The mother, KNOWING that her daughter had this experience, still chose to put her on live radio, hooked up to a lie detector, and ask her “Have you had sex before?”.

Even after the daughter replied that she was raped when 12, the mother went on to day “I only found out about that a couple of months ago. I meant the question as APART from that, have you ever had sex?”....

What the hell? How can there not be more outrage at this woman’s behaviour? I’m sorry, but turn the spotlight from Kyle onto the mother. That’s where the real damage is being done.

Clayton says:

03:16pm | 29/07/09

Forget Kyle.  What about the mother???  She took her daughter into that studio and asked the question.

I think the daughter’s response to the question regarding if she has received counselling for being raped at the age of 12 says everything about her.  ‘NO’ 

Keep up the good work mum.  Your a disgrace

George P says:

03:16pm | 29/07/09

The problem is some males like ourselves learn something about ourselves that we don’t see i.e. as in the rape case.  Since we are blinded and never see the other side we need to be told btw you realise such and such.  You can say its common sense but i’ve learnt that, I suffer from the above from time to time and i’m totally unaware of things.  Its unintentional side effect.  Sorry!

Missy May says:

03:16pm | 29/07/09

It was seriously wrong. I don’t like Kyle, but I reckon he was stunned and just saying words to avoid silence. The mother, on the other hand… Who the hell would put her daughter on live radio and ask her about sex, knowing she had been raped. And she hadn’t gotten counselling for her daughter. The Mother has serious issues and the daughter needs support.

JB says:

03:16pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is a sick puppy. If you want to send the station a message about what you think of their “Star” then target their sponsors. When the revenue drops so will they drop Kyle.

brad says:

03:16pm | 29/07/09

Shouldn’t have done that live. Segments like that should be pre-recorded, and subject to approval by the producers. Stupid idiots they are.
In any case I don’t think it is Kyle’s fault. It’s the mothers fault for taking her child on air like that, and the producers fault for allowing it.

lex says:

03:17pm | 29/07/09

Listen to the Radio and Kyle was so Normal.. Blame it on the mother..  She’s the one who asked the Question first..

Tony says:

03:17pm | 29/07/09

The likes of mondo and g rank up there for moronic insensibility with Sandilands. Wiht no knowledge of the ralities of sexual assault - it is most emphatically NOT to be classified as a “sexual experience” but as assault. Go and do some basic reading on the subject you fools.

johno says:

03:17pm | 29/07/09

Kyle sandilands   wanker supreamo, what him now take the mickey outta rape coucellors as he justifies his actions as “the need of the public” to ask such things, like he has done before,  he’s real good at justifying everything he does   i hope someone smashes him and is able to justify that as well

Marie says:

03:17pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is copping the flack?

The mother, only 2 months after finding out that her 14 year old daughter was raped at age 12, encouraged her kid to get on air and be tested by a lie detector on what I’m sure is a sensitive topic to the poor kid - sex.

I’m sure Kyle was in shock, and his response didn’t come from a bad place.

I’m not his greatest fan, but I don’t think he did anything that deserves his head to roll.

hagit. says:

03:18pm | 29/07/09

Kyle should be kicked off radio and TV…he is a racist conceited idiot who does not have a brain or a heart. He should not be allowed to be a public figure and influence our children

Gavin says:

03:18pm | 29/07/09

Sandilands is a pig of a man, and Jackie O aint much better for hanging around with him for so long.  To ever think about replying like thqat proves he has no morals, and should be sactioned from all media outlets for 12 months.  He is scum

Kimberley says:

03:19pm | 29/07/09

While I’m not Kyle’s biggest fan, the person to blame here is this girls mother. The fact that this girls mother would subject her to talking about her sex life on live radio is disgusting, but knowing she’d been raped is just horrifying! We are talking about a child here - this woman is not a good parent and the radio show probably should have realised that when asking a child about her sexual life live on air. No wonder the daughter is acting out when her mother is clearly a terrible influence!

Quentin says:

03:20pm | 29/07/09

You’re all SHEEP!!!

C O N T E X T!!

You people have NONE!

Alex says:

03:20pm | 29/07/09

Kyle Sandilands should be fired, I just to listen to him when him and Jackie O did the Hot 30 about 6 years ago at that point the comedy and antics worked but in recent years his comedy and conduct has become disgraceful and in extremly bad taste.

You do have to ask why a parent would want a question ask on live radio as to whether she had participate in sex or not but Kyle’s conduct is not appropriate.

Daniel says:

03:20pm | 29/07/09

I think he was trying he just wanted to try and push through the terrible silence.

It was:

“I was raped”
*deadly silence*
“Err…right(gears turning in his head to say anything to break the silence) is that the only experience you’ve had?”

He had no idea what to say.

I think it was basically he had no idea what to say but had to break the silence.

I think it’s the Mum for being a bloody IDIOT and not thinking of the rape or telling the station about it prior to the lie detector. BLAME THE MUM.

Tracey says:

03:20pm | 29/07/09

To anyone who listened to the segment you’ll realise it wasn’t Kyle’s intent to belittle or embarrass this girl.  Yes, he was clarifying something that probably should have left alone but there was a very very long pause after the girl revealed she had been raped and I think he just said the first thing that came into his head.  I suspect he was trying to say something, anything.  Jackie then stepped in I think handled it very well.  I think the criticism here should be levelled at the mother - she should have told the radio station about the allegations first and she would have ultimately given permission for her daughter to be hooked up to the lie detector.  Hopefully this girl will get the support she needs from counsellors paid for by 2DayFM as she’s obviously not getting it from her mother.

Mum?? says:

03:20pm | 29/07/09

While Kyle is an idiot and the whole thing is a disgrace what about the mother….. why the hell would you let your child even do this. That is one bad mother!

Pops says:

03:21pm | 29/07/09

I find it odd that everyone is quick to blame Kyle when really it is the mother of the 14 year old girl who is at fault here. She was aware that her daughter had been raped and yet she dragged her onto the show and even continued to question the poor girl after she had revealed on air that she had been raped. The mother should be ASHAMED of herself. How irresponsible and selfish of her.
Im certainly not Kyle’s biggest fan but in his defence - he wasn’t even in the studio this morning and was somewhat relying on his colleagues to do their jobs properly to avoid something like happening.

tim says:

03:20pm | 29/07/09

Kyle’s fashion sense, popularity, wieght, talent etc is irrelevant. No one was expecting her to say she was raped. His words were poorly chosen, but I would think more out of just not knowing what to say. Her mother should not have put her in that position.

Scotto says:

03:21pm | 29/07/09

Umm… I think the question really should be what sort of mother takes her daughter onto a radio show for a lie detector test? <start sarcasm>Hmm… publicly humiliating your own daughter is a really good way to strengthen the relationship - <end sarcasm>

How would any of you react if you were in their position? Would you know the right thing to say? Kyle was obviously stunned and nobody knew what to say! Did anybody laugh? No!

While I think it’s a silly concept for a radio show, especially for a minor, the mother is the one who ought to be copping the abuse over this.  I daresay Kyle & Jackie will be rethinking the approach to this segment in future.

Grant says:

03:22pm | 29/07/09

I can tell that by the majority of the comments here, no one has actually LISTENED to the audio clip. This girl’s mother BROUGHT her on the radio KNOWING that she had been raped and cornered her about having sex. She cornered her and tried to make her say whether that was the only time she had sex or not. Kyle said one stupid thing in the spur of the moment not realising what he was saying… because her mother told Kyle that she wants to find out at pretty much all costs whether her daughter is still having sex. Kyle and Jackie-o then try to comfort her and Kyle said that if she needs any professional help that he will foot the bill. I don’t like Kyle anymore than the next person, but to pin him for something like this is lower than if he actually did do it. Kyle is not in the wrong here… It’s the girl’s mother. This girl’s mother dragged her on a lie detector test to see if she had ever had sex knowing she had been raped before. And you all blame Kyle? Listen to the bloody tape and you might see how much of an idiot you are.

David from SA says:

03:21pm | 29/07/09

Kyle said something stupid but I do not think he meant he was just lost for words. he made up for it in the offer for paying for counselling.

The one we should be attacking is the pitiful excuse for a mother who despite knowing of her daughters claims (regardless of whether she beleived it or not Mondo Rocks) put her duaghter in a public forum to air the dirty laundry and aksed that loaded question about sex which clearly was going to bring it all up particularly if on a lie detector. Shes either, stupid, evil or fame-seeking, either way to humiliate her daughter like that makes her unfit to be a mother

Jonathan says:

03:21pm | 29/07/09

I just read the transcript:
The mother is almost entirely at fault here.  She brought a 14 year old girl, who had told her about the rape, into a (nationally broadcast?) radio show and let her be questioned on a lie detector about her sexual activity.  The mother is a moron, an idiot, a bad parent and basically just a dick.
The only thing Kyle did wrong was not IMMEDIATELY stop the interview.  He asked one more question, which the mother then backed up.  I think Jackie O then did a pretty good job of wrapping the interview up sensibly.

I still think Kyle is a twat and a knob.  But not because of this.

Penny says:

03:22pm | 29/07/09

I’m not even a fan of Kyle, but if you actually listen to the audio, he CLEARLY hasn’t done anything wrong. Damn media hype.

Michael says:

03:22pm | 29/07/09

Listen to the audio before you Judge, Her mum fired her up, and I guess its just what Kyle said, IT was not bad, and NO KYLE DOES NOT NEED TO LOSE HIS JOB

Julia says:

03:22pm | 29/07/09

Most unsupporting mother ever. Wouldn’t that be the reason why the child is actingup?

Harold says:

03:23pm | 29/07/09

I also agree with Mondo. Kyle was certainly insensitive, but not to the extent that this article would attempt to make out.

The real sicko is the mother for using such an humiliating forum to pressure her daughter into revealing whether or not she was sexually active - ESPECIALLY given her daughter’s previous trauma.

Sandy says:

03:23pm | 29/07/09

I can’t stand Kyle but having heard what was said I think this has been taken out of context and blown out of proportion. Get a grip. And who’s the sick one? Kyle? Or the mother putting her 14 year old through a lie detector test about her sexual habits on air!?

debs says:

03:23pm | 29/07/09

the bloke is an idiot, wonder how proud his wife must feel to be married to such a fat, ugly, ignorant and arrogant fool.

Tony says:

03:23pm | 29/07/09

Sandilands is an idiot. If you are not happy with him just change the channel. He deserves nothing less.

Jon says:

03:24pm | 29/07/09

So let me see if I’ve got this right…...a tacky shock jock this morning on breakfast radio, had a 12 year old, possibly sexually active, alleged rape victim hooked up to a lie detector to answer questions posed by him and not a trained polygraph operator.  Her Mother was with her, which means that she’s consented to this, and has possibly instigated it and has by the sound of things vetted the questions.  This is all being played out live on radio on some breakfast show and now people are complaining about one of the questions he asked?  Yup!!

Darryl Price says:

03:24pm | 29/07/09

Hats off to Jackie O for the way in which she shut the whole mess down, and for the compassion she showed to the girl. Kyle is still a boofhead in a poppy hat. What was the mother thinking? Might this girl be off the rails because of her mothers failure to help her to properly deal with this alleged rape? I don’t listen to that show at all and I feel like I’m not missing out on anything of value.

Missy May says:

03:24pm | 29/07/09

I don’t like Kyle, but you can hear he was stunned, you can hear it in his voice when asking ‘was that the only time’. The Mother on the other hand put her daughter in that scenario knowing that she had been raped. I’m not a violent person, but I wish someone would hurt the Mum

Mark says:

03:24pm | 29/07/09

There is nothing Kyle could do to make me think less of him

Gator says:

03:24pm | 29/07/09

Listen to the Audio. This is all a drum up, he did nothing intentionally wrong!

Tristan says:

03:25pm | 29/07/09

My god people - stop being such prudes. If you don’t like it, don’t listen, I don’t listen because I find him annoying, and a fat pig.

Therefore… I have no problem with him, as he never enters my life.

Lyndon says:

03:25pm | 29/07/09

I agree with some of the other comments that it has been taken out of context. I don’t feel that this is something that somebody should be sacked for, but nonetheless I agree with the majority of comments that he is a waste of airtime and should be booted simply because he’s an idiot that has nothing worthwhile to contribute.

Andrew says:

03:25pm | 29/07/09

How the hell did he get to where he is today? He has NO talent! He is an accident…. GET him off the air and away from any media! He is worth nothing!

Deano says:

03:26pm | 29/07/09

I think some of you should listen to the tape before making comments, her Mum is in the wrong here.

Paul Sharrock says:

03:26pm | 29/07/09

Let’s all defend someone saying that a 12 year old somehow deserved..  yeah.. 

It was her mother..  No.. It was the Vile Sandilands who said it, it’s vile it’s disgusing, it’s him, and it’s about time 2day fm was fined for putting the sick idiot on air in the first place.

Alex says:

03:27pm | 29/07/09

As much as I dislike Kyle, he didn’t do anything wrong. He reacted as any person would, the rape comment came out of nowhere, he probably didn’t know if she was being serious or not - the mother knew of this and she brought it up - what she did was publically humiliate her daughter. Kudos to Jackie O for picking up the pieces.

elle says:

03:28pm | 29/07/09

Having listened to the tape, they reacted in a normal way… Kyle is not a counsellor, and he wasnt prepared to hear that. They cut the segment and did very well under the circumstances. The mother knew about this and still decided it would be ok to put her daughter on radio. Of course she was going to fail the question “have you had sex”. What sort of mother does that!

Rog says:

03:28pm | 29/07/09

Why are so many people listening to him so that he gets paid the big bucks? If people don’t listen to his crap then he will be sacked without anyone knowing about it.

Laura says:

03:28pm | 29/07/09

Who thinks entertainment is pressuring a young girl to discuss her sexual encounters on live radio??? Absolutely sick, where were the program managers on that one??

Julie Coker-Godson says:

03:28pm | 29/07/09

The whole episode was not suitable for live radio or any other form of entertainment.  If the mother wanted to know about her daughter’s sexual activity she and her daughter should have gone to a counsellor and discussed the matter IN PRIVATE.  The radio station should have seriously checked these two out BEFORE going live.  My heart goes out to the young girl and what this treatment of her will do for the relationship with her mother. To me it amounts to mental cruelty and I’de be seeking advice urgently from what is called “a friend of the court”.  Dreadful episode, truly dreadful.

Tash says:

03:28pm | 29/07/09

GET OVER IT GUYS!!!!  Kyle didn’t know it was to happen!!!  It could of happened to anyone. He makes good raidio and the young girl seems like a problem child who could of possibly been making the whole thing up.
I think all you people need something better to winge about!

WS says:

03:29pm | 29/07/09

Kyle wasn’t trying to do anyone any harm this morning, and please don’t sack him for that, but Kyle has been one of the nation’s biggest dickheads for a long time, and he should have been sacked long time ago. Haven’t listened to 2Day FM for a long time because of him.

Kate says:

03:29pm | 29/07/09

Firstly - why was a 14 year old on air talking about sex, secondly - why did her monther, who also had knowledge of the rape allow this to occur, and thirdly - although I am no Kyle fan I think we can safely assume that he was shocked and blurted something out without thinking.  The mother needs to take a good hard look at herself, or family services does.

virtualphoenix says:

03:29pm | 29/07/09

I don’t even like Kyle, but listening to the interview to me there is nothing wrong… If anyone is to blame would be the mother, if she knew about this she should not of asked that question on air. Kyle and Jackie well I think they did their job they even offered counselling which the mother should have organised when she was told.

Sharn says:

03:29pm | 29/07/09

Oh please! Give him a break. People- listen to the tape before you go judging and mouthing off. The Mother should have known better then to bring up something like that on the air and the Girl in question should have shown a little discretion and not blurted out something so personal on the radio. Mondo is right, she was dodging the question. She was clearly not happy at being interrogated about her behaviour and this was her way out!The only thing that Kyle and Jackie O are guilty of is working for a radio station that actually air such pathetic segments.

Rob says:

03:29pm | 29/07/09

I saw the headline and listened to the audio, as this news broadcast often gets its headlines wrong. I firmly believe the mother should be investigated by childrens services subjecting her daughter to that for her own gain…his comments were a bit silly, albeit adhock, and i thought Jackie O was accomodating….the figure of blame lay fairly and squarely on the mother!

Jayden says:

03:29pm | 29/07/09

I think everyone needs to slow down and resist the temptation to bag Kyle. Unfortunately, Kyle is the punching bag for all of the “RAPE crisis counsellors”. These rape crisis counsellors should be knocking on the mothers door - theu should proceed to ask her as to why she would expose her daughter to that type of question when she is aware of her voilent experience.

Mich says:

03:29pm | 29/07/09

Sandilands is an idiot but this mother takes the cake! Disgraceful behaviour from her.

Peter B says:

03:30pm | 29/07/09

John Laws and Alan Jones’ cash-for-comments scandal sent the radio industry into a tailspin with lawmakers scrambling for reform.

2Day FM gets to ask a child about questions about sex on air.

Go figure.

Jazmine says:

03:31pm | 29/07/09

Every body needs to calm down and Kyle should be given a chance to explain himself. Im not saying that what he said was right and maybe a different choice of words would have been better way to go, but like mondo said he may have been asking the question at the mothers request as the daughter did avoid it when her mother asked. Maybe he meant was she raped that one time or several times after. Many of us may think this guy is a total tool and has a sick sense of humor, but i really think this is being made out bigger than it needs to be… he should be questioned and given the chance to explain himself, rather than everyone assuming what he “may” have been asking..

benough says:

03:31pm | 29/07/09

From the “Enough Rope” interview I saw with Kyle I came to the conclusion that he isn’t an arsehole, he’s just a bit stupid. Some of the questions Andrew Denton asked him, his was a blank glassy-eyed stare. I think his response the question is just another brain fart from his overly flatulent mind.

Also I agree with what Jonathon said. The mother was 90% responsible for this. Stop the circus and stop the sack all of them.

Jerry says:

03:31pm | 29/07/09

What’s up with RAPE being in capitalized?

Siah says:

03:31pm | 29/07/09

Kyle thinks hes god-like and and is all that behind his microphone.
Even though this was most likely a stunt and the mother were to blame for putting her daughter through public humiliation.
Why is he still on air?? So many times he’s been in the papers for his callous and arrogant behaviour. If he was in a normal everyday job he’d have his arse sacked by now. He’s not proffessional and its embarrassing to have him to be one of the people who represent Australia media wise.

Lach says:

03:32pm | 29/07/09

I think Kyle was unintentionally insensitive. For a male to be told out of the blue like that that a girl has been raped, even the most experienced radio professional will be stuck for words. Either dumb or dumbfounded. He probably felt the need to say something. It was clear soon after he immediately knew the gravity.

The mother is the one who should probably criticised more.

tam says:

03:33pm | 29/07/09

Hang on Kyle didnt ask the question the girls mother did..so why all the flack..kyle justified it for her thats all…Its the girls mother firing the questions on air.And kyle and jackie O werent aware of the rape b4 it went to air but have offered plenty of support for the girl and mum..

Snap says:

03:35pm | 29/07/09

I heard this piece live this morning and I think the responsibility lies with the mother.  She knew of the assault and asked a question with no thought beyond her immediate need for an answer to recent concerns - completely irresponsible and thoughtless, all for 90 seconds of fame.  Most disappointing, the young girl had not had councelling since the assault despite the mother’s knowledge of the event.  A disgrace.
The silence after the young girl disclosed the assault was long and no doubt panic set in for Karl (although a seasoned jock) while attempting to fill it - not the wisest choice of recovery but the longer the silence the more uncomfortable for everyone.  Perhaps the real issue is the canvassing and research done prior to putting these stunts to air.

Belinda says:

03:35pm | 29/07/09

OHHH MYYY GODDD…. Someone needs to speak to this poor girls mother, taking her on live radio and forcing this young girl (HER DAUGHTER) to tell the whole nation about what happened to her… Its the mothers fault for not notifying anyone… I feel for this girl, she was so scared… Why would you do that to your own child…

Frankie says:

03:35pm | 29/07/09

Get Kyle off the radio, even better out of the country.

