So Whitney Houston died and the news broke social media.


Facebook exploded, pieces fell off YouTube and Twitter practically melted as music fans around the world took to their keyboards to tell how much their hearts hurt and how all of this was that BASTARD Bobby Brown’s fault. Tsk. Not humping around. Indeed.

Any celebrity loosely qualified to deserve the title issued a solemn statement of sadness and love.

“Wow. RIP Whitney Houston. Grew up on her,” some actress I’ve never heard of tweeted, as if Whitney Houston were a nutritious breakfast cereal.

But while the world sobbed and wailed along to Whitney’s greatest hits, DID ANYONE, A SINGLE SOUL, STOP FOR A SINGLE SECOND TO CONSIDER HOW I MIGHT BE FEELING?

Hmmm? What’s that? What do I have to do with it? I only loved her more than it’s possible to love any living creature, that’s all.

At least I did when I was 13.

You see, Whitney Elizabeth Houston, born East Orange New Jersey, August 9, 1963 was responsible for the sexual awakening of one Gregory J. Barila, farm boy from the back blocks of country Victoria.

Just like we can never know exactly when and where we’re destined to shuffle off life’s mortal coil, the agents of our budding sexual awareness will always be as random and mysterious as life itself.

Mine would be Whitney Houston in The Bodyguard in the Deakin Cinema Complex in Mildura in 1993.

I didn’t plan on falling in lust that night, but then I hadn’t anticipated locking eyes with the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. Maybe even more beautiful than Sale of the Century’s Delvene Delaney, and she was a fox.

Sitting there in the darkened cinema with Whitney, not only did I know I loved her, I knew exactly why. That nose…. it was so… lovely.. and that skin, it was so smooth.

The impact on me was profound and lasting. I went into the cinema that night a boy and left…. a boy with funny feelings in the middle. I dreamed about that that nose and skin for months to come.

And all of it was a bit strange, because while she was undeniably beautiful I was more inclined to feel amorous towards not the woman who sang I Will Always Love You, but the woman who wrote it, Miss Double D Dolly Parton.

But, alas, the feeling passed.

Whitney went on to smaller and worse things, while I went on to have a string of big and small screen affairs with Sharon Stone, Demi Moore, and when she did her hair right, even Julia Roberts.

But that didn’t mean a little piece of me didn’t die when I heard the news.

After all, we had shared a special moment.

And that night in 1993, in Mildura’s premier entertainment complex (they’ve done a lovely job on the expansion) I found the greatest love of all.

Do you mind if I sing a little? “I believe the children are our future…..”

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    • Pastor Sauce (the only one) says:

      08:20am | 13/02/12

      Whitney died doing what she did best….................holding a note.

    • Dragon says:

      08:48am | 13/02/12

      And iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, Will always love yyoooooooooooooooooouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!

      Sorry, I’ts still hideous!!

    • Pastor Sauce (the only one) says:

      09:14am | 13/02/12

      OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO I wanna dance with somebody
      Yaaaaaaaaaaaaay I dance with somebody
      Yeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah I dance with somebody

      I always thought she was playing with herself while singing this.

    • Bruce says:

      11:40pm | 13/02/12

      Nothing against Whitney Houston, but god I hated that song., IWALY. Even now I just want to throw the radio out the window when I hear it !

    • Kirsty says:

      08:39am | 13/02/12

      My favourite quote regarding her death so far is “now the game of Cluedo begins, I think it was the bodyguard in the opium den with the 100 dollar bill.”

    • Dragon says:

      08:45am | 13/02/12

      “and how all of this was that BASTARD Bobby Brown’s fault. Tsk. Not humping around. Indeed”

      Thanks Greg, I needed to laugh to get Monday going…

    • Greg says:

      08:58am | 13/02/12

      Oh thanks Dragon. Glad it gave you a chuckle on your Monday morning.

    • Seth Brundle says:

      12:17pm | 13/02/12

      If you can’t laugh at someone dying permaturely, what can you laugh at eh?