Scott says:

03:35pm | 29/07/09

Kyle, your not funny, you’d be more useful as a lab rat.

Peta says:

03:35pm | 29/07/09

I don’t like Kyle, but this is NOBODYS fault except that appalling excuse for a mother, she was aware that this had happened to her child, she not only did nothing about it she exploited it to get her bogan arse on the radio.
what a disgrace, if anyone deserves a reprimand it is the mother~

TRASH! says:

03:36pm | 29/07/09

It’s interesting what sort of low life listeners that Kyle and Jackie O show attract?!!..

That mother should be hung out to dry.. The segment overall was so wrong and people that are supporting Kyle above in these comments are just like that Mother that put her daughter on the radio in the first place..

As someone that works in advertising I say if your targeting tasteless bogans.. Aim for the Kyle and Jackie O show.. You will be bang on target!

Georgina says:

03:36pm | 29/07/09

Kyle has repetitively acted as a rude and self absorbed pig thought his radio and television career, diminishing his and whoever he associates with reputation. I feel sorry for Jackie O and question how she has put up with him for so long. I used to listen to the show as was entertaining, but his voice let alone makes me want to be sick. Get him out of Australia, he’s the worst person to ever set foot in our media.

Stacey says:

03:36pm | 29/07/09

I don’t think there was much wrong with Kyle’s question - he was obviously caught off guard, chose his words poorly and stuffed up, which is what anyone would do in that situation. The issue I have IS THAT THE SEGMENT WAS EVER DREAMED UP IN THE FIRST PLACE. Any FOOL can see that this is some poor attempt to exploit a bogan and her poorly raised child for the profits of the radio network. On what planet is it OK for a grown man to quizz a young, reluctant girl on her sex life anyway? The producers and the mother are the ones that are to blame here.

GJM says:

03:37pm | 29/07/09

There is a huge onus here on the researchers and presenters.. begins and ends with them.  Cheap and nasty rubbish but if you listen to them… that’s obviously what you enjoy.  Why is Kyle the one copping the grief here though.. what about Jackie O?  She is portrayed as a role model for young women!

Sarah says:

03:37pm | 29/07/09

PJC 02:14pm

EPIC FAIL - Not everything on radio is pre-recorded.

Jayne says:

03:37pm | 29/07/09

Tony - Kyle said ‘sexual experiences’  because when asked if she’d had sex the girl told him about her rape. Would you have preferred if he called her moronic and explained the difference between sex and assault?

As much as I dislike Kyle Sandilands this was the fault of producers for allowing a topic involving a 14 year old girl and sex to be aired live and the mother for being so entirely insensitive and irresponsible. Kyle’s response was an attempt to bring the topic back to it’s original destination and a reaction to a very uncomfortable situation.

Take Kyle off the air for sure, but not for this.

Summer says:

03:37pm | 29/07/09

I don’t understand why a 12 year old would be subjected to an on air lie detector.  If her Mum is concerned she should go and see a psychologist, or a counsellor.  Shame on the Mother for messing with her childs privacy and shame on the radio station for wanting to air it.  Poor young girl…

iansand says:

03:37pm | 29/07/09

The mother is appalling.

Sandilands was caught in a pretty nasty spot, being well and truly blindsided.  Unfortunately his response was not perfect.

But what perverted bunch of listeners and listens to this sort of stuff? Change your station immediately.  Your moral compass has been demagnetised.

And, if this is a regular segment, what sick, sick radio station lets voyeuristic public humiliation of a human being be broadcast as entertainment?

Chrisi says:

03:39pm | 29/07/09

I dislike Kylie as much as the next person, but really there are two other people to blame here. Firstly the mother for subjecting her child (whether she is sexually active or not, at 14 she is STILL a child) to this sort of questioning in such a public forum. And secondly the shows producers who thought it would be a great segment to subject a 14yr old the the question on live radio.

John says:

03:39pm | 29/07/09

I have been scanning the online newspapers since this morning when I actually heard the segment on the Kyle and Jackie O show, knowing full well the media would sensationalise it and point the finger at the hosts.

I think everyone involved (excluding the mother) was surprised at what the girls said. Kyle is an interviewer and responded with his natural reaction of delving deeper. I believe this was an off the cuff comment without letting what the girl had just said sink in yet.

Jackie took the appropriate action of dropping the segment, and listening to her voice she was obviously shaken by what had happened.

Think of it this way, if the girl hadn’t said anything the mother would have continued to ignore it and possibly believe the girl was lying. Now that the whole of Sydney knows, she is going to receive the best possible care and support she can, at the cost of the radio station.

Michael says:

03:40pm | 29/07/09

They both needed to be axed from the airwaves years ago. I don’t understand how these two continue to get their contract renewed, I don’t know of anyone who is a ‘fan’ of their show.

Pedro says:

03:40pm | 29/07/09

Kyle Sandman is an overweight bogan - much like his listener base. We shouldn’t expect any better than trash from him.

jess says:

03:40pm | 29/07/09

oh please, sure kyle didnt respond in the best way but it was obvious he was shocked and didnt know what to say. both kyle and jackie were shocked. the only person who wasnt shocked was the MOTHER because the dumb ass already knew her daughter was raped. what kind of mother does that?  the mother makes me want to puke - not kyle. typical of the media - bash on a ‘celebrity’ because it attracks more viewers - u should be attacking the mother! her 14 yr old confesses to her that she was raped when she was 12, and she didnt even take her to counselling? and better yet decided humiliate her daughter on national radio? child services should be knocking on their door right now.

Incitatus says:

03:40pm | 29/07/09

We know these scumbags behave like this because they want to profit from the ratings. But you have to ask the following questions:
What sort of people would listen to this program for entertainment? What sort of companies would pay for it with advertisements? The answer; the degenerates corresponding here who think its all ok.

Jack Black says:

03:42pm | 29/07/09

Jackie O has a great rack. Unfortunately, so does Kyle.

Merrick says:

03:42pm | 29/07/09

For the greater good Kyle must go.

I believe in free speech, I believe in a free media, but this man is ruining lives.  People are being denied their rightful place in society, I know Kyle is the number 1 rated announcer but he simply has to go!

Chris says:

03:43pm | 29/07/09

This just in: Kyle Sandilands accepts offer to host new Australian version of The Jerry Springer Show.

Dan says:

03:42pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is a jerkwad and an idiot, but the mother is wholly and solely responsible for this.  Who the hell puts their child in this position?  Also, Sharn (2:29pm), what crack are you on asking a 14 year old to show discretion?  Because you might want to lay off a bit.

Tim R says:

03:43pm | 29/07/09

I agree with Merrick.

Being #1 on radio isn’t important, this concerns ethics and societal good.  He must go

Piers says:

03:43pm | 29/07/09

That is 100% the Mum’s fault. I reckon Kyle is a jerk-off anyway, but that segment all came down to the mum being a complete bitch! I can’t believe she knew her daughter had been raped and she didn’t take her to get counseling.

Jackie says:

03:44pm | 29/07/09

Kyle and Jackie O did nothing wrong.  They were only helping out the Mum who wanted to know if her daughter was having sex.  Kyle said what he said then realised what the daughter had said - it was a little too late to take it back.  The Mum should be kicked up the jacksee cause she knew a month earlier but didn’t do anything about it and didn’t tell the production team before the segment, which probably would never have taken place.  Kyle and Jackie O then apologised, offered to foot the bill on counselling and cut the segment - very professional.  They looked after the interests of the girl and her mother and hoped that the counselling would help mend what had been broken between them.  As for Kyle losing his job - why?  He did nothing wrong and did as much good as he could in the circumstances.

Tracey says:

03:44pm | 29/07/09

It is high time Kyle & Jackie O were fired - they are both hugely disliked & really have nothing to offer other than sick radio segements - Kyle has the audacity to humilate other people yet he is no oil painting himself - as for Jackie O, how can she even work with an absolute pig like him - clearly a dumb blonde

Reality Check says:

03:44pm | 29/07/09

What the hell is Kyle asking a 14 year old girl about her sex life anyway! I hate to say it, Molly Meldrum was right he is talentless, is only talent is controversy! As for those who say people complaining are “professional finger waggers”. Grow Up! In Australia we have broadcasting standards that must be obtained by law, the station knows this and they are just to much to blame for letting this goto air!!

adio says:

03:46pm | 29/07/09

Now I can’t stand Kyle Sandilands or whatever his name is. Think he’s an idiot. But to me, that pause and the question it sounds like he was caught so badly on the hop he spoke while trying to catch up with what he’d just heard.

The mother on the other hand should be absolutely SHOT. I’m horrified and disgusted that that mother would do that. She is not fit to be in charge of anyone to subject her daughter to that ASKING HER that question after she’s been told of a rape.

That mother… unbelieveble. Sack her from parenthood because she already failed her daughter BADLY.

Adam says:

03:45pm | 29/07/09

As much as I hate the guy, you cant point your finger at Kyle on this one, the finger should be pointed at the girls mother

shame on her

Mark says:

03:46pm | 29/07/09

They should both be sacked for this. This makes The Chaser stunts look quite insufficient. 2Day Fm should also be fined for this as well.

Numble says:

03:46pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is only of a symptom of a populace dumb enough to make him their leader.

alfalfa says:

03:47pm | 29/07/09

Sorry mondo rock but you are woefully wrong - Rape is NOT a ‘sexual experience’. Rape is merely assault that involves sexual organs - big difference. If I were to kick you in the balls would we have then shared a ‘sexual experience’??

Esentially the same thing mate….

Kaz says:

03:47pm | 29/07/09

I’ve listened to it all and I think Kyle responded like any male would in that situation and Jacko O responded well.  I imagine it would have been the most awkward moment.  I can’t stand Kyle, he makes my skin creep but I don’t see how he did anything wrong here, you can tell he was shocked and had no iea what to say…yes, his words were chosen badly though. What should be the concern is that they both thought it was appropriate to talk to a 14 year old about sex!  14 is not the age of consent and sex with a minor, if you are not a minor yourself, is rape.  The Mother needs to be investigated as it would appear that she has not supported her daughter getting help about the rape and obviously is unconcerned about her daughters welfare unless it gets her on a radio show.  God, what is happening to us in this country???????

Andrew says:

03:47pm | 29/07/09

I’m not the biggest fan od KS but if you listen to the audio he was caught in a bad spot and probably didn’t know what to say and after that he seemed genuinly sympathtic. The article makes out like he was being his normal obnoxious self. If anyone’s to be held accountable it should be the mother.

Mike says:

03:48pm | 29/07/09

Kyle is a moron…. 2day fM is crappy station…. I stop listening to them a long time ago when they axed Mooney.

Maria says:

03:48pm | 29/07/09

I totally agree with Kyle being an insensitive idiot. But come on, what kind of mother, knowing full well that her daughter had been raped would allow for this to happen in the first place. I think the mother is as much to blame for this as Kyle. I feel for the daughter.

Jeremy says:

03:49pm | 29/07/09

Unbelievable. Even ignoring the rape allegation - did you hear the start of the segment? The girl is scared. She SAYS it’s not fair, and she’s scared. Kyle checks with the lie detector bloke, who says she’s scared. They laugh and CONTINUE INTERROGATING HER LIVE ON AIR.

At what point did publicly interrogating a scared 14 year old girl about her private life become (a) entertainment and (b) acceptable?

narelle says:

03:50pm | 29/07/09

i think they were just shocked, and didnt really know how to deal with, considering the mum knew, i thought they actually handled it quite well.  I dont think anyone put in that kind of situation knows how to deal with it and i think maybe when u listen to the interview u will find its not really kyle being a jerk, i think the mum is a jerk for putting her in that position first, as by asking that question, if the girl said no it would come up a alie.  besides, who on earth puts their kid on the radio for a lie test? pleeeeeeeze teenagers lie all the time!!

Benj says:

03:49pm | 29/07/09

Seriously lie detectors are bullshit, they aren’t accepted in court so why people place so much faith in them is beyond me, this girls mother has serious issues and alterior motives clearly, no wonder her daughter is running away all the time. Also most of this article is a beat up, I’ve listened to the audio and Kyle asked ‘is that the only experience you’ve had’ since when is refering to rape as an experience a bad thing? Is that not correct english? I think its laughable how the print media constantly try to beat up a story, the heading alone is pathetic. I thought your job was to report the news not twist it to make it more sensational, oh that’s right real news and proper journalism is your last concern. The person who should be attacked here is the mother, Kyle and Jackie O don’t force people to do these segments, people volunteer for them and clearly this mother knew more than she revealed. Should someone lose their job because they were conned by a mother who clearly doesn’t know what being a responsible parent is all about, I don’t think so. Listen to the audio and stop jumping on the band wagon you pack of sheep.

Terry says:

03:50pm | 29/07/09

This is not about Kyle. Why are we getting worked up about Kyle? The real piece of trash in this tawdry tale is the mother who brings her CHILD in to be humiliated on a top rating show! That was no forum to be discussing the possible sexual activities of a child. And to think that this alleged “mother”, whose job it is to protect her child, already knew about the rape. What a revolting human being.

Nico says:

03:50pm | 29/07/09

Wow…. I can’t believe all the attention Kyle’s words are getting. WHAT ABOUT THE MOM???? She’s the one who is to blame! She knew about it, did not help her to get any councelling and still subjected her to this public humiliation! Sickening…

edgey says:

03:51pm | 29/07/09

I couldn’t agree more Jess, the mother needs to be sacked. Did anyone think he may have already had that questioned lined up, then this shock confession, and without thinking just blurted it out.
No wonder this girl is having issue with life, she was raped, tells her mum, then the mum instead of getting help drags her daughter onto a radio station and asks that!
Name and shame the mother

Petey of Morley says:

03:51pm | 29/07/09

The mum makes me sick, the DJ’s make me sick, the station makes me sick, this article makes me sick. Forget you all, this is disgusting and ridiculous

Sarah says:

03:51pm | 29/07/09

If you listen to the audio, you will realise that Kyle and Jackie were put in an awkward position. The mother already new her daughter may have been raped and went ahead with the lie detector test asking her about sexual activity anyway pressing her about it.

john stevenson says:

03:52pm | 29/07/09

What bothers me most is that people like Sandilands, Ramsey and Cowel actually have an audience. What’s wrong with you people out there when your entertainment is to see children cry, people humiliated, or hear gutter language. If that’s what you think passes for entertainment nowadays, then its time to dump the TV and get a life

Bobby Bee says:

03:52pm | 29/07/09

That was actually worse than I expected.  I can only assume the entire stations Ethics Department were all off sick.  How does this get on-air with no one saying, “This might not be a good idea”?  You strap a “scared”  and troubled 14 year old down to a lie detector on live radio and question her about sex.  When she breaks down over being raped she is further quizzed about sex. 

HELLO.  What part of that actually sounds like a good idea?

jen says:

03:52pm | 29/07/09

I loathe Kyle and Jackie O but that was in no way their fault. That mother should be ashamed of herself.

Down with Kyle says:

03:52pm | 29/07/09

I’ve scraped better things off the bottom of my shoe than Kyle. As for the mother GG you suck at parenting.

Duncs of Mendooran NSW says:

03:53pm | 29/07/09

Sacking him would mean that he would still be breathing afterward though, doesn’t it…?

adam says:

03:54pm | 29/07/09

People will use any excuse to have a crack at Kyle-
Previous comments made from Readers about the public hating him are incorrect. He is funny, entertaining and shocking and all of this consequently makes 2day fm the no. 1 station.
What happened to that girl was in no way a laughing matter but I think Kyle and Jack handled it well. Not even they saw that coming. Everyone else needs to stop being so freakin precious about everything and lighten the f u k up.
THis segment in the past has pulled in incredible ratings Im sure - the public eat it up because its entertaining . I dont think 2day fm and Kyle and Jackie have done anything wrong
In fact quite the opposite they offered that poor girl counselling.

Hayley Roberts says:

03:54pm | 29/07/09

I am NOT Kyle supported, but i think he genuinely didn’t know how to respond to the situation.

I think the Mother is the irresponsible one for asking her daughter ON AIR if she has had sex, when she knew she’d been raped.  What did she think would happen?

Matt says:

03:54pm | 29/07/09

Every time i channel surf to these idiots i’m stunned. This just took the cake

Amanda says:

03:55pm | 29/07/09

Does not anybody think that when put in an awkward and unexpected situation, he just said the first thing that came into his head - get a grip people

Erica says:

03:55pm | 29/07/09

For an adult male to ask a 12 year old about her sex-life is just wrong. Nobody can defend this in any way. If it was in any other situation the male adult would be considered a type of pervert, or even worse a pedophile. For the radio station to continue to employ Kyle is also wrong. I hope the sponsors of his radio show realise what type of person they are supporting. I also think the mother is to blame, but Kyle and Jackie should have used their common sense that you don’t take a 12 year girl and put her in this situation.

Brad says:

03:55pm | 29/07/09

Sounds like a publicity stunt 2 me. In recent years the station has become entertainment for young bogans in training.

Shocked says:

03:55pm | 29/07/09

What sort of a trash mother allows her 14 year old daughter to be put on RADIO, hooked up to a lie detector machine and then be questioned about her SEX LIFE?????? And what sort of a radio station allows this to happen. Isn’t this CHILD ABUSE??? And we wonder why kids these days have so many problems.

Dee says:

03:55pm | 29/07/09

Her own MOTHER humiliated her here, not Kyle.  As a mother you are to protect your child and she put this poor girl through a very public humilation. Disgusting and poor example of a mother.

Mark says:

03:57pm | 29/07/09

It should have been stopped and should not have gone to air it is simple as that.
This fool and thats exactly what he is should not be on air, those of you who are defending this idiot need to pull your heads in

Red says:

03:57pm | 29/07/09

Kyle sounded shocked and lost for words. The hosts we taken aback at something that is really terrible.

Real question is the mother for knowingly putting her daughter into the situation.

a man says:

03:58pm | 29/07/09

I’m the father of a girl who was raped and that has hit me so hard I’m in tears of anger at that mother doing that to her girl. Kyle just had no idea what to say to that and I can’t say I can blame him but that mother…  there has to be a crime she can be charged for.

When my daughter was raped I wanted to protect her and - to be honest - kill inflicting as much pain as possible the guy that did it to her. But this mother wanted to humiliate her daughter live on radio. How is that normal?

Melissa says:

03:58pm | 29/07/09

For all of you who have judged Kyle, you should all be ashamed of yourselves. If you actually listened to the segment you will see both Kyle and Jackie had no knowledge of the girls rape experience and it was the girl’s own mother who wanted the question answered.

Kyle has done NOTHING wrong and it was both he and Jackie O who were supportive and offerred the girl counselling. I think it’s about time the media report the facts for a change !!

Dutch says:

03:59pm | 29/07/09

Just get over it… It was clear that this was a suprise to both Jacky and Kyle. They mentioned in the show they didn’t know about the rape and if they had known they would have never gone to air with it. His repsonse was probably the first thing he could think about after the surprise. Clearly not tactfull, but hey that is Kyle and that is was makes the show interesting. Kyle is not afraid to tell it like it is and if the truth hurts certain people, there is a simple solution; turn off your radio or change it to a different station. Just my 2cts.

LH says:

04:00pm | 29/07/09

I haven’t even heard the segment and i HATE kyle, but what kind of MOTHER would do that to her daughter?????On the RADIO???? She should believe her daughter and not try to catch her out in a lie that actually isn’t one…that woman needs to have her daughter taken away from her… If my mum did that to me I would never speak to her again. I had a COUNSELLOR say to me once when i told her this happened to me when I was the same age and she said “what did you do that made them do that to you?!?“wtf??(never went back to her) so…that mother is just like that counsellor I had. She needs to BE THERE for her daughter, not get her on the radio to confess her sexual experiences through a lie detector, just so she can punish her for it later on…. I hope she feels terrible. The fact the girl said to her mother - ‘and don’t smile because it’s not funny’....WTF?!? her own mother had a smile on her face????? kind of emotionless woman is that??she does not deserve to have a daughter. I’m angry now.

Moe says:

04:00pm | 29/07/09

All you Kyle haters yes he maybe had a bad choice of words but your anger should be aimed at the stupid mother, who knew that her daughter had been through yet still went ahead with the segment knowing that she was ineteding to ask about her daughters sexual behaviour…  someone call docs!

Billion Dollar Princess of Pagewood says:

04:00pm | 29/07/09

The person to blame here is the mother!  What a disgusting human being she is doing that to her daughter, my god woman, where is your parenting skills, let alone the feeling you should have for your flesh and blood?  Someone please take this girl off this disgusting woman who should never have kids, people out there would die to be parents and this is how a woman treats her daughter!  Leave girl, before you become like your deranged mother!!

Brenton says:

04:03pm | 29/07/09

Kyle did nothing wrong! he handled that both professionally and with sympathy, as did Jackie-O.  They aborted the rest of the test and went one further and offered counselling! jeez!

Stop trying to blame ridiculous things on Kyle - hes a champ

Andrew says:

04:03pm | 29/07/09

Why was she doing a lie detector test?  Surely that would ring alarm bells with the mother?

Grange says:

04:03pm | 29/07/09

Isn’t this the mother’s fault completely??? She knew about it and just wanted to be on the radio by the sounds of it. She should be the one with the case to answer…. Jackie O did a fantastic job with this and I think Kyle was just stunned by the turn of events…

Chris says:

04:03pm | 29/07/09

Mondo Rock, its still the trashiest of trashy radio though. I hope no one argues with that!

Dean says:

04:05pm | 29/07/09

Oh my god. Kyle should definitely NOT be sacked over this incident. This poor girl’s mother is a complete and utter idiot. How in the world could any mother allow an interview to like this to go on, knowing that her daughter HAD been raped, and that questions would be asked about wheher she had had sex?? The mother even apparently looked at the girl and smiled as the question was beeing asked!!!??? WTF???!!! I listened to the audio and the way I see it is that it took Kyle by such surprise that he didn’t know what to say, so he just made an off-the-cuff smart arse remark, which in hindsight was in very poor taste. To be honest I don’t blame him, I mean really, who, after being presented with a comment like, “I was raped when I was twelve” live on air, would be able to respond with an appropriate reply?? What the hell could you say??

Joel says:

04:06pm | 29/07/09

You people are a bunch of idiots. Kyle has done nothing wrong. The mother is the one at fault, she should have told 2day fm. Kyle actually offered some help to the girl. And so did jackie. All you people need to get a life

Andrew says:

04:06pm | 29/07/09

How about listening to the audio and thinking about this for a moment, instead of getting on the bandwagon of sacking Kyle.

I don’t listen to the radio while he is on, but it is *painfully obvious* that he was just at a loss for words and send the first thing that he thought of to try and handle the situation (had he had a few more moments to think about it, I’m positive he would not have said it).

There is no reason to blame Kyle here, this was just a reaction to shock.

The mother however is a waste of space by the sounds of it and to bring her on the show and ask that question is just so stupid, ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE ALREADY KNEW THE ANSWER, good GOD.

The title of this article should be “Radio rape scandal: A stupid mother who knows her daughter has been raped publicises it”.

laura says:

04:07pm | 29/07/09

get rid of him - I can’t believe he was so insensitive. but the point is the whole segment is inappropriate, regardless of the tragedy of this young girl being raped. the mother, and the two hosts are in an inappropriate control of power over the minor anyway, no matter what her experiences had been

kane says:

04:07pm | 29/07/09

howcome everyone is either blaming kyle, or the mum. what about whoever raped her. also kyle sandilands is the worst person in the world. I think there’s a facebook group ‘kyle sandliands is a wanker’ or something. get on it.

Barbara says:

04:08pm | 29/07/09

“Kyle and Jackie O simply cannot get people to listen to their show as they are so boring,” by Andrew .... Uummm if no one is listening to their show how come they are the number 1 show on air?  and if people listened to the audio they would realise that it is the Mother who is to blame here not Kyle.  Someone else in the comments stated that Kyle has no compassion and yet he has helped a lot of people in need on the show out of his own pocket as well as the show helping people.  He is paid to be controversial and he does the job well.  It seems there a lot of people commenting who don’t even listen to the show so have no idea on either Kyle or Jackie just going by what they know from the media which, of course can be totally trusted to give you the full facts - not!

Amy says:

04:07pm | 29/07/09

ALL of you people that are commenting about the supposed “sick” attitude of Kyle, did any of you actually LISTEN to the segment? Sure, Kyle should have just shut up and said nothing, but he DID NOT ask the question, the mother did and his question was for clarification of the mothers question for the purpose of the lie detection! It was the MOTHERS fault. How dare she do that to her own daughter on national radio! DISGUSTING. I think give the circumstance that both Kyle and Jackie did their best to handle it delicately!

Jeremiah says:

04:08pm | 29/07/09

I think this problem has deeper implication to the problems in society.  Why do so many people listen to a man like this?  Why would a mother have her daughter on such a show instead of counseling with a professional?

In this day, and a lot of them before this one, people are putting too much emphasis on celebrities on radio, television, and the other mediums of media.  What are the qualifications for a celebrity?  It certainly isn’t intelligence, wisdom, or high moral standards.

Vote with your eyes and your ears.  Don’t watch, listen, or read junk that’s put out by junk peddlers.

Liz says:

04:08pm | 29/07/09

Rape isn’t funny, neither is Kyle… if people stopped listening to his show the problem might go away, there ARE other stations on the radio, instead people continue to listen and then get offended

Black says:

04:08pm | 29/07/09

Heart goes out to the poor young lady…But Kyle sounded as shocked as everyone else and didn’t badger this girl as the headline seemingly suggested. And i agree with Red regarding the mother.

Chris says:

04:08pm | 29/07/09

Don’t worry Kyle, you’‘ve got nothing to worry about. You couldn’t have possibly known about the rape allegation. That’s entirely the mother’s fault.

All you did was invite a 14 year-old girl onto the radio and to quiz her about her sexual experiences. Clearly it was a serious investigation into the worrying problem of underage sex and you’d have to be some sort of crazy person to think the intention of the segment was to provide some sort of cheap thrills or just to be controversial so you’d have something shocking to put in a station promo.

The world needs more people like you and your delightful co-host. Thank you for both striving to make a difference.

allan says:

04:09pm | 29/07/09

The mother & the radio station share the blame. The mother should not have put her daughter through it and the radio station shouldn’t be playing with peoples lives for rating. I don’t think much of people that listen to this garbage either.

Razza says:

04:09pm | 29/07/09

Sex with a minor between the ages of 10 and 14 in NSW attracts a penalty of up to 14 years as per the NSW Crimes Act 1900.  This should be a police matter.

Roger says:

04:10pm | 29/07/09

Aussies are pathetic whingers. If you don’t like Kyle’s antics, DONT LISTEN TO THE STATION. Stupid people in this country !!!  No wonder we end up with dumb politicians with so many dumb people around ready to cast their vote for more of the same. Stop trying to minority-rule everybody else.

E says:

04:12pm | 29/07/09

Satyen, are you retarded? We would comment on other nationalities - not that that even matters as people from all races get killed - if that is what the story was about - it’s NOT so people are commenting accordingly.
And if you think death is the worst thing that can happen to a person, you need to grow up & open your eyes.
I hope the girl gets the help she needs.

Scapegoat says:

04:12pm | 29/07/09

I think people have been ridiculously unfair with Kyle Sandilands over this… I don’t think he any idea that she would come out saying that she was raped as can be judged by Jackie O’s reaction afterwards and immediately bringing the segment to a halt.  I was listening to this live when it was on and it was almost surreal and took a good minute or so to sink in that this poor kid had been raped.  I don’t think it’s Kyle’s reaction (or lack thereof) we should be worried about it should be the mother’s who out of the daughter own mouth said ‘don’t smile about… it’s not funny’.  This is hideous coming out from a mother and I think the best thing 2DayFM could of down was notify DOCS.

Mind you isn’t it funny that the audio from later on where Kyle was slamming the mother for bringing the daughter on the show knowing that piece of knowledge wasn’t included.  I know he may appear to be arrogant at time and not the most likeable person in the world to some but I genuinely think he meant absolutely no offence to the poor girl in this situation.

Unbelieveable says:

04:13pm | 29/07/09

I cannot get past the fact that they actually run this sort of segment on their show - who do they think they are, suddenly psychologists who can save the world??? This is just absolute TRASH and takes certain media and their morals and level of common sense to a new low. That is NOT the sort of arena people’s problems need to be paraded in, it shouldn’t even be an option, and this mother is obviously so stupid she sees no other option but to take her daughter’s problems, which are no-one’s business but her and her daughter’s, to a trashy radio show for what… exploitation and amusement??? What a joke. I cannot believe in this day and age a radio station can get away with such ridiculous crap, it is so irresponsible, no wonder the world is the way it is. That poor girl, i hope she finds some REAL HELP from REAL, QUALIFIED EXPERTS, not a stupid radio station with two wannabe good samaritans who just want ratings, what an absolute joke. Take a good look at yourselves, 2DayFM. I think Jackie did the right thing by aborting the entire thing, but the principle is, it shouldn’t have even happened in the first place and that’s what concerns me.

spider says:

04:13pm | 29/07/09

Who cares about that prick Kyle?  The mother is seriously negligent in this case.

Matt says:

04:14pm | 29/07/09

Alright. All those of you who have actually listened to the clip raise your hands…*Looks at the 7 hands raised*
I am disgusted in the complete lack of factual and unbiased reporting on this story. The hosts (Kyle and Jackie) were presented with a mother wanting to know if her child had done drugs or had sex, and she KNEW that her daughter had alleged she was raped at 12 years old, and had known of it for several months. Yet she chose not to disclose that to Kyle and Jackie and instead pressed the issue of sex in a live, on-air forum. This woman obviously only cares about controlling her daughter, and dismisses her rape allegation as either untrue, or irrelevant, both of which are horrible despicable acts. The usual media beat-up was always going to happen over this event, only as it was Kyle, an underage girl, and the topic of sex and rape. He was very obviously stunned and lost for words and chose to try to keep the conversation going, but unfortunately chose the wrong words to ask. Big thanks to Jackie for wrapping it up quickly, she showed a wonderful level of compassion and concern, more so than this “mother” who ignored revelations of alleged rape, and pushed her child into a public setting to probe her on suspected sexual activity. This mother knew for a few (3 or more) months and had still yet to offer counselling until the hosts offered it.

Absolutely despicable actions by the mother, poor choice of words by Kyle…and I sincerely hope this girl manages to get through the rest of her life without serious mental trauma from this.

Hendo says:

04:14pm | 29/07/09

The simple fact that Kyle Sandilands is one of Australia’s top rating radio acts reflects very poorly on the great unwashed. There’s a reason ABC local radio doesn’t rate: there are no tits and bums gags, no morning “crews”, no half-arsed news bulletins, no ZZ-Top, no Strathfield Car Radio ads and no Kyle-&%$*ing Sandlinads. You are what you eat, Australia.

John says:

04:14pm | 29/07/09

I don’t like Kyle but you should really listen to the clip before making a comment, the entire interview was in appropriate. The mother is who this story should be about, she knew her daughter had been raped then dragged her daughter on air and asked her about her sexual relationships. Karl didn’t realize the impact on the girl until she started crying, he was following the line of questioning from her mother. Kyle actually offered access to counsellors for the girl.

bradh says:

04:15pm | 29/07/09

What a stupid stupid skit to run… and what does Kyle do when things go in to awkward silence mode? makes a mess as usual, I’ve heard him time and time again make a dick of himself live on air interveiwing people, he simply doesn’t have the skills required to do it. for gods sake boot this twit off the air. Jackie O is constantly trying to smooth things over for him. Australia’s most famous wanker is his only tittle.

The truth says:

04:15pm | 29/07/09

Did anyone commentting on this acutully hear it? Because if u did, u would know that news.com cut some out. Kyle said that after the mother had already asked the same question. He was merely repeating the mother. So most of u should get ur hand off if and stop crying.

Dan says:

04:15pm | 29/07/09

The radio station should be banned if they allow the usage this kind of format to promote their ratings. The then rats like Kyle would go with the flow.

Someone call DOCS says:

04:16pm | 29/07/09

Colgan how about some accurate reporting.  She was not asked “in front of her mother - whether she had ever had sex”...she was asked BY her mother, who already KNEW she had been raped (and then tried to wriggle out of it by saying the question was whether “apart from that “she had had sex” (No Mum, that was not the question).  I am no fan of Sandilands, but I can only assume that he was gobsmacked (as I was gobsmacked) that Mum would be so insensitive as to the use the program in the way that she did.  Come on guys…get off your media highhorse and start asking questions about the real culprit in this.

Cookie says:

04:16pm | 29/07/09

Forget about Kyle and Jackie O. THE MOTHER IS THE BLOODY IDIOT!!!

Dave says:

04:16pm | 29/07/09

This is all lies. Yes they were on there and the kid did admit this. However Kyle and Jackio did not know that.

As soon as they got told that they cancelled the section.

The mother admitted she didn’t tell Kyle and Jackio that the girl had been rapped. And it was not Kyle who asked the question but the mother. Report the facts not what you want to make it sound better.

Mike says:

04:17pm | 29/07/09

I tuned into the fox the other week to listen to some light hearted music and instead I walked into a young girl confronting her mother on national radio about having a drinking problem. I’ve tuned a couple of times before and have heard some very questionable broadcasts.  I understand that Kyle and Jackie wanting to bring certain issues to public attention but broadcasting people’s personal issues on national radio is terrible. I turned it off immediately. I haven’t tuned back into the fox since then. It should not be on the radio, or at least at a later time slot. They’ve gone to far this time. He’s always trying to push the boundaries and I’m afraid he’s pushed it too far. And that moronic blonde woman he works with….get rid of them both. Time for some new hosts, some with a little bit of diginty and compassion. Besides are either of them qualified to be dealing with issues like these? Are they willing to accept responsibility if something goes wrong?

Neil B says:

04:19pm | 29/07/09

This has been taken waaay out of context.  Listen to the segment and you’ll hear for yourself.

As much as I dislike the guy, he’s not done anything here that is offensive.  They were unaware of this issue prior to going on air, and at the mother’s request they asked the question.  To his credit, Kyle along with Jackie O have offered to use their positions to get this family conselling and admitted that had they known this, they would not have gone ahead with the segment.  They also mention to the mother that this was an issue they should have been made aware of prior to airing, to which the mother agreed.

Although Kyle shouldn’t be inflicted upon the public, but he’s done niothing wrong in this case.

Sick of Kyle AND Jackie. says:

04:21pm | 29/07/09

If you listen to the segment it sounds like the girl is trying to dodge a bullet. She doesn’t want to do the test in the first place so she blurts out about the rape to end it. I’m sure since the lie detector guy was there he could have confirmed whether she was telling the truth as soon as they got off the air and if she was then the mother should never have put her daughter in that situation in the first place because she knew!! She should defintitely be the one held to task here. Perhaps a parenting class is in order for her? As for Jackie & Kyle, they should both be reprimanded. And the tool who thought this segment was a good idea. Asking a CHILD about their sexual & personal experiences for listener entertainment - and at the end of the day that’s all it was - sounds like a fine line between child exploitation and just plain stupidity. The station should be fined as well for letting this occur. Kyle is a loser and we all know it, but the headline should read ‘Is it time for Kyle & Jackie O to be sacked?’ I don’t see why he should be the one to take the fall, they’re all morons.

Realist says:

04:22pm | 29/07/09

Only decent comment here is from Mondo Rock at 1:47PM.

Australia get a grip of yourselves and stop living in cotton wool. Maybe get rid of your queen and you wont be so conservative. Its a free world and free speech is legal!

Peter says:

04:22pm | 29/07/09

Just totally amazing that anyone can justify the process of subjecting a 14 year old to this.  Kyle is a scumbag extraordinaire.  The girl’s mother is on another planet.  Sandilands is a user of people for his own galactic ego.  Just disgusting through and through. And potentially on the edge of being very questionable legally.

RP says:

04:24pm | 29/07/09

That family is seriously dysfunctional - no wonder the daughter is acting up, with a mother more interested in getting on the radio than her daughter’s welfare. Or maybe the two of them set the whole thing up.  I don’t like Kyle, but I don’t think he’s the main offender in this story.

Justin says:

04:28pm | 29/07/09

Kyle/mother/station manager - all completely twisted. I lead a relaxed life about 1000kms north near the beach and don’t listen to whatever station you’re all sadly tuned in to. Kyle, you WILL get knocked out some day. It’s obvious you get off on putting people down, which is a classic sign of chronic insecurity. The more times you do it, the closer ‘knockout day’ comes. It’s a numbers game. Kyle, your wife prefers pussy over cock, and good on her! Sydney listeners - wake up, change the channel or stay tuned. it’s entirely your free choice, but if you do choose to tune in to this idiot, you forfeit the right to complain about him. Choose now, shut up, and get on with life.

zach says:

04:29pm | 29/07/09

I won’t listen or watch anything with Kyle Sandilands involved I won’t buy products he endorses and he’s the fastest way to make me change a channel.

Disgusted at the mother says:

04:29pm | 29/07/09

Kyle might be a bit of a w@nker most of the time and I am in no way a fan of his work, but in this case it’s the stupid so-called MOTHER who’s more at fault. Imagine knowing that had happened to your daughter, and then asking her about sex on-air like that! All you people blaming Kyle over the mother need to go and listen to the clip again (if you even did at all) and look at the whole thing in context. Stupid woman - it’s a pity that getting pregnant isn’t rocket science because then most of these stupid people wouldn’t be able to bear children and make them suffer through such useless attempts at “parenting”. I’m constantly into friggin’ stun hearing about useless muppets like this. Women like that don’t deserve the privilege of being a parent.

Jasonnn says:

04:30pm | 29/07/09

Why talk to a child about sex anyway???????????

Sack him just for that.

It was VERY obvious the child was upset right from the very beginning.

DP Jackson says:

04:29pm | 29/07/09

I’m sorry, i’m not a Huge Kyle fan but he is not in the wrong here….

He was taken back by what was said as would have been anyone, yes Jackie O was a lil more profesional but thats just well done to her nothing against Kyle. Soething needs to be done to the girls mother for putting her girl through that on national radio, thats what the problem is…

How where Kyle and Jackie O ment to know something as private as that…..

get a grip people, be honest and point the blame at where it needs to go

fun says:

04:30pm | 29/07/09

hahaha awesome!
I might start listening to that lie detector segment!
How many of you idiots commenting actually listen to the station?

Not of Sydney says:

04:31pm | 29/07/09

The fact he is still on air after all this time says a lot about Sydney radio listeners.

Sally Townsend says:

04:31pm | 29/07/09

I agree with John. The mother is the real culprit here. And she was the one who actually asked the question, not Kyle. It was not asked “...in front of her mother” as this article says, but BY her mother, who knew about the rape allegations! If she wants to trivialise her daughter’s alleged rape by focusing on a seemingly mild rebellion, that is all on her!

Yes, Kyle said the wrong thing, but by the sounds of this, he was trying (and failing) to do a quick recovery on live radio. I’m sure it would have been hard to know what to say in that awkward moment!  Jackie O then did a much better job of it by stopping the interview, and offering the girl and her mother counselling. Kyle also offered counselling and they both apologised, saying they never would have proceeded with the interview had they known about the rape.

This is all on the mother - shame on her! She sounded bloody stupid anyway.

Carl P says:

04:31pm | 29/07/09

Hmmm “in front of her mother”, I think there are a few things very wrong here.

Al says:

04:33pm | 29/07/09

I’m not a fan of Kyle nor am I defending his actions, but you would think the mother of the girl would use common sense and avoid such question while her girl went thru such a terrible ordeal at the age of 12.

I feel sorry for the girl, and seriously mum WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU THINKING?!?