    • Fred says:

      08:56am | 13/02/12

      I put her along side Rick Astley and Bros. That was when I first got into pop, before I got into rock a couple of years later. I imagine them living in a mansion doing sfa living the dream. So it saddens me she couldn’t just rest on her laurels like them.

    • Dave says:

      09:00am | 13/02/12

      Lots of money. Bobby Brown. Drugs.  This was always going to end tragically. RIP Whitney.

    • Nathan L says:

      09:06am | 13/02/12

      News of Whitney Houston’s death travelled with such speed. When I heard I couldn’t help but crack up with emotion. She was a real heroin. It’s such a blow. She really made a hash of things though. Her life just went to pot. Someone should have kept tabs on her.

    • AFR says:

      09:26am | 13/02/12

      Whilst I think its “too soon”, I do admire the creativity.

    • nankypoo says:

      09:26am | 13/02/12

      Excellent!

    • Lee says:

      09:56am | 13/02/12

      No, she wasn’t a “heroin”. She was a cocaine… therefore your “blow” description is probably apt. Her life didn’t go to “pot”. It went to booze and prescription drugs.
      I think you meant heroine.

    • Disgusted says:

      10:14am | 13/02/12

      That is really disrespectful, the lady just died!!!! Have a bit of respect and it isnt funny in the slightest

    • Dave says:

      10:23am | 13/02/12

      Shooooooom!!!  That was the sound of Nathan’s clever post completely flying over Lee’s head. grin

    • Anonymous says:

      11:32am | 13/02/12

      Awww, BOO FRICKETY HOO, Disgusted.

    • TheRealDave says:

      09:12am | 13/02/12

      If I have to hear that effing song one more effing time I think that I’m going to start taking effing drugs…..

    • TheBrad says:

      09:13am | 13/02/12

      There’s going to be a huge line outside of Whitney Houston’s funeral next week. Which, coincidentally, is what killed her.

    • nihonin says:

      09:31am | 13/02/12

      lol, please stay on the white line, thank you for your co-operation.

    • Sigmoid says:

      12:24pm | 13/02/12

      How Will I Know if it’s too soon for Whitney jokes?

    • Seth Brundle says:

      12:24pm | 13/02/12

      She got killed by a line of people at a funeral ?

    • Troy says:

      01:25pm | 13/02/12

      I heard that she died just hours after being asked to judge the 2012 season of The X Factor. Personally I think she made the right decision.

    • Ali K says:

      09:24am | 13/02/12

      Well one down 9 to go Whitney,

      Maria Carey, Celine Deon, Bette Midler, Barbara Steisand, Lisa Minelli, Pink, Cher, Goldie Horn and that woman who is married to Barnaby on the old Midsummer Murder series. If they leave this earth sooner rather than later the world will be a better place

    • AdamC says:

      09:49am | 13/02/12

      This is in rather poor taste.

      And it is Goldie *Hawn*.

    • RJB says:

      10:30am | 13/02/12

      Do the moderators think the juvenile comment from this silly little girl is appropriate?

    • The Angry Ghost of Joey Ramone says:

      11:34am | 13/02/12

      You left off the “youth brigade” from your musical Darwin Award list: Spears, Ke$ha, Gaga, Swift, Rihanna, and all those other god awful artistes…

      And we haven’t even gotten started on the male list…Craig David - we’re looking at YOU!  smile

    • Heather says:

      11:49am | 13/02/12

      surely you meaan Liza with a Z, not Lisa with an S. And no I don’t approve of your post

    • TheRealDave says:

      02:49pm | 13/02/12

      come on, fair go…I don’t think anyone likes barbars Streisand…

    • Fiona says:

      06:38pm | 13/02/12

      RJB, I’d say they’re just as appropriate as the other juvenile comments posted up here. I was never a big Whitney fan, loved her voice, but her life was a car crash. The level of rudeness about her is something though…whether anyone likes it or not, she was an influential 80s popstar.

    • Gregg says:

      09:27am | 13/02/12

      Yes, Whitney did have a cute nose and could really hold some notes.
      Whether it was getting hooked up with Brown or just becoming hooked, it seems as though many have been stars lose out when they stop shining so brightly.