Kat says:

04:33pm | 29/07/09

I’m sorry but I don’t think Kyle did anything wrong here. I don’t even think he was really asking the question - but just saying something to stop the dead air alarms from going off while you could hear them trying to figure out what to do. They did the right thing and shut it down (and clearly it was live live, not in delay live).

The mother - Michelle - needs to be hung drawn and quartered. How do you do that to your own child, knowing they have already been through such trauma?

Matt says:

04:33pm | 29/07/09

I don’t care what mechanism is used to remove Sandlilands from the radio, as long as someone succeeds. He is obnoxious, self-important, ignorant and arrogant. No crime there but he has continually displayed in inability to appreciate the line when ‘edgy’ entertainment becomes offensive.

The witty, incisive and erudite submissions published here in defence of Sandlilands reveal more about 2DAY FM’s target audience than any ratings survey could hope to achieve.

jay dee says:

04:33pm | 29/07/09

this has been pulled out of context. listening to the interview, there was no subtle pun intended, he used an acceptable (and careful) word to frame it. After that, he didnt get a chance to speak until the end, by which time he did add his empathies.

for something that happened live to air, i did nothing wrong, pressed nothing and handled it acceptably.

Danielle says:

04:33pm | 29/07/09

With all the fuss over this I immediately thought that Kyle had been the one that raped the 12 year old girl! Everyone should get over it, I feel sorry for those people that go on the radio for questioning over such ridiculous things - that mother is ridiculous.

No says:

04:34pm | 29/07/09

The mother is disgusting and should be humiliated, not just Kyle.

Jake says:

04:35pm | 29/07/09

Hasn’t this guy punched his ticket on more than one occasion? Stoops to a new low everyday he remains on air. His ego, got 2 Aussie bands banned from being played on the Austereo network. His ego is gonna be his downfall. And this is what may break the camels back I’m afraid.

Greg says:

04:38pm | 29/07/09

I agree with the last comment that this is tasteless and exploitative ‘entertainment’.  The mother is an a-hole. However, Jackie’s response was reasonable in the circumstances and Kyle also apologised. Kyle’s initial reaction was inappropriate but may have been one of shock.  They should be criticised for running this sort of thing with a 14 year old in the first place, not for their responses - it is clear from the introduction that the question of the girl’s sexual experience was going to be brought up. It is a crime for a 14 year old female child to have sex (on the male’s part) so why would you think it acceptable to question her about it on radio? It is potentially deeply disturbing to the CHILD. Again, this is a radio station exploiting the innocent for financial gain.

Sam says:

04:38pm | 29/07/09

Kyle needs to be sacked, and kicked out on his arse. Sad thing is, after all the stupid things he does, 2day FM keeps him employed.

Kcuf says:

04:41pm | 29/07/09

NOTHING TO DO WITH KYLE, he only does his job. the MOTHER is the IDIOT one. BOTH OF THEM, MOTHER AND DAUGHTER. THEY ARE THE ONE CAUSING THIS.

Concern says:

04:42pm | 29/07/09

This idiot does not have anything to offer, why the hell does the station organisor still keep this idiot to get rating.

And to those that still shamelessly support him, Anne and Tim and Daniel, and many more. There are so many idiot supporting idiot like mind, and make matter seemed like a small issue, even some Judge are still idiot about sentencing those animal , that is why many are still cimmiting this kind of crime. Our society need some one that can stand up and support he weak and innocense not he encouraging those idiot.

OMFG!!!!! Mum from Perth says:

04:43pm | 29/07/09

I cant believe that Kyle is getting the flack for this. I think the mother has a lot of explaining to do after knowingly putting her daughter through that. As a mother of a young daughter I am TOTALLY disgusted with the poor girls mother.
She should be the one copping the flack for this.

Miranda says:

04:43pm | 29/07/09

The whole segment sounds seedy. They shouldn’t be discussing a girls sexual behaviour on the air anyway.With or without the mothers consent. Mothers are meant to protect their daughters from things like this. No wonder the daughter doesn’t want to confide in her mother. She sounds like an untrustworthy hag.

Kylie Sandilands is an unsympathetic twat, but the mother is to blame for her daughter being humiliated on the radio. Not Kyle and Jackie.

Jen says:

04:44pm | 29/07/09

The mother asked the questions not Kyle or Jacki O.
I don’t think anyone is to be blamed but the childs mother, As she was the one who wanted the interview and she was the one asking the questions.
Kyle did say that they should of known that before the segment started, So sorry but i blame the mother on that one.

Marko says:

04:44pm | 29/07/09

Kyle may be a shining example of the modern media douchebag whose only talent is courting controversy, but I don’t think it’s a sackable offence he’s committed here. Of course the fact he’s on-air with a young teenage girl discussing her sex life points to his general broadcast standards, but all the haters need to do is follow my example and not reward his cr*pulence with their attention. Never have listened, never will.

Sack them says:

04:44pm | 29/07/09

I’m sorry but it was clear from the introduction that the girl was going to be asked about her sexual experience.  What sort of sickos would consider it appropriate to ask a child about sex, particularly on radio?  It doesn’t matter who asked the actual question, the radio station condoned in.  Both Kyle and Jackie should be sacked.

Damian Chandler says:

04:44pm | 29/07/09

he wont get sacked. well he should go and try premote his hack for a singer wife and his only client. the show isnt even good any more and to be honest it never was

andi says:

04:45pm | 29/07/09

Sandiland is a moron. I’m surprised he could get a good job just being an arrogant moron. I’m also surprised many people are defending him. For God sake people, he would call you stupid even when you’re on his side..

Jessica says:

04:46pm | 29/07/09

In Kyles defence it was obviously a very surprising and shocking thing that he heard and having listened to it live when it happen it seemed as though he really just didn’t know what to say or do and as horribly wrong as his reaction was it is incredibly wrong of us to sit and judge having not been in that situation. In my opinion it should be the mother who is condemned for asking her 14 year old child…that’s what she is, a CHILD, live on air if she has had sex knowing full well what she had been through.
Blame the mother not Kyle for putting her own daughter through this ordeal. Kyle was no doubt wrong in what he said but i very much doubt he meant it in the context everyone seems to have taken it. To say that he doesn’t care or is heartless simply because of a missuse of words is just as wrong. This doesn’t make him a bad person, it makes him someone who made a terrible choice in words.
Props to Jackie for immediately cancelling the segment and offering the girl and her mother the counceling they so obviously need.

Matt says:

04:47pm | 29/07/09

Kyle and Jacquie O have done NOTHING wrong. They ahd no idea what the girls history was and weren’t meant to know, they are NOT the girls guardian. the MOTHER knew about this and is the girls LEGAL guardian, as she is under 18. The blame for this should be placed fairly and squarly on the mothers shoulders. Kyle is a broadcaster and people know what he is like so lets not detract from the fact that the mother was irresponsible and placed her daughter in that situation, the mother asked the questions and knew about what had happened to her, the mother thought it was funny. Lets stop looking for a scape goat and blame who is really responsible, the mother

Trevor says:

04:48pm | 29/07/09

Listen to the segment before commenting people.  Get off his case.

Leanne says:

04:48pm | 29/07/09

Both Kyle and Jackie should be removed from the air.  What the .... were they doing asking a 14 year old girl about her sex life????? She isn’t legally allowed to have sex due to her age so if she answered yes what were they going to do with that.  Very very wrong.  As for Kyle’s comment that was stupid and goes to show his level of intelligence if that was the first thing that came out of his mouth.

The Mother is even worse.  What kind of mother puts their child thru a live on air lie detector test about her sex life especially when she knew of her daughters past.  The mother is very wrong and I am glad to hear that DOCS are looking into the matter.

Horrified Mum says:

04:48pm | 29/07/09

I must admit, this was the first time I have ever listened to these two and what I heard was shameful. As a mother of 5, I cannot believe that this poor girl’s mother would actually proceed to place her daughter in such a position that the child would have no recourse but to openly admit, on air if you don’t mind, the fact that she had been raped and then admit to the fact that she (the mother) had known about this for a couple of months and had failed to get this young girl proper mental and physical attention that she obviously needs. No wonder why she’s playing up. While I have never heard Kyle’s show on the radio, therefore I will make no judgement of him personally, I do think that his choice of response could have been a little more tactful than what he said, but then again, he had no knowledge that this answer was coming. So mouth engages before brain = dumb repsonse. I do however believe that the radio staion itself should take on some humility, apart from getting the girl counselling. The producers surely would filter what happens in the segments and one of them must have known that the mother wanted to do this. Apart from degrading, this reeks of half assed monitoring. So while everyone is dragging Kyle and the mother over the coals for this, how about people ring the radio station and offer up their verbal complaints to the producers or whatever knobjockey runs said station. Guaranteed this wont happen again.

mike says:

04:49pm | 29/07/09

Terrible. And I would point out that it was the lovely Miss Jackie O who asked ‘Do you think she’s a Virgin, Mum?’ and tried to smilingly keep mother and daughter chatty and compliant during the interview.  She needs to gather the tiny bit of self respect she still has and leave that STUPID radio station.

Jacob says:

04:49pm | 29/07/09

Thanks for putting the icing on the trauma cake.

Did anyone at the station think to call the police?

Lucy says:

04:50pm | 29/07/09

I agree, Kyle is a total idiot, and just as untalented as the next ‘radio star’, but this has nothing to do with him.  He was purely trying to get past the shock of what she just said.  That mother should take a good hard look at herself.  No wonder her daughter is going out till all hours in the morning, if her mother, who knew she had been raped, is asking her those kind of questions on national radio, just to get some free movie tickets or something.  What a disgrace.  This girl needs a better role model.

Martin says:

04:50pm | 29/07/09

Why listen to the show??? WHY WHY WHY?
Listen to 103.2 instead.

SILENT MAJORITY says:

04:50pm | 29/07/09

2DAY FM is just another formulaic commercial radio station with a niche market that would appear to enjoy what the likes of KS and JO dish up each day. Rest assured the only way there is change in who is on the airwaves is if ratings start to slide. Andrew Denton has already exposed KS as an inadequate moron. This assessment is not part of the criteria for being on the air with 2DAY FM or is it?

Grass says:

04:51pm | 29/07/09

Omg!! Two people are in the wrong, Kyle and ‘the mother’. That was a jerk of thing to say Kyle, he is a twat. And yes the mother of the child was incredibly insensitive too.
Heaps of people are jerks, let’s get one off air.

99 says:

04:52pm | 29/07/09

Could someone ask 2DAY FM if that segment was pre recorded or live?  Reason being Kyle promoted it “coming up” in a way that pre-empted that something was going to happen!!!

mike says:

04:52pm | 29/07/09

If people stop listening then management will have no choice but to replace the shock jock and his partner. I dont know who is the bigger idiot here: the mom, Kyle or the people that listen to this type of radio.

Austereo is concerned on only one thing: bottom line. If Sandilands brings the big $$$$ then he will be there tomorrow morning

JR says:

04:55pm | 29/07/09

if you don’t like Kyle, switch the radio station! He probably paniced and just said what his next question was. How do you prepair yourself when a random answer like that pop on live radio? He is no Dr Phil.

GAL says:

05:00pm | 29/07/09

Wow all I have read in these comments is BOO BLOODY WHO! Kyle should be sacked…. Grow up people get your heads out of your collective arses and vote with your minds. You don’t like it change channel, don’t watch Idol.  I for one enjoy listening to Kyle and Jackie O and don’t care if he offends some people as I choose to listen and if you choose not too thats your business and lets face it get some thick skin because the real world is full of dreadful people who are capable of terrible acts.

Ryan says:

05:00pm | 29/07/09

As Dave Hughes quoted so well.. “Is it just me or is Kyle Sandilands a massive dickhead?”

AM says:

05:01pm | 29/07/09

Ladies and gentleman…presenting….the worlds worst mum!
Imagine knowing your daughter was raped and then putting her on live radio only to ask her yourself about her sex life at the age of 14.  Then to try to qualify it by saying sex other than that time….yikes. 
Kyles response was tame compared to the shock both he and Jackie were obviously in.  Thankfully Jackie regained composure and handled it well and Kyle of course did the same.  The mother however was noticeably quiet and is so obviously the one that needs to be headlined and sacked.

Richard says:

05:02pm | 29/07/09

Poor Kyle.  He had a 14 year old girl attached to a lie detector, answering questions about her sex life.  How could that possibly be wrong?  How could anything go wrong?  It’s just entertainment.  Poor Kyle, he did such a sterling job trying to recover from the shock revelation.  Poor Kyle, it’s the mother’s fault and that should absolve him from any blame.  And poor 2DAY FM, all they did was organise an innocent piece of entertainment for breakfast radio.  2DAY FM and Kyle Sandliands have repeatedly demonstrated their high standards of behaviour, it’s most unfair of us to criticise them for this unfortunate incident that they did nothing - nothing at all - to encourage.

The sickest thing about this is not the actions of Kyle S and 2DAY FM.  It’s the number of dropkicks on here defending them.

Pops says:

05:02pm | 29/07/09

The mother should be taken out in a field and SHOT.

Kyle should definitely not be sacked over this ridiculous crap. All the people saying that he should be taken off air over this should be sacked from their own jobs for being so ignorant and stupid. Kyle did nothing wrong - he wasn’t even in the studio. Grow a brain morons and listen to the audio before you go mouthing off and embarrassing yourselves. Peace.

Jessie says:

05:03pm | 29/07/09

The bottom line here is that the radio show SHOULD NOT have allowed ANYONE under 18 to be “strapped” into a lie dector on air and asked about their sexual encounters. The radio station, presenters and the mother should be held accountable for this. It is absolutely disgusting that it was allowed to happen in the first place.
Message for the mother: You should be utterly ashamed of yourself for putting your own daughter through that! I have a daughter and would never in my life do anything like that to her! Thank goodness you are both now getting councelling, a step that perhaps would have been a better choice in the first place!

Keegs says:

05:03pm | 29/07/09

Ok come on guys, pull your heads out and listen…... Kyle didnt mention the word rape… the mother pushed it.
She didnt tell them that this had happened…. Get over yourselves. this want done for ratings, it wasnt even saying the wrong thing, they offered help and just wanted to clarify the question, if the media spent more time of bloody bank fees than this maybe we would be able to survive…
Its simple, if u dont like it dont listen, and if its in your face ignore it. Its just all you family group freaks need kids to be wrapped in bubble warp these days im 23, and look at you like your idiots,
Im so angry at the least at no-one but any of the idiots that are agreeing hew should be sacked, and its because you dont have lives….......... I love 2GB why dont you stay there….!!!!!!!!! Just get over yourselves…

kh says:

05:04pm | 29/07/09

Actually I did listen to the audio recording & funnily enough Jackie O was the only sensitive, responsible one. She was the only one who showed concern & tact towards this frightened child. This poor kid should never have been dragged into this situation in the first place & I’m not surprised she’s acting out given the small example of her mothers lack of parenting skills. And yes, Kyle isn’t a counselor, but no he could have shown more sensitivity; it’s common human decency. Everyone seems to forget there is a damaged child out there needing help & the one person who should be moving heaven & earth to help her has dropped the ball very badly.

Is this Australian????? says:

05:05pm | 29/07/09

Mondo you are a douche bag. How can you say that a rape is a sexual experiance? It has very little to with sex itself and more to do with an abuse of power. Both Kyle & the mother were wrong to put this CHILD through such public humiliation. All in the pursuit of entertainment??? People should ‘reward’  Sandilands & co by tuning out en masse. Disgusting.

Valentino says:

05:05pm | 29/07/09

It’s all about sex, every single radio station plays all this crap, sexual bullshit I’m so over it, nova had the cougar high thing happening, for f@# fake I’m driving with my mother in the morning I don’t want to hear about it. It’s all sex sex sex sex, am I the only person in the world who feels awkward about listening to sexual bullshit around my mother? Is that the new black, share sex stories with mummy? fair enough if its late at night, great half the kids and the world is asleep. but early hours in the morning, half of us got our kids, parents and who ever around us and we have to non stop change radio stations and hear the same shit.
So i changed over to the kylie and Jackieo and then I’m hit with this bullshit, Sydney radio station really do suck, u turn over to Alan Jones in 2gb and his mumbling over some god damn race horse bullshit and political bullshit that no one cares about! What’s happening in uk and usa? Hello we live in Australia! We don’t care. And we don’t care about your stupid race horses. Your human interest stories have died out grandpa. You never at work anyways. It’s about time you quit.

And the music they play early in the morning, everything has got to do with sex. PLEASE WE HAD ENOUGH ABOUT IT. This is what attracts ratings? The viewers have no other choice but to listen to this bull.

Half of us just care about the morning news, and the traffic report. We don’t care about your crap.

Stu says:

05:05pm | 29/07/09

What is it about radio in Sydney? Shock jocks to tell you what to think, stunts that are crass and crude and designed to humiliate and vilify, debate that ends up either in abuse or hectoring.

Jackie says:

05:05pm | 29/07/09

Listen to the recording people before going off like a frog in a sock.  Blame the Mum.  She knew about the rape a month ago.  The mother put her daughter up to the radio lie detector and wanted to know if she had been having sex.  The mother did not get the girl counselling a month ago after finding out about the rape.  The mother needs to be investigated.  Why would you publically humilate your daughter on air, especially since she is only 14 years old and the rape allegedly happened when she was 12 years old.  The radio station, Kyle, Jackie O and team knew nothing about it before it went to air, why blame them when they have done everything in their power to shut it down immediately.  Look at the parenting skills first.

mutombo says:

05:07pm | 29/07/09

1. The mother is an idiot, but then, she was obviously feeling a bit desperate
2. The long silence, a big No-No for any professional radio-jock, clearly demonstrates there was some shock at her rape response.
3. Kyle was clearly insensitive. Yep he’s a d1ckhead, but oh well. His reaction was probably just his radio training kicking in first, the main intention being to stop the dead-air asap.
4. JackieO reacted well.
5. Paul Colgan you are an idiot for just going the easy sensationalised story, fanning the media beatup just to draw a few extra hits.  Why didnt you give a more objective viewpoint? Did you even listen to the audio you linked? Clearly you’re just after more page hits. I dont know whats worse, Kyle split second stupidity or your deliberated response.

ths says:

05:08pm | 29/07/09

The ignorant mom is to blame. How can you put your daughter on air and ask about sexual questions when you know what she’s been through?  “O yeah.. i do know about that “.

The Terminator says:

05:09pm | 29/07/09

Is there a SMS number I can phone to evict Sandishorts off the Island.
I’ll even break the Piggy Bank if I have to. This is just another sandi-stunt to
get his dial in the news again. It’s time to go…....Kyle

EmDee says:

05:10pm | 29/07/09

Before listening to the recording, I leaned towards blaming the DJ’s if not the station for agreeing to interrogate a child for her mothers gain.  I’m FAR from a Sandilands fan and I can’t say I agree with them doing the segment (I’ve never listened to them so aren’t sure if this is an unusual segment) but that mother was disgusting!!!  How DARE she!!  She was belittiling her daughter’s experience.  Glad to hear that they are getting help.  From the daughters response its clear she doesn’t feel heard, that is SO damaging for a survivor.
TO THE DAUGHTER If you are reading this, YOU ARE A SURVIVOR and a very brave one at that.  I hope you get all the assitance you need.  Even though your mother isn’t listening there are others that will.  Keep your head up!!

nathan says:

05:17pm | 29/07/09

you clowns do u think kyle sandalands is a radio producer? he doesn’t create segments, he is simply the right personality for what the producers of the station clearly feel bring in ratings. end of story. yes hes a bit of a moron, but its his job.

JR says:

05:19pm | 29/07/09

just listened to the segment, WHAT ARE PEOPLE ON ABOUT!!!!! they had no idea that was about to happen and stopped straight after offering them support to the mother and daughter. They said they wer sorry, and told the mother that she should of told them about the situation to them first before going on air.

Get a grip people.

Dave. says:

05:21pm | 29/07/09

The question appears to be very inappropriate after such a stunning revelation.

Be if they (K&J) were aware or not, the question posed by Kyle seems to be very dismissive of what he has just been told. I mean regardless that the segment appears absolutey pointless from the outset, what gains are to be made in pressing the issue after the child has just told you something as eye opening as that?

Very poor judgement from Kyle & also the mother. Unfortuantely there is no prerequisite for a brain to be a radio broadcaster.

Michael from Liverpool says:

05:22pm | 29/07/09

The only way to get the attention of these announcers is to boycott companies who sponsor or advertise on the show.

I’ll start: Optus. They are involved in the promotion of Pink and advertise on the show. Let’s start with them and ring them to let the know why we are boycotting them.

PatMac says:

05:31pm | 29/07/09

I was amazed to find out that this couple are still on the air, I would have thought their ratings would have caused them to be dumped ages ago.

Rama says:

05:31pm | 29/07/09

IT is about time Kyle should be sacked from 2 Day FM. If 2 Day FM continue to have him, they will also go down with him

Anna says:

05:36pm | 29/07/09

I am not at all a Kyle Sandilands fan, but I’m sorry I have to say he is not at fault here. I think his question was more asked out of shock, and while not entirely appropriate I think everyone was struggling what what to say. Jackie O was fantastic with her approach and the way she stepped in.

How dare the mother drag her daughter on air and submit her to that kind of questioning knowing her daughter had been raped. Wonder why your daughter may be going off the rails? It may be because she has been through a very traumatic experience as a child and you as her caregiver have not made sure she has had the proper help or taken her seriously. What a foul woman.

Kate says:

05:35pm | 29/07/09

Headline should have read: “Mother:  knows of daughter’s rape, doesn’t seek help” or perhaps “Mother:  knows of daughter’s rape, puts her on radio program”.  From the transcript it sounds like Kyle and Jackie had no idea of this girl’s traumatic incident, and offered the poor girl the one thing her primary carer did not … counselling.  I’m not a Kyle fan, but he’s copped the wrong end of the stick on this one.

Jess says:

05:37pm | 29/07/09

“There’s nothing wrong with what Kyle did.  Everyone needs to get a grip.”

WHAT?! Ok if the girl was over 16 then no there wouldn’t be anything wrong with what he did.

Frank says:

05:38pm | 29/07/09

That the mother allowed it does not absolve the media. This must have gone through producers and management before getting a green light, so ACMA should be meting out stiff punishment to all involved.

Simple fact of the mattter is that Sandilands asking a question like that proves he does not belong on air ANYWHERE. A professional would cut to commercial as soon as something like that happened. The man is totally unfit to broadcast. He should be fired from 2Day and barred from working in the media.

Concern says:

05:39pm | 29/07/09

Whats happening with people here, It seemed they dont have any feeling at all about his little girl,they have been bombaeded with so many thing, that they dont even have any substance in their comments, in supporting this idiot.

I’m not a fan of this station and never will be. I dont think I can listen to any thing like that.

PJC says:

05:40pm | 29/07/09

Re: Sarah says:

PJC 02:14pm - EPIC FAIL - Not everything on radio is pre-recorded. @ July 29th, 2009 at 02:37pm

Sarah you need to check your facts. Do you not remember the expose last year when 2Day and Kyle were passing the same type of thing as live and it wasn’t. These segments are always pre-recorded to ensure nothing goes wrong.
I restate my comment - it is pre-recorded and they still made the decision to go to air.

CM says:

05:40pm | 29/07/09

Why is Kyle to blame? My goodness your journalism is just as bad as you accuse him to be…....

Nothing like telling the full story in your article….

Kyle was insensitive and stupid….. but I really don’t think he expected the response that was given and he was cut off guard.

The Mum is the idiot - how dare she do that to her daughter knowing what the response would be….. no wonder her daughter leaves the house in the middle of the night, look at the role model she has

Paul says:

05:42pm | 29/07/09

the Chaser got taken of air for less.

trent says:

05:42pm | 29/07/09

I think kyle needs to relax ayyyy..

Elle C says:

05:45pm | 29/07/09

Sack the mother!

Richard says:

05:47pm | 29/07/09

What a dickhead KS is And as for his stupid blonde sidekick
All these DJ’s do is love the sound of their own voice,think they are the funniest but are in fact dumb,stupid immature and should be banned from radio along with the other “twosomes’” Merrick and Rosso et al
Kasey Casem and Wolfman Jack leave these W#*@!#*#s for dead Get a life Get a real job you tools

Mike says:

05:48pm | 29/07/09

It is the programme researcher and ultimately the producer who approved this segment who should be sacked. What on earth were they thinking allowing a mother to ask her 14-year old daughter about her sexual experiences live on air without fully exploring the potential response. Kyle’s remark was spur of the moment and his use of the word “experience” while ill-advised was clearly the first thing that came into his head. The post-analysis of his intention is just political correctness gone mad

Adam says:

05:51pm | 29/07/09

Fire him, absolute idiot who never stops spewing crap out of his mouth.

Kyle - crawl back in your hole.

Joel says:

05:52pm | 29/07/09

PJC: No not everything on radio is prerecorded, how do you think competitions etc function if it’s all prerecorded?

Joshua says:

05:53pm | 29/07/09

Frankly no one has enough information about this whole situation to make such harsh calls about the mother!  She may be struggling at home and whilst using the media as a “tool” in raising kids might seem silly…she may be desperate.  So leave the mother alone!

Karl should not be sacked! When I read the sensationalised headlines reported in the press today I thought he should, until listening to the piece at which Karl reacts in a way where he seems to be taken by surprise…..give the dude a break! 

Jackie was sensational at rescuing the situation but perhaps the station producers need to prepare their guests better and put them through a more rigourous vetting process.

I hope that this turns out to be a positive scenario for everyone

a/ the girl gets better support she may not have had access to
b/ the mother will be supported through this which I imagine is the outcome she didnt know she was looking for
c/ karl will have had a lesson in sensitivity versus ratings
d/ the station will improve how its approaches ratings
e/ Jackie saves the day
f/ Society at large get to discuss a very important issue over dinner, at the pub or club and in general!

Father of teenage girls says:

05:54pm | 29/07/09

Kyle has been getting away with disgraceful insensitive tacky demeaning stunts like this for too long and its about time everyone tuned out from 2DAY so that he has no choice but to leave. He doesnt care about this girl or any of his other victims, nor the thousands of teenage girls who listen to his filth each day. He would be laughing at the publicity this is getting, thats how sick, twisted and selfish he is. I hope karma gets him one day and he has a family of his own - only then will he realise what a pathetic example he and others like him set for our youth. But then again knowing him, even then he probably wont get it!

Jay Noble says:

06:00pm | 29/07/09

Mondo Rock, you too are an idiot. Ofcourse Kyle did the wrong thing regardless of whether the girls mother believed it. She’s a child who burst into tears answering the question. The segment should have ended then and there. Kyle thinks he’s the Howard Stern of Australian radio and while meatheads like you are justifying his behaviour we can only look forward to more of the same. Turn your radio dials, people.

gr says:

06:01pm | 29/07/09

It is time to weed out this clown of his position!!!. He has forgotten where he comes from and that his upbringing was less than perfect!!!, where has common sense gone r u kidding me how terrible somebody was raped!!!!, perhaps he should consider the reality of the situation before being an insensitive idiot which he is!!, good one moron. go join the real people on the unemployment line.

Anna says:

06:05pm | 29/07/09

Listen to the audio before making a judgement, it provides more context and probably more people to blame

Darcy says:

06:09pm | 29/07/09

After listening to the interview it becomes fairly obvious that he never meant to make light of the situation or even to make good radio out of it. After he offered her and her mother free counselling services he should be applauded, not villified.

Rob B says:

06:17pm | 29/07/09

Seriously though, what would you expect him to say after that? I think he was just trying to deflect the situation while on Live radio. It’s hardly something they should have focused on while on air which would have only made things worse. Yes he could have probably handled it better but he didn’t, lets move on shall we or do we cruicify everyone these days for making mistakes?

Brendan says:

06:18pm | 29/07/09

How can this possibly be 100% Kyles fault on none of the parent or her child…Knowing the questions he would ask about sex WHY would they agree to go ahead with the interview knowing the past…it sounds like a set up to me…I can smell a rat and I don’t think it’s kyles who is being used as meat shield.

Christina says:

06:25pm | 29/07/09

As much as I dislike Kyle Sandilands, in this instance he was not at fault.

The girls mother was wholly to blame.  When her daughter ‘told her a couple of months ago’ that she had been raped, the mother should have nurtured her child instead of trying to sweep everything under the carpet.  Of couse the girl is acting out.  Under the circumstances she is lucky her daughter didn’t to more harm to herself.

The lie detector is fine for ADULTS.  To use it on children, especially in public and at the behest of a parent who doesn’t know how to communicate with their child is irresponsible and abhorrent.

Corrina says:

06:27pm | 29/07/09

Seeing articles like this really makes me angry. I’m sick of seeing every person who says anything at all on Australian TV get bagged out and their careers ruined over something as stupid as asking a question. If I was on TV I would be afraid to oepn my mouth.

Fine, the girl is young and upset and shouldn’t have to answer the question. But did the mother step in, and say that’s an inappropriate question, we refuse to answer it? Or doesn’t she have a mouth?

John Fenn says:

06:27pm | 29/07/09

Time for The Vile & Tacky Ho show to be put off the air for a while. they need to learn about responsibilty.

SJwashere says:

06:27pm | 29/07/09

As a broadcaster Kyle has to be careful with what he says as it isn’t only a bad reflection on himself but also on the station and its’ advertisers. It’s not just what he said here that is the issue but the whole format of the program enciting this type of behaviour in the first place. People are fragile you can’t play with their lives for the entertainment of others without something like this happening.

This is an issue of ethics. The radio station has a responsibility towards the community to ensure that what they put on the air does not indanger the lives of others or cause emotional damage. Where are these station managers when Kyle and Jackie O have been running competitions like this for a while now that exist only to use other peoples personal problems to gain ratings?

Kyle and Jackie O both need to have a hard look in the mirror as does the mother of this girl but how about we get to the core of issue and focus back on ethics in broadcasting.

Sarah says:

06:28pm | 29/07/09

PJC says:
Re: Sarah says:

PJC 02:14pm - EPIC FAIL - Not everything on radio is pre-recorded. @ July 29th, 2009 at 02:37pm

PJC, I do not need to check my facts. Having worked in radio, I am well aware that some segments are pre recorded. I am also well aware that some are not pre-recorded.

The Thing says:

06:31pm | 29/07/09

It is simple. Dont listen to him. I never have and I never will.

John Elroy says:

06:33pm | 29/07/09

Get rid of him - an idiot.

Tracey says:

06:34pm | 29/07/09

What more disgusting vile rubbish has to come out of his mouth before something is done, you are a dirty grub, go back to whatever hell hole you came from.

Dre says:

06:38pm | 29/07/09

I would be inclined to ask the same thing, and if that’s my own knee jerk reaction then I’m glad someone has the balls to be themselves on air and come out with it.

Look at all of you sheep jumping on the bandwagon. If you don’t like him then listen to another station, there are plenty more. Boring sods.

N says:

06:40pm | 29/07/09

To Paul Colgan - irresponsible journalism at its finest

To those who did not listen to the recording (despite the link) before baying for Kyle’s blood, you’re all a bunch of media dupes.

Tristo says:

06:45pm | 29/07/09

He should have been sacked before he even started.

Ian says:

06:57pm | 29/07/09

Kyle may have chosen his words badly…. on the spur of the moment…. but the lie detector segment and what transpired can’t be blamed entirely on him….there is a whole department of people at these stations responsible for thinking up and bringing to air these segments. he would just be the scapegoat of this unfortunate, unplanned incodent. you need to sack everyone responsible…or no-one

tassy says:

07:02pm | 29/07/09

Yes the mother was wrong, but when has asking a 14 year old been classed a radio entertainment

gail wright says:

07:03pm | 29/07/09

l don’t think kyle’s an idiot in this case.l think the mother of the girl is the one we need to look at.leave kyle alone on this he was caught in the moment not knowing what to say and we have all been there.he like all of us is not perfect.,

Anthony says:

07:03pm | 29/07/09

What would u have him do dwell on the subject?

poor girl he was probably trying to just move on to get past the topic..

BMJ says:

07:07pm | 29/07/09

Mothers fault for taking her child on radio. What did she expect to gain from this?

TimT says:

07:14pm | 29/07/09

Sandilands should have been fired years ago.

Love that snippet about Molly:

Co-host Jackie O was left to referee the radio sparring session, attempting to terminate the interview when Sandilands retorted with: “At least I’m not a drunk”.

Yeah, but when Molly woke up the next morning, he was sober.

Molly rocks. Kyle sucks.

Fraser Holt says:

07:21pm | 29/07/09

People, the solution here is simple. don’t buy the products from the manufacturers nd service providers that sponsor his show.

Nathan says:

07:24pm | 29/07/09

I Agree with Mondo Rock… Kyle is also a very intelligent person and as much as most people dislike the man he does a great job. I can guarantee that most of his listeners would have backed him, it’s the oldies that are asking for his head.

Dion says:

07:31pm | 29/07/09

I think (in my opinion) that Kyle was just a bit taken back by the shock news, and it just slipped out.  You can hear that he was searching for the right thing to say, just the wrong thing came out.  Fact is - neither DJ knew about the incident prior to starting the interview, and they obviously wouldn’t of gone ahead.  I notice not many people are talking about the fact that near the end, he’s mentioning councillors and offering to get them help.  Jesus people, he just made a mistake.  No one is perfect.

Amy says:

07:38pm | 29/07/09

For those who didn’t actually listen to the whole interview, right after that comment there is a large bit where Kyle and Jackie apologise and then offer councelling to the mother and daughter. That isn’t the attitude of a callous man.
Neither Kyle or Jackie O knew about the rape, and when they found out they ended the interview. What more could they have done?

Adam says:

07:55pm | 29/07/09

Ok Kyle is an uneducated fool but so is his audience who sit through his ego driven drivel so just let them be fools and dont stoke his ego by putting his picture on the news.

bobzed says:

08:03pm | 29/07/09

Gotta love Kyle, he’s a walking advertisement for euthanasia.  I just don’t get what value he adds to humanity.

S says:

08:06pm | 29/07/09

Kylie Sandilands has some serious issues. He seems to need to talk about sex every single time he’s on air. It’s not just once, it’s every single time.
It’s getting old. And annoying.
Sack him.

amused says:

08:08pm | 29/07/09

Yeah! yeah! yeah! everybody complains that he should be fired, then nothing happens. He is merely catering to todays audience who want to hear things like this. He is pathetic and that is what gets him noticed. Simple, stop tuning in to his shows, completely turn off. But this is never going to happen because people will tune in to hear the next stupid thing he says. The audience is to blame.

Sam says:

08:16pm | 29/07/09

Are you nuts?
Both of the presenters handled that rather well.
They showed obvious concern towards the girl
and offered some help.

I know that Kyle guy has done some stupid stuff
in the past, but that was actually touching.

Lay off him for this one.
He did the right thing.

Alimay says:

08:17pm | 29/07/09

Get a grip.. You are now also making advertising mileage out of this sordid personal gossip. I don’t care and neither does most of intelligent Australia. Why don’t you spend your time and money reporting on something useful to society? perhaps that might get a decent amount of hits too if you have any intelligent reports left on staff. Lets see if you post this comment?

james says:

08:22pm | 29/07/09

If you dont like what you hear - tune out.
As Devo said: “Use your freedom of choice”.
Or are you too dumbed down to think of doing that?

JJ says:

08:47pm | 29/07/09

I hate to say it but most men, opposed to rape, would say EXACTLY the same thing as Kyle did.  Don’t get me wrong - I am not Kyle’s fan - but he obviously has never had to deal with that situation before and it’s not something that comes naturally to talk about!  When i told my husband that i was raped when i was 7 years old, he said: what did YOU do to encourage it?  He had absolutely NO IDEA how to respond, as i think has happened here.  Shame on the mother for putting her daughter in this situation.  I have a 13 year old and would NEVER publicly belittle her - how damaging to the emotional wellbeing of the child!  I hope she gets the support she requires because obviously Mum doesnt know how to react and simply can’t give her whats required!

Barrack Obama says:

09:10pm | 29/07/09

Kyle died this morning. cause of death being a commercial radio tool. SEE YOU AT THE CREMATORIUM!

Digusted says:

09:11pm | 29/07/09

Yes Kyle Sandilands is an idiot, and yes the mother is a fool.  But despite all the scandal and drama, it goes back to the simple fact that no radio programme, no media, should be asking a 14 year old girl about her sex life - whether or not it’s with her mothers’ consent.  It’s low-brow, ignorant and reprehensible.  Even if the poor girl’s admission of rape never happened - the segement would still have been disgusting. So yes, Kyle and Jackie O, and their producers and everyone else in the team should be sacked!

Markus says:

09:17pm | 29/07/09

Hey - this thick idiot wants to stir up controversy just to draw attention to himself, so let’s give it to him! Of course he’s not sorry – an ego like his won’t allow that. He wants to be a “shock jock”, so let’s give him a shock and sack his broad, worthless backside!
And as for turning off if you don’t like it - if that is taken to it’s logical conclusion, then if enough people turn off he’ll be out of a job anyway, which would suit me fine. I wouldn’t waste my auric system on this bearded dropkick in the first place.

sick of him says:

09:33pm | 29/07/09

I cant stand this guy and think he is a complete moron but in fairness the mother only a few minutes ago had said she wanted to find out about drugs and sex and hadn’t told them anything. If anyone has been a DJ on radio before you know that in a bad situation you say crap to cut through the silence and crap is certainly what came out but its just his asshole personality showing its colours, not a premeditated comment in my view.

Yoda says:

10:04pm | 29/07/09

I am absolutely with you Disgusted. And, may I say, thank god for Triple J

Aaron says:

10:24pm | 29/07/09

I think Jacki O handled the difficult situation very well. I think Kyle probably regrets his immediate response as he should. I think the mother needs to take a long hard look at herself as she asked the question and she, other than the young girl, was the only other person who was aware of the situation, and the producers need to take some responsibility.

ImprovingSelfEsteem says:

10:43pm | 29/07/09

I don’t know much about Kyle Sandilands, but I do know that he strikes me as being very self-centred, Selfish, and an Idiot.
Firstly, to remark that the media is having a go at him is absolutely unbelievable. After what he said to the girl, “Is that all the Experience you’ve had?” I find that to be a complete package of someone who is very self-centred, selfish, and an absolute Idiot. He was more concerned about himself, his reputation, than what psychological harm he may have further put the girl into. Secondly, the mother should be consulted by Councillors or DOCS, in regards to better managing hers, and her daughter’s welfbeing.
Thirdly, bring back the 10 seconds delay to LIVE Radio, it will protect us, the listeners, from any abuse, or idiotic journalism by these so-called “Professional” Journalists.
Thank God I don’t listen to radio!

Midge says:

10:44pm | 29/07/09

This girl is a minor. She shouldn’t have been asked this question on live radio in the first place whether the mother wanted to or not. They should have screened the questions and cut the segment if it strayed from those questions. People should be jumping up and down about the simple fact that it was asked in the first place and not just because of the answer they received.

And it isn’t the first time Kyle has been involved in a school age girl with a sexual issue as per the 01 incident. His signature is basically to do anything that the general population wouldn’t agree with. Rather than attempting to steer the conversation back to how the question was meant to be taken, he should have cut it then and there. And yet he made a stupid comment and Jackie O had to step in and be the smart one to stop it.

And the mother is, quite simply, sick.

Honestly, what sort of message about Australia are we attempting to send out? That we like to encourage sexual behaviour in minors and belittle rape victims?

I’ll certainly stick to Triple J. At least they don’t have to go so low to get listeners.

mafffooooo says:

10:50pm | 29/07/09

Well…..the girl really didn’t have to bring up the rape issue. It seemed that she was hiding something else. It’s pretty obvious that her mother was more interested if she was sexually active or not. It’s not really Kyle’s fault, even though his word choices were abit inappropriate.
Don’t really care whether he gets sacked or not his been on air for abit too long, same stuff aired all the time anyway.