    • Must be a Liberal says:

      10:33am | 13/02/12

      Guess the holding a note went right over the top of your head.

    • Kika says:

      09:27am | 13/02/12

      Poor Whitney. She was trying to get her life back together again and must have spiralled backwards… Who knows. I don’t think they’ev conclusively said drugs killed her. But she wasn’t healthy. She is one of my earliest memories. Being 5 and listening to ‘I wanna dance with somebody’ and thinking she was one of the most prettiest people I’ve ever seen, with all the colours and her hair all curly and blonde. She looked just like a living version of one of my sister’s Barbie and the Rockers dolls - DeeDee the Drummer. She was cool.

      RIP Whitney. I pray your soul finds rest..

      **

      Now of course my inner consipracy theorist says that a) Osama Bin Laden isn’t really dead b) He always had a major crush on her c) Maybe one of the terms of his ‘surrender’ was for US to pay Whitney to disappear so he can live and marry her and live happily ever after…

      ***

    • iluvwit says:

      09:31am | 13/02/12

      TheBrad BB killed her with his drug use, inflicting it on her, useless influence he was! I feel like my hearts being ripped out this last year MJ now WH, and add AMy Winehouse although not in their league!. Drugs are bad Mkayyyyyy wish people would now relaise this?? PERSCRIPTION DRUGS TOO!!!!!!

    • Luigi says:

      09:38am | 13/02/12

      Greg,
      A bit of a strange tribute, but not uncommon.  When I saw The Bodyguard in 1993, I was 42 and had very similar reactions

    • codeviolation says:

      09:42am | 13/02/12

      Delvene Delaney was indeed a fox.  The big money was always with the home viewer.

    • CJ says:

      09:48am | 13/02/12

      Creepiest column ever (shudder) ...

    • Cactus says:

      01:54am | 14/02/12

      Really…? What’s creepy about it?

    • Batman says:

      09:49am | 13/02/12

      Such terrible news about those insideous prescription drugs. I feel so distraught I think I need a bex and a good lie down.

    • Prince Akeem says:

      09:50am | 13/02/12

      Randy Watson & Sexual Chocolate did the best Witney cover of all time.

    • nihonin says:

      10:18am | 13/02/12

      hahahaha, I wonder who his tailor was?

    • sinistridiablo says:

      10:11am | 13/02/12

      New movie with Kevin Costner..The Body Bag

    • Seth Brundle says:

      12:34pm | 13/02/12

      OK, this is the only comment so far that has made me chuckle

    • Knemon says:

      10:36am | 13/02/12

      At least she made it past 27!

    • Frantique says:

      12:40pm | 13/02/12

      Or did she…?

      She dies at 48. Now subtract the number total of the date 11.2.2012 (adds up to 18 because the 11 is a master number and must remain whole) That leaves 30. Now subtract her room number 102 (adds up to 3) and you’re left with 27.

      Scary

    • nihonin says:

      01:18pm | 13/02/12

      Fark, I need my tin foil hat now, after that Frantique.

    • Reece says:

      10:45am | 13/02/12

      You sure it wasn’t movie busters on deakin avenue Greg?

    • Alpha says:

      11:18am | 13/02/12

      Whitney was Crack-Ho Soul ... she came a long way from the striped leg-warmers in “I wanna Dance ...” to the cross-eyed vixen in The Bodyguard.  With her and Winehouse gone, who is going to set the pace now?
      We need a new anti-hero.  Step up Delta.

    • Play some f**ing Slayer instead!1 says:

      11:22am | 13/02/12

      It’s stuck in my head, it’s stuck in my head!!!

    • Tony Montana says:

      01:34pm | 13/02/12

      Angel of Death!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • PSFSI says:

      03:31pm | 13/02/12

      That actually helped. ta

      “I’m saving all my love…..”
      “march to the kingdom of damned”.....
      “I’m saving all my love…..” arggh!!
      “Infamous butcher, angel of death’‘.....
      “For yoooooooooo…”

      I’m half and half.

    • Farken says:

      11:36am | 13/02/12

      SEE KIDS DRUGS KILL. no big just another singer that died from drug use.