Tim says:

11:05pm | 29/07/09

How can this idea of a segment be approved! For shame!!  The response of Kyle is totally unacceptacle, and I agree. I will not listen to any station that broadcasts him in the future. Full Stop.

boypage says:

11:08pm | 29/07/09

The man wants to play down a kid being forced to admit on air to being raped.

That kid was scared, alone and betrayed by all the grown-ups around her. Including him.

He needs to be sacked. He’ll never live this down.

fare go says:

11:15pm | 29/07/09

Well, Y why are they even talking about Kyle’s questions. it was teh mother that asked the question that brought up the subject. Kyle cant help what he said any more then a News reader can. if a news reader interview a rape victom does everyone get up in arms about that. No.  Yes his words were not the best choice, but it has nothing to do with him. the mother should be the one getting all the nasty comments.
i don’t like Kyle all that mush but then that is not the point here is it. everyone should stop makeing comments about how kyle and jackie’O handled this and start asking. How is the young girl doing?

KJ says:

11:26pm | 29/07/09

No excuse for it.

If the segment was pre-recorded, it should not have gone to air.

If the segment was live, it still should not have gone to air (there is a 7-second delay for live radio).

Someone at 2Day FM needs a kick up the arse.

Oh and the mother needs to take a long walk off a short pier.

rj says:

11:28pm | 29/07/09

@ mafffooooo

Why is the girl at fault for bringing up the rape issue? Blame her mother for picking on the subject knowing full well she had been through rape. Blame the producers for allowing a minor to be strapped to a lie detector and asked if she’s been having sex. Blame the two morons who joked their way through most of it and helped bring that girl to the edge of her tolerance. And then had the gall to ask if her rape was the “only experience she’d had”
This is truly disgusting.

Luke says:

11:31pm | 29/07/09

Although I think it was not a smart move to be questioning a 14 year old girl on radio like this, I understand the mother must have been at her wits end, so tried this as a last option. I think Kyle’s reaction was mearly that, a reaction. It was obvious he was surprised and it took a few seconds to sink in. A big deal has been made out of an incident that should now be left alone for it to be delt with privatley in the family.

Cranky Mum says:

11:32pm | 29/07/09

It’s the mother that should be bought into question here not the presenters. She bought her daughter into the studio, they didn’t go and find this mother and girl.

If you listen to the tape after Kyle makes his blunder he doesn’t say anything else. There is no doubt the man is floundering. Jackie did well to pull it back into line.

But the mother, now she is a case of poor parenting. She drags her daughter to a nation wide studio, knowing full well that the girl has been raped. She has known about it for a few months she says. What kind of mother is she? She ONLY wanted to know if the girl had had sex with someone else!!! She didn’t get her daughter counselling, she didn’t do anything to help the girl cope, instead she drags her off to a radio studio to humiliate her - and she wonders why the girl is off the rails. Give us a break! Who is the villain?

If anything, the program did the girl a good turn, they are now going to get counselling, but what’s the bet that the mother doesn’t follow through and make sure the girl attends counselling sessions, it will all be to hard for her to bother with.

Marissa says:

11:36pm | 29/07/09

No they shouldn’t be sacked and I think it is ridiculous that all of these ‘experts’ are saying that Kyle and Jackie should be. Clearly the mother knew about this before she went on the show and knew what would happen when the question was asked. As far as kylie asking if that was her only eperience, I feel sorry for him it would have been very confronting and he would have panicked. I don’t know what I would have done if someone said that to me and I think that the situation was handled as well as it could have been.  This in no way was encouraging sexual assualt or violence, and at least the girl is now getting some sort of help. The question we should be asking is why is this mother dragging her daughter on a radio station to ask her about sex ESPECIALLY if she knows that she had been raped. And to those people who r calling kyle arrogent,fat, rude and mean for the things he says and does, how is what ur saying about him any better then the things he says to people. Same difference really!! Apart from todays incident, he’s really just honest and says what everybody else is thinking

Chris Horton says:

11:44pm | 29/07/09

The mother is not to blame, nor is kyle or jackie. What about the producers of the show? The guys who organised this segment, obviously found the mother and the daughter, and who set all this up. No radio programme like this has their voice talent running the errands. So why didnt these same producers have the foresight to check these things ahead of time and run this segment on a 7 second delay? As usual in this country, we are quick to blame the front faces of the incident, but dont take long enough to really look at who was at fault. Im calling for 2dayFM’s producers to resign over this incident.

Jean says:

12:11am | 30/07/09

Get rid of that “idiot” who thinks that saying or asking anything of a minor is his right to do so. I can’t imagine what this will do to this young person when they realise the consequences of public disclosure.

Peter Murray says:

12:32am | 30/07/09

Not only should he be sacked, he should be charged with sexual harrassment of a person under 16.

And 2Day should have its licence revoked.

“And is that your only experience”, Kyle asks of a 14 year old?

What part of ” do not sexually harass a young person that you have effectively coerced into admitting something she didn’t want to” does Kyle not understand?

This is a disgrace!

The communications Minister should pull 2Day off air. Now!

Richard says:

12:39am | 30/07/09

Twitter:

#sandilandsisadouche

Anthony says:

12:38am | 30/07/09

Media beat up - nothing more.
Find a real story instead of making up hysteria like this.
The fault lies 100% with the mother. I dont like Kyle Sandilands but these types of stories makes me like him more cause he’s being unfairly picked on. If you want to attack him do it for something he’s actually done wrong.
Putting a mother and daughter on air with a lie detector sounds like a perfectly legit radio segment to me. It was the mother who allowed her daughter on there and KNEW of the rape! Take aim at her.

Chezza says:

12:40am | 30/07/09

Surely it’s the mother who should be the MOST ASHAMED!! Was she out of her mind!!?? How dare she, knowingly opt to agree to this, after the fact that her daughter has clearly confided in her and further admit that she DID NOT TAKE HER DAUGHTER TO COUNSELLING… what kind of mother in her right mind would leave her own child to suffer through the memory of a violent attack on her own AT THE AGE OF 12…. ?!?!? this lady needs a reality check… I hope she is deeply ashamed of herself for putting her daughter through this.. HER DAUGHTER DESERVES BETTER THAN THIS!! and the rest of you out there what did you expect Kyle to say… I dont necessarily think he should have proceeded to ask the question live on air but listening to the clip it seems he was trying to confirm if she was being subjected to repeated abuse. If so, perhaps the Mother should be thoroughly questioned!! I bet you she could even possibly know who did it !!!

zilla says:

01:11am | 30/07/09

if i understand this right, this was a pre-recorded segment. so, it is an utter failure of judgement of 2DayFM producers and on-air talent to have broadcast this, rather than simply DELETE it and send the mother and daughter home. for farks sake. asking a minor, a 14yo girl, about her sexual activity?  yes, someone should be sacked for this appalling lack of judgement.

Jason says:

01:14am | 30/07/09

It is disturbing that a good radio station has to turn to “Jerry Springer” antics to gain listeners. They defintly got alot of attention, but I defintly wont be listening to 2dayfm.
The girl was a minor, she should not have been put in that position regardless of her mothers consent.
In addition the segment at question has been done time and time again…its boring guys, just as Kyle is.
Get rid of Kyle, and bring on someone fresh, with something intelligent to say.

Adam says:

01:16am | 30/07/09

Kyle Sandilands has absolutely no talent or worth as a celebrity. The people who reallyneed to look at themselves are those who actually pay him quite a bit of money to be a radio or TV presenter or music producer. None of his work is actually considered to be very good, and he has no idea what the general public actually want or like, so we end up listening to terrible songs like ‘Oh’, terrible TV performances like his drivel on Idol and the unresearched, nonsense that he makes unsuspecting radio listeners suffer. I mean, without the girl actually being raped, that was a very inappropriate question to ask a 14 year old girl - makes you think twice about his character.

Henry Johnson says:

01:19am | 30/07/09

If you haven’t listened to the segment then please don’t make comment.  It is obvious from a lot of comments here particularly the ones calling for Kylie to be hung drawn and quartered that you have not heard it.  If you are going to blame anyone for this, blame the mother.  Her daughter told her 2 months prior she had been raped and yet she still put her on the show and asked if she had had sex.  Really people put the responsibility on where it should be.  Nobody seems to be responsible for their own actions anymore in this country.  It always seems to be somebody elses fault..

Kim says:

01:21am | 30/07/09

I’d like to see a live radio segment where Karl is hooked up to a lie detector and asked to answer intimate questions about his sex life. Why won’t you do it, Karl? It would be a laugh - and think of the ratings.

shireen says:

01:23am | 30/07/09

I listened to it, and there are no excuses. It was over the boundary line even before the girl said that she had been raped. She is underage and should not have been asked questions about her sex life on air. Her mother posed the questions, but they knew she was going to do so. And the mother must have radiated “weird”. I imagine that the girl signed a consent form before the show, but given her age and given that her mother seemed to be intent on bullying her into answering, any consent she may (or may not) have given is hardly enough. Yes, they killed the segment soon after (not soon enough, in Kyle’s case) the girl said the word “rape”, but by that stage anyone could recognise a that it was a huge, career-threatening car-crash of a segment. “I’m sorry, let me get you a counsellor” - well, duh. That is like offering a bandaide after chopping off someone’s hand.

mattyg says:

01:29am | 30/07/09

Here’s a question: who on earth thought it was appropriate to be questioning a 14 year old GIRL about her sexual activity on live radio to begin with?

Gladys says:

01:45am | 30/07/09

I had never heard of these two morons until today. Clearly my mornings spent listening to Fran on RN have spared me the banalities of the book-dodging, bourbon-n-coke swilling, wryt in lyk txt wiv lyk tttaly n/punchashun classes.

jj says:

02:51am | 30/07/09

Why was a 14 year old child being strapped into a lie detector and quizzed about sex in the first place? This is entertainment? Revolting.

Virginia says:

03:30am | 30/07/09

Asking a 14 year old child about her sexual experience on the radio is acceptable now? Have you Kyle Sandilands apologists actually gone mad?

The kid needs to ‘toughen up’ - what?! I’m shocked that so many people are OK with this and willing to defend him. Kyle, Jackie O and the radio station all have responsibility for this - not only the mother.

Wilmeister says:

06:18am | 30/07/09

What a storm this incident has created.  This reminds me of the prank call from Russell Brand and Jonathan Ross to Andrew Sachs regarding certain activities Brand did with Sachs 17yo daughter.  This was in very bad taste and they both got thrown off the air for this stunt.

This on the other hand is beyond bad taste.  So anything less then a suspension wouldn’t be acceptable in this case.

gman says:

06:39am | 30/07/09

I can’t believe there is any defence of this, it’s black and white - Kyle has to go. Reading this morning he claims he didn’t even realise he’d asked her about other experiences - what does he take us for? “I didn’t realise I did it” is hardly a defence that stacks up - it was pretty obvious listening to the broadcast that when Jackie O jumped in and stopped the segment, Kyle realised he’d stuffed up and now the damage control has begun. Please don’t buy it.  I can’t believe I live in a world where a moron like Kyle Sandilands is paid to entertain. I absolutely cannot see what he has to offer that any other DJ, or even a mentally challenged wombat, cannot? I pray this gets him off the air - I know I stab at the other presets on my radio any time I hear that f*$#wit. Get someone funny and interesting on, surely it cannot be that hard!

Eve says:

08:16am | 30/07/09

What kind of voyeurs are they to be probing the sex life of a teenager?

Maya says:

09:16am | 30/07/09

O.K obviously Kyle is not the only one to blame for this ridiculous event. The problem is with the show. Strapping a child to a lie detector while she’s scared and her mother asking about her sexual experience is unbelievable. Why would you do that to your child? To any child. Think of the bullying that will carry on from here. Kyle is an idiot and he should be sacked but not for this, he should be sacked for being an idiot. Is this a kind of role model we want for our children? He has never said anything intelligent.

Pedro says:

09:17am | 30/07/09

Breakfast radio is listened to by kids so the choice of segments and comments from presenters should start from this perspective. If we exclude the rape from the debate for a second, Kyle & Jackie O’s obsession with quizing of people about their sex lives on radio should come with a M rating.  Their format should be restricted for the night timeslot.

eag says:

10:17am | 30/07/09

What on earth is a parent doing quizzing a 12 year old about sex on air?? Sack everyone.

brewil says:

10:53am | 30/07/09

When did it become appropriate for a broadcaster to ask a 14 year old girl about her sexual experiences.

Svasti says:

11:04am | 30/07/09

The whole segment sucked. Okay, so you do lie detector segments, but with 14 year old girls? The idiots KNEW what questions the mother planned to ask.

In what world is it sensible to ask a teenager such questions on a live radio show, regardless of her answers?

Yes, the mother needs to have her head read. But the question needs to be asked - what were the producers of the show thinking?

Kyle, Mr “I-had-a-rough-childhood” has clearly never suffered trauma and doesn’t know a great deal about abuse. Otherwise he would never had said ‘oh was that your only sexual experience’. Its appalling. But ANYONE with an ounce of sensitivity would never had said that either.

That girl has clearly been dealing with her pain privately and trying to get by with an insensitive mother who, two years down the road, still hadn’t gotten her daughter any help.

And now she has to deal with public embarassment too.

Way to go Kyle and Jackie.

Sack them.

brewil says:

11:10am | 30/07/09

How many people who comment here actually think it’s inappropriate to ask a child on air about her sexual experiences?
It doesn’t seem that many.

Pricey says:

11:10am | 30/07/09

brewil says:
When did it become appropriate for a broadcaster to ask a 14 year old girl about her sexual experiences.

July 30th, 2009 at 09:53am

You probably should listen to the audio if reading the story is too difficult.

eag says:
What on earth is a parent doing quizzing a 12 year old about sex on air?? Sack everyone.

Correct! Including the producer.

polygraph says:

11:17am | 30/07/09

Who cares about the comments of an insensitive radio shock jock, I was shocked at the use of a polygraph device in this manner. The underage participant was asked to incriminate herself about illegal drug use, and questioned about private sexual experiences, with no option to stop the examination, or refuse questions.

Other shows including “Moment of Truth”, using Polygraphs have been taken off air after contestants admitted to serious criminal offences but these shows still abide by ethical standards “Questions deemed sexually explicit — by Federal Communications Commission standards, anyway — or anything that could harm a minor are off-limits, ” Why are these guidelines not enforced in Australia?

Global Polygraph, a company offering lie detection services offers these frequently asked questions on their website, clearly the use of a polygraph test on the 3AW radio show was not in accordance with the standards of how a polygraph test is undertaken.

If I take the Polygraph examination whose side is the Polygraphist going to be on?
Neither side. The aim of Polygraphist is to seek the truth. He must give careful attention to every person he is examining. Every person, whether truthful or not, has the right to be examined with dignity and impartiality.

Can anyone force me to take Polygraph examination?
In order for a Polygraph examination to be administrated properly you must sit still and not move any part of your body. Since the Polygraphist must have this co-operation from you, you must volunteer for the test. If for any reason you don’t want to take the examination, you should certainly refuse the test.

I heard there would be questions about my sex habits?
Personal and intrusive questions have no place in a properly conducted Polygraph examination. Questions concerning your sex habits or preferences, beliefs or opinions regarding racial matters, political beliefs or affiliations, have no place in a Polygraph examination, unless you are accused of committing a sex crime and the purpose of the test is for you to prove your innocence.

Will there be a trick questions?
No. The Polygraph examiner is counting on your trust in him/her and your co-operation. The examiner cannot expect your trust or co-operation if they do something, which leads you to mistrust him/her. You will know the questions before the test begins. If you do not wish to have a certain question(s) asked, just let the Polygraphist know when he reads the questions to you before the test begins and they will not ask it.

gribbler says:

11:19am | 30/07/09

the blame that we’re searching for can be put entirely upon the mother and everyone who encouraged this “radio stunt.” it just shows how australian society has gone down. alot. all the counselling in the world won’t help this girl, or indeed the mother. and less of a media beatup would be a good thing too….

Lisa says:

11:25am | 30/07/09

The man is a pig.
The whole concept of asking a 12 year old about her sexual experiences live on air of a radio show is deplorable.
The producer and both hosts should be fired and the mother should be questioned about her motives - I doubt very seriously whether they were in the best interests of her daughter.

Susan says:

11:42am | 30/07/09

Reading most of the coments above I realise with amusement that you’re a bunch of puritanical twits. Do you not understand the average age for teenagers to experiment with sex is now so low that half of them aren’t even teenagers yet?????.
The fact of the matter is that the young woman who had that shitty experience is just 1 of thousands of underage woman who get “raped” every year. Luckily for her she can now get the help she so desperately needs thanks to a naive male.

L says:

12:18pm | 30/07/09

I agree that Kyle is a pig, but thats is his job. The idiot mother is the one to blame here. She has know for a few months and hasn’t even attempted to get her daughter counselling. No wonder she is turning out that way. At least Kyle and Jackie O offered free counselling.

Ky says:

12:57pm | 30/07/09

I agree Kyle is annoying, and I sometimes have to turn my radio off when I hear him, but this time it was not his fault!

The Mother of this Child knew about the rape… why in the world a Mother would put their daughter through a test like that asking sexually related questions is just foul! Im amazed what people will do for money.. little lone PINK TICKETS!!!!! 

oli says:

01:32pm | 30/07/09

sack him

Susannah says:

01:45pm | 30/07/09

Mondo Rock I think you are missing something important here!! 

I work in radio and I can tell you right now that they are responsible for everything that goes to air.  In organising a promotion like this the questions the Mother was asking the Daughter would have been checked, and if they weren’t then someone wasn’t doing their job.  Things like this are always supposed to be checked to make sure the segment doesn’t backfire.  If that question was allowed through it is a disgrace.  This station should NEVER have allowed a 14 year old to be questioned about her sex life.  This question was never going to lead to anything but humiliation for this girl.  The Mother is thoughtless and heartless and the station has been completely irresponsible.

Apparently 2Day FM doesn’t have a dump button, which is almost unheard of.  Almost all stations have a 7 second delay so that swearing and disturbing content can be dumped if necessary.  The need for this is blatantly obvious in this instance.  They should have dumped the segment from the moment the question was asked.  I hope they learn from this.

I HAVE heard the whole thing.  Multiple times, without editing.  I have access to all airplay on all stations and looked it up and listened to it myself repeatedly.  Kyle’s response was awful.  He may not be the PM but he should be socially responsible and is not above community standards.  He is also subject to broadcasting laws.  You don’t know what the intention behind his statement was but “simply redirecting the question” is not a good enough excuse.  He should have jumped in and stopped it right there not tried to keep it going and displaying a complete lack of heart or sympathy.  That is part of his responsibility as a Radio Personality.

Lastly, Mondo Rock, your evaluation of the Mothers’ questions and the girl’s response disgusts me. 

“The girl dodged the question by raising the rape allegation (which the mother was already aware of, and by the sounds of it doesn’t believe) and so Kyle pressed her to answer it. “

The biggest problem survivors of rape face is disbelief.  People like you make me sick.  Yes, as it stands, this is unproven.  However this girl deserves support, not to be exposed in the public forum, and then further humiliated by her own Mother and an arrogant, thoughtless arse like Kyle Sandilands.  For you to say she “dodged” the question shows you to be another uneducated, unfeeling moron.  Maybe you should do some research into rape and the affect on rape victims before you dare to make another statement like that.

Ramona says:

01:45pm | 30/07/09

If the girl’s mother had her head screwed on right, being aware that her daughter had been raped, she would not have put her through the interview. Especially being aware of the content previous to the interview. Simple as that. But hey, everyone wants their 15 minutes of fame, right? Let’s ruin a man’s career in the process of achieving that!
Perhaps Kyle did not choose his words so wisely, but the girl with her past experience simply should not have sat the interview. Shame on her mother.

Josh says:

02:35pm | 30/07/09

Kyle did nothing wrong. This is live radio and if anyone is at fault its the mother. He should actually be thanked for helping the family confront this terrible issue.

BTW Rape is called sexual assault under the law. It is violent, hideous and criminal, but its still a sex crime so the experience is sexual. I don’t know why anyone would argue otherwise.

Daisy says:

02:37pm | 30/07/09

I don’t listen to Kyle and Jackie O and never suspected that something as loathsome as asking 14-year-olds about their sexual experience live on air was what passed for entertainment in their program. Having learned that this is a semi-regular segment (admittedly, I expect they ask other, equally embarrassing questions when talking to different participants) I feel as though I’ve inadvertently discovered a stinking pile of decaying faeces underneath a particularly slimy rock. How horrible that people actually listen to this nastiness and how sad for our society that there are so many think this sort of unpleasantness is actually entertaining.

wendylyons@hotmail.com says:

02:42pm | 30/07/09

If Jackie O wasn’t there to stop the lie detector test, one could only imagine how far Kyle would’ve gone..he’s already indicated his impulsive desire to probe her with more sexual queries…she’s only 14!!! Isn’t there some criminal element in that?
This is what most people don’t realise where Kyle has gone wrong!

Not only do we know Kyle to be the perverted and annoying individual whose had no shame to stoop down so low as he has to get to where he’s at, but his senselessness and stupidity has angered the community too often.
It is evident his personality to host a program targeted largely at the teenage age group is not appropriate to our society…he’s not all to blame, the radio station won’t dump him because he brings ratings through controversy like this..

dave webster says:

02:52pm | 30/07/09

I am disturbed at the media backlash to this, and the consequences of over-reactive measures to discourage teen sex discourse. An excellent Melbourne Toast article today said:

“In one particularly vile segment, a Channel 7 commentator questioned what they were doing discussing sex with a 14-year-old, and went as far as to say that minors shouldn’t be allowed on the radio. The Sydney Morning Herald journalist in question was last seen skipping down the road, eyes closed, with her fingers in her ears shouting “If I can’t see it, it doesn’t happen” at the top of her voice.”

Quite. The incident was shocking and regrettable, but suggesting in any way that this is end of teen sex discussion in the media is insane.

Nicole says:

06:45pm | 30/07/09

Kyles reaction to the girls comments were stupid. But I can believe that he was shocked and didn’t know what to say. After that I’m sure they did react in the best way they could to a bad turn of events, however that does not justify the initial crime in putting a 14 year old on the radio against her wishes to be interrogated by her mother about personal details in her life.

There is a difference between what happened on this segment and simply discussing teen sex on the radio. If a minor calls the radio station and speaks about their experiences willingly then that is one thing. But that was not the case in this instance. The girl was forced on the show by her mother.

Even if the girl hadn’t have turned out to be a rape victim, there is no way she should have been asked those sorts of questions live on air. She clearly did not want to be on the show and the fact that her mother (who is in a position of power in her life) would make her go on is disgraceful. Furthermore the radio station, Kyle and Jackie O, should never have allowed an underage person to have to endure that line of questioning.

The segment is cruel even among two consenting adults, but in this case it is entirely immoral!

The mother, the station and the hosts had better be held responsible for this.

effie says:

09:54pm | 30/07/09

kyle did nothing wrong, i think everyone has just gotten him wrong. He was just put on the spot and had a to give a quick answer, just listen to the audio and it says it all.  I love listening to them every morning and i suggest if you dont like him just change the station; you boring people.  He is one of the most generous people on radio and i don’t think ive ever hired anyone give away as much as him. and as for the mother good luck, u have not only made ur daughters life harder but also an innocent man who just wanted to help (like usual).

Jess says:

12:30am | 31/07/09

I’m just as disgusted that this poor excuse for a mother would “force” her child to go on air and be hooked up to a lie detector test so that she could grill her about her sexual experiences. As for the person who said a teen girl calling and discussing her sexual experiences voluntarily, is any different; i would have to disagree. We are raising our children in a society where sex is everywhere to begin with. Teenage girls are still children. They should not be indulged on a radio station where the hosts are not qualified to discuss these sorts of things; and regardless, it shouldn’t be made public either.

However, I seriously question the idea that this child was forced to be hooked up to a lie detector. She probably did consent to it, but didn’t realise what a vindictive, attention seeking woman her mother was.

I hope child services are questioning this woman and her parenting methods.

Alannah says:

12:35am | 31/07/09

the police have been called and so have docs who do you think done that?? Kyle has steped in and got the ball rolling when the mother didn’t and now your all baging him. GIVE THE MAN SOME CREDIT.

Kyle was a street kid and he’s made it where most people haven’t; this would have hit home for Kyle. If i could talk for a million people “Kyle your not sacked” then I just have. If this girl hadn’t gone on his show we would never of known; police and docs would never have known and this girl wouldn’t be getting the help she getting now. The man who raped this girl will go to jail and without Kyle help this wouldn’t have happened. your a good bloke Kyle.

Steven R says:

01:40am | 31/07/09

Why is Kyle Getting bashed for this?

It’s obvious the Mother is SOLELY to blame. She knew of her Daughter’s rape and still went ahead with the stunt. How callous is SHE?

Her daughter was raped 2 years prior, she only finds out several months ago but she thinks it’s ok to go on a live radio show, hook her Daughter up to a lie detector and ask her personal questions about her sex life. Then admits that there has been no counselling for the child.

I think Kyle and Jackie actually did this child a favour. It’s sad that it had to happen this way but at least she is now getting some help and counselling to deal with this.

The Mother is the one at fault here, not Kyle or Jackie. Kyle’s response was obviously one of pure shock and horror and oh my god where do I go from here. I think after it was revealed that the child had been raped Kyle and Jackie handled it with great dignity and a genuine care for the girl. Something that her Mother is defiantly lacking.

paul says:

01:22pm | 31/07/09

Poll Results

Thanks for voting, here are the results so far:

Sack him
  73% (6133 votes)
Back him
  6% (512 votes)
Nothing - he’s a DJ, not a counsellor
  19% (1654 votes)
Total votes
  Total of 8299 votes

73% cant be wrong one would think.

Now lets see what the outcome from the police will be

the government should change legislation and make all radio station have at least a 30 second time delay so if this happens again then there no question about being wrong and charge the offenders.

Fiona says:

02:50pm | 31/07/09

For the 73% of people who want them sacked:
If we actually want Kyle and Jackie O to be held accountable for this, then we’ve got to do more.

Tell Austereo what you think at http://www.austereo.com.au/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=78&Itemid=186

Tell Optus what you think of them supporting a show that could do this by going to http://www.optus.com.au > Contact Us (bottom of the page) > Compliments & Complaints.

Tell any other sponsors you can find that you will be boycotting their products.

And finally, stop listening to the show.

Only by ratings going down & sponsors walking away will these two finally understand that what they did was wrong.

Shell says:

06:54pm | 31/07/09

Asking or allowing adult “entertainers” to question an underage girl about her sex life is absive, regardless of whether she has had sex or not. Why would a grown man or woman want to hear about the sexual antics of a child. If the child had answered that she had participated in a sex act with anyone it would still have been illegal, she is not at the age of consent. The fact that she revealed an assault is awful.
If she had answered that she had slept with her 16yr old boyfriend would the listeners be just as horrified or would they be titilated?

The whole thing was in incredibly BAD taste. Kyle and Jackie O are equally responsible and need to go!

L.R. says:

09:40am | 01/08/09

Mondo Rock you are so out of line it’s scary. This was child abuse, plain and simple. A child was intentionally publicly shamed for the purposes of entertainment aimed at people like you. A fourteen year old child can have no sexual experience that is NOT rape *because* they are FOURTEEN.

Minnie Mouse says:

12:02pm | 01/08/09

If you are such a sicko to be asking a young girl about her sexual experiences on live radio, you can’t claim to be shocked by whatever she might say. Allowing him to stay on air validates his crass and disgusting concepts of entertainment. 2DayFM, you are idiots. Sack him!

Marnie says:

04:56pm | 01/08/09

ok if Kyle is no Dr Phil why did he allow a mother and her 14 yr old daughter to talk about the girls sexual experiences on air these things are pretty personal and really risky thing to talk about yes the mother is an idiot for doing this to her daughter but the fact that a radioshow allows it they dont care they were laughing like this was some big joke before they talked to her they werent concerned at all when this was a serious sitution they only care about their ratings not about how this will effect the people they talk to

Nicole says:

06:52pm | 01/08/09

Jess,

Im sure they didn’t hold the girl down and strap her into the chair, but she wasn’t happy to be on there, which means she was forced. Even if she said she would go on the show, she was been pressured to by her mother (who is a person with power over her). She may have felt like she couldn’t say no without receiving some form of punishment from her mother.

It all raises the question of whether or not a 14 year old girl can give consent for this sort of thing. Even though 2dayfm didn’t force her into the chair it was negligent of them to allow her on in the first place, knowing the types of questions her mum qould be asking. Especially since when they first talked to her she said “I’m scared, its unfair”. She didn’t want to be there.

jake says:

12:33pm | 02/08/09

The interesting thing with this is that everyone blames Kyle. Don’t get me wrong the guy is a f***wit, but i don’t think this is his fault or that he is to blame. The people who are to blame are Austereo for allowing a stunt in which a 14 year old is probed on radio about her sex life. Secondly is the mother she new that this had happened and had found… Read More out only a month before, in knowing this firstly she doesn’t report it to the police and then she decides “oh I’ll take my daughter on radio and ask her questions about her sex life”. I blame the mother. Sure Kyle didn’t handle it the best and he said something stupid, but that is because he was shocked and didn’t know what to say, he tried to normalize the situation. He was stupid but is not to blame. Anyway that’s my piece.

Peace

Jake.

Caroline says:

11:15pm | 02/08/09

I don’t usually take the time to post comments, but this is an issue I felt so disgusted about that I had to. What I don’t understand is why most of the criticism is levelled at Kyle. Yes he royally stuffed up and showed horrific insensitivity - but what about Jackie O? She’s supposedly the ‘brains’ of the outfit, and would have met with producers to OK the segment before going on air. She is more to blame if you ask me. Front up Jackie and show some guts for once. Saying you didn’t know what was going to happen is the weakest excuse possible, it’s embarrassing to try and stand behind that. You knew a minor was going to be quizzed about very personal things. Surely that was enough. You guys think you are invincible and you are opportunistic in the worst way, you have pushed the barrow for far too long and it’s about time something stopped you.  Although I guess on a million dollar per annum salary, you are probably still being surrounded by people telling you how wonderful you are, and that this wasn’t your fault. Whilst you’re reclining in your mansions, please spare a thought for the girl you exploited and who will be scarred by this for the rest of her life. Losing your careers pales in comparison….

emdee says:

12:41am | 03/08/09

Agrees with Mondo Rock. Mother is sooo to blame.

gecko says:

05:51am | 03/08/09

yes i think its mothers fault. leave kyle alone, if u dont like him dont listen to him. simple as that…

Sexual assault victim says:

07:09am | 03/08/09

Mondo Rock and followers are just bloody ignorant. Sexual assault is NOT considered a sexual experience ~ hence the term assault.
Kyle, Jackie O and the girl’s “Mother” knew of this segment before hand so let’s not play blame games. Kyle is a ‘shock jock’ isn’t he??  So he should be able to cope with fallout. My sympathies lie with the girl and any listeners who are victims of sexual assault. They could have potentially done some serious damage to any of their listeners who have been victims of any form of sexual assault. I loathe ignorant people

BenP says:

07:42am | 03/08/09

I can only assume those who claim Kyle did nothing wrong see the concept of quizzing a 14-year-old about her sex life on national radio while she’s hooked up to a polygraph to be “nothing wrong”.

Nice bunch of folks, these commenters.

l says:

09:43am | 03/08/09

I think this was a poorly planned stunt from the beginning. I admit to a preconceived prejudice to Kyle & Jackie O from before this incident. I think their publicity stunts are malicious and callous and they are more concerned with ratings then the damage they are doing to the people involved.

However I agree that the mother is also to be held accountable in this instance. If she went in with advanced knowledge of her daughters’ previous trauma, then she is more to blame than the hosts in this instance. Regardless of the trust issues between herself and her daughter, there are better forums to find out what she wanted to know.

Still I have to admit that I would not be heart broken should this be the thing that finally gets those vapid shock jocks off the air.

Paul M says:

10:42am | 03/08/09

From the very first time I saw Kyle Sandilands on Big Brother many years ago, I wondered how the hell he managed to get a job on any sort of media.

Mal Content says:

02:20pm | 03/08/09

AM I THE ONLY ONE THAT FINDS THIS WHOLE THING CREEPY?!?!?! She is 14!! I dont care what those experiences are she should never have been asked about it…. and who is the one mentioning sex outside of the questions the mum asked??  How many times has this sort of thing been done to under age children?  If i found out my daughter had been asked about her sex life by a grown man, he would be at the cop shop asap.

Paul says:

05:08pm | 03/08/09

Ahhh what is so hard about this. From the outset, the very first comment from the girl was “This is not fair” and that she was not happy or comfortable AT ALL with what was happening. It should NOT have gone ahead, and for that the Radio Station MUST be held accountable.

What kind of “Mother”  after recently (2 months earlier apparently) finding out that her daughter had been raped, puts her child on national radio and quizes her about sex? What a disgrace. S. What kind of respect does she have for her daughter that she has to FORCE her onto national radio, hook her up to a lie detector and ask her completely private and intimate questions? She has NO respect for her child at all and if she has any other children, they should be taken off her.

Perhaps she should look at herself instead of having a go at her duaghter. If she was a decent parent with decent values then she would be able to trust her daughter. But she is not and the sooner her daughter gets out of her life the better off the daughter will be.

What ever happened to peoples sexuality and sex life being a personal and private thing? And where the hell do Kyle (gutless) and Jacky O (talentless) get off on publicly airing and commenting on what should be a very private and intimate conversation between a parent and her daughter?

Weak, gutless and pathetic 2dayFM.

kelly. says:

07:58pm | 03/08/09

Firstly, i think the girl and mother could of warned kyle and jackie o
about private quesitons like that being asked.
Its a disgrace that she was raped and i hope they find the person
responsible for commiting such a vulgar act.

Secondly, i think kyle could of acted a bit more
appropriately by not asking if she had any more
experiences but i was thankful how well jackie o
professionally handled it by suggesting counselling
and abborting the segment. Although the whole
lie dector segment should of never run on air
in the first place.

And Lastly, im so revolted at the mother. Shame
on her for asking her daughter about her sex life
when she was fully aware of what had happened.
Shes scarred her daughter for the rest of her life and showed truly
unremarkable parenting by not protecting her daughter.
Im really thankful shes not my mother because i would
never forgive her.

perth wa says:

08:22pm | 03/08/09

2dayFM,,,, WHAT WERE YOU THINKING… kyle and jackie are NOT to blame for this… This is the radio stations $&@* up…...and they are the ones who should be held accountable…The poor girls mother also has no right to put her daughter on there, and from the audio you can hear that when the question is asked, the girl says to her mother ” stop smiling ” ... Does the mother find this funny?

Anti-MediaHype says:

08:25pm | 03/08/09

Kyle is not to blame!  It’s the mother’s fault for the on-air situation.  How can the mother live with herself for putting her daughter through this, it’s very poor parenting.  Perhaps child services should get involved.  It is obvious that the mother can not look after her child.

As to all of you sheep calling for Kyle’s head to roll, listen to the audio and form your own opinion.  You will hear that Kyle is shocked and BOTH he and Jacky O offer counseling.  Kyle is the one who says that the station will pay for all the help they need.  He is not the bad guy in all this!

Dave says:

11:11pm | 03/08/09

Thats funny, I thought it was the mother who asked the prepared questions.
The mother is a disgrace for putting her daughter through that, knowing very well what had happened in the past. So to all you angels out there, if only we were all as perfect as you. What Kyle said sounded very insensitive, but what came from his mouth wasn’t scripted or prepared, it was spur of the moment and he was in a very shocking situation. You really think Kyle was laying the boot into a rape victim, get a grip people. It’s the mother who should be held responsible.

marie kara says:

11:23pm | 03/08/09

I THINK EVERYONE SHOULD GROW UP AND SEE THIS FOR WHAT IT IS.  IN MY OPINION IT IS NOT KYLES FAULT.  HE MAY BE ARROGANT AND NOT LIKED BY MANY AUSTRALIANS BUT IF YOU HERE THE INTERVIEW HE WAS SHOCKED AND REACTED HASTILY WITHOUT THINKING.  IF YOU ASK ME THE MOTHER IS THE IDIOT.  WHY IF HER DAUGHTER WAS RAPED DID SHE NOT SEEK HELP AND INSTEAD PUT HER ON THE RADIO TO BE HUMILIATED IN THAT WAY, THE MOTHER IS THE ONE WHO SHOULD BE SACKED FROM EVER PARENTING AGAIN.

lourdes stone says:

11:29pm | 03/08/09

a person like kyle should not be on the radio.  the guy is not well liked and deserves to be sacked.  well done channel 10 for sacking sandiland, you made australians proud of your move.

Sad for the girl............... :( says:

12:20am | 04/08/09

Im no fan of Kyle and Jackie-O, but I have to say….. He may have come across as callous and heartless, but after hearing the audio, he kind of sounds stunned.  I think he said the wrong thing, but I’m honestly more concerned for the girl.  How awful for her to have suffered like that, had a mother that knew all about it, but still decided to put her on the radio for a segment like that.  I hope that with counselling the young girl will be able to rebuild her self-esteem and get her life back on track.  But guys seriously,  if you don’t like Kyle, more fool you for tuning in.  Just don’t listen to him, and move on.  The last thing that that poor girl needs is everyone talking about her…......

Altek says:

01:00am | 04/08/09

Kyle & Jackie o are pieces of human trash and like all trash their careers should be disposed of never to be seen,heard or observed in any way ever again!

N. Anderson says:

01:36am | 04/08/09

There’s a saying - ” people get the politicians they deserve ” , and I think the same can be said about the entertainment media in this country.

When you look at some of the tasteless crap that’s allowed to be aired these days in the name of freedom of speech, (or artistic creativity, whatever…....), it’s hardly something new.
Look at shows like Big Brother, and what about what happened recently with The Chasers, and their tasteless stunt pretending to be granting wishes in a hospital ward for terminally ill children.

The really sad part about it , is that all of these talentless turds would get nowhere in life, without the media outlets hiring them in the first place and giving them Carte Blanche, just to try and win ratings wars.
And more importantly, there wouldn’t be any ratings won, if they didn’t obviously appeal to an audience out there, somewhere.

That’s the type of society we’ve become, I guess.

Renee Baby says:

05:59am | 04/08/09

Firstly can I just point out that the mother is completely to blame not Kyle or anyone else!!! The mother instigated it by ringing into the show. The media are making it seem as if they “strapped” the girl down and forced her to do it. If anyone forced her it was her own mother. The mother came up with the questions and she asked her the questions. Kyle and Jackie O basically sat there and did nothing. I think Kyle and Jackie did the right thing by ending it straight away and offering the girl counselling which would be on them. The mother was the one that was pushing to continue to the question of if that was the only time. Kyle has apologised and explained that he basically freaked out because he was on the spot and had never dealt with something like that before. I feel really sorry for him!!!

Secondly I think this woman needs to be taken away from her daugher!!! Not a good parent what so ever!!! It’s completely wrong to do this on air let alone at all. If you want to know something because you are worried then you ask just like a normal person. If your daughter is sneaking out then it’s because of how you raised her (to not have trust in you and without morals). Eventually every girl sneaks out and at that point you need to punish her but also sit down and come to some kind of compromise (like letting her out but only if you get to drop her there or if you know the address, who she will be with, and giving her a fair curfew) The mother needs help! She knew her daughter had been raped and still hadn’t gone and got her counselling… why? Shouldn’t it be obvious why your daughter is being a rebel after her telling you about the rape? ARGHHH it makes me sooooo angry when feral people have children… its obvious they cant look after them!! Did you hear the feral accent she had?

Finally! If you don’t like Kyle then don’t listen to his show!!! It’s as simple as that. People are always having cries about shows that can be extreme and it really annoys me!!! If you are a sensitive person then don’t listen to or watch shows that are known for their extreme behaviour!!! People we should be proud that we have freedom of speech in the media and if you don’t like it then maybe consider moving to a communist country!