    • Karen from Qld says:

      11:51am | 13/02/12

      Everyone seems to be laying the blame on Bobby Brown for her drug addiction. No he was no saint but it was HER decision and hers alone to follow him. She could have said no.

    • Concerned says:

      12:26pm | 13/02/12

      This Morning the Drug Index has fallen 4 points,but is expected to recover after the Grammys party

    • A Dose of Reality says:

      12:32pm | 13/02/12

      There’s always a positive - if we look for it.

      Rather than the usual crap about “..poor little Whitney, she had so many challenges … such a hard life …. she was getting better (it’s only a flesh wound)” what about simply showing a sequence of pictures.  Of her before she became a junkie, of her when she was a junkie.

      Show live recordings of her singing, before she was a junkie and after.

      Show the difference that a choice to become a junkie makes. 

      Save some kid from the stupidity that ‘glamorising’ this junkie might lead him or her to.

    • Cynicised says:

      12:36pm | 13/02/12

      One comment. Ewwww.
      There are some very sick folks in this world..and some of them are “journalists”. Unfunny and too soon.

    • Somepeopleareweird says:

      03:27pm | 13/02/12

      Touché @ Cynicised. This journalist is obviously a sicko. How dare he confess his first school boy crush was for a young and beautiful women called Witney Houston. I mean clearly he is having a laugh by describing her as the most lovely living creature, he ever laid eyes on. Not even once referring to the debarcle that was, her return to stage just last year. where she stumbled about the stage, and ran out of puff half way into her third song. Her various run-ins with the law and arrest for lewd conduct, drug use/ addiction. Your so right, what is wrong with some people?

    • Greg says:

      11:01pm | 13/02/12

      It’s sick because as a teenager I thought Whitney Houston was beautiful? What ARE you talking about Cynicised? Amazing. And Somepeopleareweird, why on earth would I refer to her shows of last year, when the whole point about my column was that I was mesmerized by her as a 13 year old. And that’s a very creative spelling of the word debacle. Some people are weird indeed. At least we can agree on that.

    • SquirrelGirl says:

      01:53am | 14/02/12

      Yeah TOTALLY SICK. He admits he LIKED Whitney Houston! Ewww! Oh wait hang on, that’s not actually sick… Cynicised, have you had a lobotomy?

    • Paul M says:

      03:47pm | 13/02/12

      Does anyone else see the irony that dead music tends to be live again when the artist does the opposite. A few more royalties penny’s for the deceased’s estate rather than her nose…

      Totally agree with ‘A dose…’ The only positive here is that my kids will look at the best latest example of what lies at the end of the ‘easy choice’ road. So gather around all you bleeding hearts, and explain to me why I should feel sorry for anyone who was given and then wasted so much, when I can think of a dozen other people who deserve my sympathy for their predicament…

    • Stuart says:

      05:14pm | 13/02/12

      I don’t know a single person that liked Witney since she did that wailing song-iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiil always loooooove yooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooow.

    • Vicki PS says:

      06:39pm | 13/02/12

      What do you mean?  Every dog in the neighbourhood loved ti sing along ...oh, “person”, right right…

    • stephen says:

      11:28pm | 13/02/12

      Look at her on the front page of The Australian.
      Now that’s talent - in every way.
      She had a good voice, she was graceful on stage and move across it like a swan.
      She did no harm to anyone I’m aware of and as an example of an unnecessary death, hers is significant because it left so many things unanswered : how good really was she, and if she had more talent to give than was apparent, then possibly she had wasted her excess but unrequited energy on drugs.
      This is what drugs do for us ; it carves up our intelligence and purpose, diffuses our attention and therefore we become less resistant to criticizm, and lose initiatives.
      Drugs - all forms, whether legal or prescribed - are killers, and on Q&A tonight the first audience question was why her death was so much on everybody’s mind, yet the plight of refugees and their deaths, relatively speaking, is not.
      I don’t know the right answer, but for those youngsters who want a career in entertainment or on stage, her early death is a lesson which must be learnt.

    • Amazed says:

      05:21am | 14/02/12

      And iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii could never stand yoooouuuuuu…..

 

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