Disgusted says:

10:48am | 04/08/09

The whole sad situation is as much a reflection on our society as it is on those involved.

We allow (albeit passively) the media to invade privacy every time we watch the reality TV, listen to the shock radio or read the tabloid newspapers. These things exist because they rate or sell and it is the average citizen (like us) who are responsible for their existence.

To then bleat and want to lay blame when the very thing we support steps beyond whatever moral boundaries we have left is blatant hypocrisy of the worst kind.

No one can hold their head high in this situation. The mother, the producers, the station management or any of us. That’s the simple truth.

That Channel 10 have now seen fit to jump on the moral outrage bandwagon is another sad example of hypocrisy. Sandilands role on that program was to be the bad boy and his contribution to that role was a part of the success the show has experienced. To now turn that around and say that he doesn’t fit with their family values shows them to be what they really are - worried about their revenue stream and nothing else. I’d be sure that some of the hurtful comments he has made to contestants over his period with the show have caused trauma to those on the receiving end but we (and Channel 10) lapped that up under the guise of entertainment.

AF says:

12:46pm | 04/08/09

I cant even begin to tell you how I feel about this girls mother, so I’m not going to evern try.  As for Kyle Sandilands and Jackie O.  No matter what was said or not said, what their intentions were or were not.  If they had any previous knowlege or backround on the child or not.  The whole Idea of putting a 14 child on a lie detector and asking her about her sexually experinces is morally repugnant and just plain wrong.  Mr Sandilands has commented that it has been blown out of proportion.  Excuse me but any one with an iota of class, intelligence, common decency, commpassion or plain common sense would never have agreed to question a 14 year old child on their sexuality on the air no matter what her ridiculous mother wanted to know.

H.James says:

01:58pm | 04/08/09

I tuned into today FP today for the first time in years, I caught up with a few old friends, Tim Bailey with the skiing and Sando with the traffic! It was fantastic, but I will NEVER listen to that program while Kyle and Jackie are on air, so I guess at the end of the week, I’ll be off to another station.

Michael says:

03:04pm | 04/08/09

When the mother and daughter was brought to 2Day FM they should have been directed to counselling.  Kyle needs to take responsibility for his actions instead of hiding and defending his actions.

Rape is not a sexual experience!!!

Dee says:

03:31pm | 04/08/09

Talk about Mountains out of Molehills.  I was raped.  I didnt take offence to what Kyle said.  He did nothing wrong in the face of a statement that shocked him into blindly asking his next question, but as soon as it sunk in, he stopped the program and did what was right. You all need to get a grip on reality.  What makes it worse is now that all this hype is going on about Kyle, the little girl is no doubt feeling the pressure of having the whole situation lime lighted. I admit I would not have agreed to the interview itself, given the subject, however, Kyle will do what the producers allow him to do or moreover.. what they tell him to do.  Thats Showbusiness!

Concerned says:

03:43pm | 04/08/09

He stopped the show because the producers were signalling in the next booth - be realistic!

Au says:

03:52pm | 04/08/09

The mum is the idiot no doubt about it.

Leave him alone says:

05:13pm | 04/08/09

Why is Kyle getting all the flack for this - he’s just a talking head!!
What about the mother, program director, promotions, producer?
He’s been targetted because he’s outspoken.  Worse things have happened in this world!  At least the girl finally got help because he seems like the mother didn’t get her any at all.

darren says:

06:54pm | 04/08/09

I find it funny that so many pass so much judgment, all declaring they know all the facts ...everything from “Kyle knew…”, “the producers knew ...”, “the mum knew ...”
my question is simple ... how do you know?  you don’t. we can only judge by the comments given by the people concerned, and by listening to the ACTUAL segment.
Further, for such intelligent being that you obviously all are - the classic “Chinese whispers” effect that has occurred with this sensationalized crap, is even evident in your own postings .... some of you have the girl at 14, some at 12 ..which just proves the point - you are quick to judge and make accusation without ensuring you know all the facts.
Do i know the facts - No i dont.  My opinion is that someone should NOT be sacked for something which is not their fault. The only thing that can absolutely be attributed to Kyle by all us “uninformed” is that he asked “is that your only experience”
we do not know, and can only presume the context he asked it ... a blurt to fill awkward silence? a concerned question as to whether it was the only time she was raped? an inadvertent slip by someone caught so off-guard by a revelation from a teenage girl that they did not see coming?

We have a “innocent until proven guilty” system here, and i enjoy living by its jurisdiction ... perhaps those who are quick to throw stones at Kyle merely because they don’t like or appreciate him in what ever capacity, should be fairer to the ideals we love in this country. 

Hate him if you want for whatever reason you want ... but don’t hang a man just because of your subjective view

I listened to the clip. says:

07:38pm | 04/08/09

Ok, so I’ve listened to the clip.
I agree with all of the above who are blaming the mother, who no doubt needs some serious counselling herself.
At the same time, it would be wholly ignorant to say that Kyle and Jackie O (and the producers!) did nothing wrong - it is very clear right from the outset that they were comfortable with delving into the details of a minor’s sex life, which under any circumstance is plain wrong and gross. This is not a ‘cotton wool’ statement, but one that anyone with a grain of decency would attest to. Screw people who degrade the privilege of ‘free speech’ by equating it with crude public voyeurism.

vee says:

08:30pm | 04/08/09

I think people are completely overreacting! I never expected it to get so out of hand. Kyle didn’t mean to harm anyone. Right after that teenage girl revealed what happened to her there was complete silence..an awkward silence. Obviously Kyle was just dumbstruck and had no idea what to say thus he made the mistake…seriously..I think anyone could have made a similar mistake, especially if you were working on radio for as long as he has.
That girl’s mother is to blame…shame on her.

Wayne Hosking says:

01:01pm | 05/08/09

The qustion really shouldnt be whether he should be sacked or not, the question is how the hell did he ever become a radio presenter?? let alone a TV personality.  He is a talentless, uneducated boofhead… the kind that im sure was the worst kind of bully in school. Ive always thought this from the moment I heard him speak.

Gerry says:

01:38pm | 05/08/09

Ummm Darren “Kyle did nothing wrong here”, Kyle, JO and the lot of them strapped a kid to a lie detector, complete with the investigator, to interpret the responses to questions about sex and drugs. She’s a kid! And bloody Kyle OKed it. As Kyle proclaims loudly almost each day “I run things around here, not you and not the management of this station - ME! And I’m riding this babuy for all it’s worth”

darren says:

02:49pm | 05/08/09

What you forget in this country is that a “minor” cannot act of their own volition. It follows that if a 14 year old girl registered for, was accepted, and went on air, the radio station would have questions to answer.

The next point to that is that a “minor” has permissions granted through a consenting guardian. 

Let’s hypothesize for just a moment - because that’s all we can do when we do NOT know all the facts - a 14 year old girls says to her mum, “i want to go on the lie detector segment” ...for whatever reason.  The mum says “sure, no worries, i register you and give the station permission to hook you up “

so the radio station presents the segment, a minor, with a parent’s permission - LEGAL

then the mother asks a question quite beyond the scope of where the station, and at the very least the presenter, believed it would go .... i ask in that scenario

WHO IS TO BLAME - LEGALLY

Jez says:

06:40pm | 05/08/09

Theres a mother which clearly should be penalised for publicly humiliating her daughter on radio. She knew the rape occured, yet asked the question, which incites some pain for her daughter . She needs her head checked. This is when relaity goes to far, when minors are forced into the medias spootlight and told to dance metaphorically speaking

Marie says:

06:57pm | 05/08/09

Very few people are pointing fingers at her mother. The poor girl didn’t want to do the interview, but her b**** of a mother made her and her b**** of a mother was the one who asked the question. It’s obvious who’s really to blame if you listen to the audio.

GET OVER IT. says:

08:46pm | 05/08/09

GET OVER IT YOU PEOPLE everyone wants to attack kyle and say that he was in the wrong for even having a 14 year old on the lie detector BUT no one seems to be accusing the MOTHER who allowed her 14 year old daughter to be strapped up! ITS NOT FAIR for kyle and/or Jackie O to lose their careers over this! they are the most entertaining pair on the radio and if it wasn’t for them mornings would be so dull! you ALL need to get over the kyle bashing and grow your own backbones. Kyle is straight and honest and if you don’t like it that’s your problem tune into another radio station and spend your time more usefully instead of bickering on like pensioners with nothing better to do!

South East Asian says:

11:02pm | 05/08/09

I dont like Kyle on TV but it dont think he is as bad as all the media making him to be, i listened to the audio and i think everyone should give them a chance, who is perfect here please raise your hand? Kyle and Jackie had made a mistake, they aplogised at the end of the audio, they have been in hiding, Kyle got sacked,  and now you people wants them to loose their career in Radio? That girl is one victim in the story already, do you want another 2 victims? you want them living in hell for the rest of their lives?? Give them a chance you horrible people!!! Everyone deserves a second chance, you curse them enough .
A few months back, during their segment called ” Heartless hotline” or something, Jackie cried when she heard a tragic story , Kyle offered his own help to some fire victim , they are not bad people , that’s a mistake and they apologised at the end of the tape, i think everyone should give them another chance, it this had not been brought to radio, how many of you know that the girl had never got any kind of councelling or helping from the authority, who should be blame here?  Think carefully and dont make judgement when you dont know people enough, stop scrutinising them , you are creating more victims, Kyle has faced the consequence, dont push them down the dark hole people , have a heart !!

terry says:

12:27pm | 06/08/09

kyle made a mistake, jackie o made a mistake WE ALL MAKE STUPID MISTAKES! WE ARE NOT PERFECT NO MAN IS, so we all should stop continuing pointing the finger at them.  I wish the sydney AM radio old farts would stop continuing knocking kyle and jackie o and making fun of them, and I wish they (am radio old farts) would stop involving kyle’s wife now.  It"s nearly been two weeks am radio, stop your geriatric whinging GET OVER IT!

Davo says:

03:23pm | 06/08/09

the fact that this tool has any popularity at all and is in the public eye astounds me and makes me lose respect for my fellow man. Also maybe they should have meetings to dicuss what content will be on the show. idiots.

mel says:

04:03pm | 06/08/09

sack kyle sandilands!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he does not deserve to be on air!!!!!

amanda says:

05:56pm | 06/08/09

Leave Kyle alone…. Give him his jobs back… and get that girl away from her disturbed “mother”.....
If people dont want to be questioned… why go on a lie detector test on air? No one forces you to go on…. and Kyle isnt the god of 2dayFM.. he doesnt create or control every segment….

Jase says:

07:34pm | 06/08/09

How different is the Kyle and jackie O show to ACA and TT?

Having a crack at societies misfortunes is what us ‘voyeurs’ crave daily….and a ratings winner!  This is no different to Alan Jones, Ray Hadlee, Steve Price ranting & raving at the expense of others so THEY can attract outrageous salaries and bonuses.

It’s only when a taboo subject is involved that anything with a brand runs for cover and looks for scapegoats.

Australian media has always had insecurities with individuals who generate more interest than them from breaking the ‘norms’ and reap the benefits.  So when an opportunity arises, they’ll go extreme lengths to eliminate a threat.

The show didn’t ruin the 14yo’s life - sadly she’s a product of her environment.

Perhaps that is where the focus should be.
I for one will boycott Channel 10, Fremantle media shows and Optus products for taking such a cowardly stance.  They have benefited from the Kyle & Jackie O show right up to this incident.  And cashed in!  Only when there’s an outcry that they will try deceive the public into thinking they have morals.

I hope that Kyle and Jackie pull through this even bigger and even stronger!

Aaron says:

08:59pm | 06/08/09

Kyle is a ledgend and I hope he will be back on the air soon. Australian Idol will be crap without him, the other judges will be too goody goody, thinking that maybe they will say something wrong and get sued.

AJ says:

09:33pm | 06/08/09

It seems that every negative judgment of Kyle is made by opinions already formed about the 2Day FM Radio announcer. I never liked Kyle either, however I have been feeling more sorry for the guy every day. If you don’t like Kyle then fine, but don’t attack him out of bias - he was not the one at fault in this situation. If he is to lose his job, let it be for something he was actually at fault for. Stop attacking him for something that was not his fault just because YOU don’t like him. Just remember - there is someone out there that doesn’t like you either. Should you lose your job for asking a silly question at work because they don’t like you?

Yes it was on the radio and it was in regard to the rape of a 14 year old girl - but don’t forget it was the mother that asked the questions and interrogated her own daughter - Kyle was just in shock at what he heard and was not sure of how to respond. I think he wanted to try and deter it away from what had happened and just - without thinking - asked a stupid question. It happens.

I once asked someone - at their own brothers funeral, “Hi, how are you?” then responded before he did saying, “oh, stupid question.” To me that was a stupid thing to say to someone at their brother’s funeral - but it was because I was nervous and did not know what to say or do.

People need to be a little more rational and logical about this. No one is perfect. Just leave Kyle alone.

Karly says:

01:13am | 07/08/09

IT WAS THE MOTHERS FAULT!!!! clearly stop accusing him for a mistake he made how the hell was he meant to react he was shocked everyone that heard it was

CA says:

01:26am | 07/08/09

I must admit that I have been a listener of the Kyle and Jackie O show on the occasions when I drive to work in the mornings and at times have been entertained by some of their segments. But I strongly agree that it was in extremely bad taste and poor judgment by all parties at 2Day FM and the mother to go ahead, regardless of the rape statement made by the 14 year old girl. Though understandably its their job to get the morning ratings, but certainly there are ethical boundaries as to how this is approached and it most definitely should not be at the price of others misfortunes, heartaches and tragedies. And yes even though everyday we are constantly bombarded in the media by misfortunes and tragedies, it gets to me when people get to exploit these situations as being funny and amusing for the sake of entertainment and ratings. I’m afraid that both Kyle and Jackie O’s drive for the bucks has clouded their judgment on what is simply right and wrong.

This also goes in general on how the duo have treated people on the show in the past. On many occasions I’ve heard Kyle slagging off other people because of in-differences of opinions. There is nothing wrong in voicing your opinion (everyone has that right) but don’t be disrespectful, rude and arrogant to others when doing so, there are ways in doing this besides putting on the tough guy cape ( that’s why Kyle has rubbed so many the wrong way).

As for Jackie even though she is not as blunt and cut throat as Kyle, unfortunately she has gone for the ride and has played into the good cop bad cop role. Either way she is just a responsible as Kyle. To be honest I’ve had enough listening their bad radio antics and stunts and I would not miss the show if its axed. Might be best to put on a bunch of my favorite CD’s in the mornings on the way to work. What ever the decision, I hope that they have learned from this experience and taken responsibility. Unfortunately for them sometimes the only way to bring them back down to earth is to hit them in the hip pocket where it hurts..  both for the individuals and company, maybe then they will think twice next time.

Bradley says:

10:03am | 07/08/09

This bafoon has lowered the IQ of Australians for far too long.  There is a place for entertainment - but he is not it.

fred flinstone says:

12:53pm | 07/08/09

The fact of the matter is the mother is an idiot and if it was possible to not cause any distress, she should be banned from motherhood. But Kyle is obsessed with sex. Everything comes down to sex with him. Obviously he has some issues there. And quite frankly Kyle should not be asking questions when he most certainly does not have the experience to deal with an unexpected outcome. The girl answered a question and Kyle’s lack of experience as a counselor came through. Thank god he is off the air and about time his nasty sexual connotations are not in our face anymore. Unfortunately I suspect someone with his kind of problems will only rise to come back bigger and worse than before.

Graeme says:

12:45am | 09/08/09

A 14 year old and questions about sex - let’s stop right now ! Kyle Sandilands and a lie detector - we are really pushing the boundaries. Kyle Sandilands is a BLOATED, FAT **** that no real person or radio station would associate with.

Kyle Sandilands is a NO talent, a non entity, a blot on society. There is nobody in this world that listens to him for the “Kyle” factor, they listen to him for the “shock” factor. His

Nellie says:

01:01pm | 13/08/09

everyone who is not in media and is not famous makes many many mistakes everyday and everyone of them expect all celebrities or such to be like angel free from any fault. thats ridicules. give Kyle a job on australian idol, he talks about music, give him a job to find out if the mother’s concern about her daughter’s sex life is right or not.. he will do his job again. producer of live lie detector who manage the whole program is the one to blame.

angeliki valassis says:

03:04pm | 16/08/09

Its not just about this stunt. Its about Kyles attitude to life in general I object to. He seems to think that crude, rude, lewed, obnoxious and bad taste behaviour is going to get him noticed. WELL IT HAS. He is the butt of most comedians jokes and I will not watch or listen to anything with him in/on it unless its an interview which may reveal what an insecure spoilt brat he is.

Max says:

01:46pm | 18/08/09

stupid mainstream radio stations, im sick of em, all they care about is the ratings and the money

Esin and Erkan says:

12:02am | 28/08/09

We think Kyle being sacked is the biggest load of crap ever! Its so stupid, we listened to the discussion on air and CLEARLY he had no bad intentions when he asked what he did. We don’t understand all you people who bad mouth Kyle just because you don’t like him.. Fair enough, don’t like him, but im sure you all know deep down inside that he is not in the wrong. The only person to blame for this whole matter is the girls mother; she is the reason that this girl now feels embarrassed and also an innocent man has lost his career. We definitely want Kyle back, especially on Australian Idol… Aussie idol is BORING without him!!!

ellen says:

04:18pm | 08/09/09

Kyle, what an ugly, arrogant man he is towards Magda.I could not stand him on Australian Idol either. He ia a bully and needs to be taken off the air.

Kayla says:

12:36am | 09/09/09

As much as I already disliked him, I gave him the benefit of the doubt in concern with the rape scandal, I listened to the interview and he did sound sincerely confused so I assumed his response was simply all he could come up with out of shock, but since hearing what he said about Ms. Szubanski and the absolutely despicable reference to concentration camps combined confirmed the fact that he should not even be granted the freedom to live in this country.
By his statements it’s appallingly clear that all he aims for is notoriety by causing what he thinks to be harmless controversy, which to every sane person listening is just blatant disregard for anyone but himself.
Absolutely vile man. There is nothing humorous about what he said, and you must be out of your mind to even attempt to justify what Sandilands said.

Bartek Klimczak says:

10:52pm | 11/09/09

Middle class agonising over middle class values, which neither the mum nor the girl seem to expouse. No sympathy! Want to blame someone, blame the mother or the child, both seem to be lacking a moral compass

Anthony says:

02:46am | 13/09/09

It’s society. Sex should only be for married people. By “married” I mean two people who have committed to stay with each other until death and then carry that commitment through. Society goes against that and now we have this shit-storm here as a result and we havn’t even scratched the surface. God isn’t being a spoil-sport by telling people how they should live their lives, He is trying to save people from humiliation and stress like this whole radio thing here. So how about living how Jesus tells you instead of looking for someone to pin the blame?!

Helene says:

11:53am | 07/10/09

This whole situation makes me sick. Who in their right minds would find content like this amusing? I suppose people shouldn’t be surprised though, considering Jerry Springer and co are watched daily.

Lie detectors don’t even work anyway. Numerous studies have been done and yet they’re still used by law enforcement, corporate companies etc.The machines measure various physiological changes, including blood pressure and heart rate, to determine when subjects are getting anxious, based on the idea that deception involves an element of anxiety. But because an emotion such as anxiety can be triggered by many factors other than lying, experts worry that the tests can overlook smooth-talking liars while pointing a finger at innocent people who just happen to be rattled.

Check out this video, a perfect example of why this lie detector segment is completely ridiculous…

http://blogs.howstuffworks.com/2009/03/11/how-lie-detectors-dont-work/

Mass says:

12:02pm | 30/10/09

Clearly from the audio,  the mother already knew of the rape before this interview, and yet she brings up a sensitive issue. Kyle and Jacky O had no idea of what was to happen. And when it did happen, Kyle merely tried to change the path of the conversation.

Leave them alone!!!!