Here’s a challenge. Try getting to the end of this article without fidgeting. That means no phone calls, checking text messages, scrolling through emails, updating Facebook, nothing. Keep your hands off your electronic device.

See what happens when you spend too much time with digital friends… Picture: Thinkstock

For an increasing number of us that’s a tough ask, we are bewitched by the our access to instant information and for many of us its becoming an unhealthy obsession.

According to this week’s Essential Report, that shiny new compact handheld computer the boss provides has roped us into 24/7 employment; 31 per cent of us regularly check our work emails out of hours, 30 per cent of us on weekends and 21 per cent of us on on holidays.

Fourteen per cent of us of us admit to checking our devices while driving either often or sometimes - akin to placing more than one million drunk-drivers behind our nation’s steering wheels.

We seem incapable of ignoring our little buddies during meals, while having conversations with friends, like that Japanese electric pet fad where the thing would die if you stopped ‘feeding’ it, we are becoming more committed to our virtual relationships than our real-life ones.

If you are under 24 the compulsion is stronger, 25 per cent admitting checking their smartphones during meals often, with nearly half admitting they usually check them before getting out of bed.

One quarter of us confess to checking text messages at least once an hour – 59 per cent of those aged 18-24 and one third of those in the 25-34 age bracket. And if we go offline we start to panic – 18 per cent of 18-24 year olds say they get anxious if they can’t check their text messages every 15 minutes.

These findings mirror research conducted in the United States where 51 per cent of those aged under 35 say they become anxious if they can’t access text messages as often as they would like - with more than a quarter getting the same pangs when away from Facebook.

These behaviours have promoted a team of psychologists at the University of California to question whether this technology is actually doing us serious damage.

In his book iDisorder, Dr Larry Rosen makes the case that the way we are using mobile technology looks a lot like some of the conditions you would find in textbooks on psychological disorders and mental illness.
For many of us our use of the internet bears the hallmarks of a mild addiction - pleasurable enough, sometimes a bit hard to control.  But for others, it’s more serious.

The anxiety that is being reported when users are offline provides a conducive environment for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder to thrive. Where in the past sufferers of OCD had to create objects of their obsession for themselves, now we have it neatly packaged and mass-produced.

As the information floods in it becomes a challenge to actually focus on anything in particular. With increasing regularity emails are responded to within minutes, providing a constant interruption to clear thought, all the hallmarks of ADHD.

The rise of the social network means we can place ourselves on public display, updating our profiles on Facebook as if we are our own soap opera has fed the narcissistic tendencies of many of us, encouraging us to tweet as though the world is listening.

Our handheld devices are affecting us in weird physical ways too - there is now a condition known as ‘vibrating phone syndrome’ where sufferers experience the false sensation of a message lobbing while the phone is on silent (I think I’ve experienced that one).

But these are just the mild impacts chronicled by Rosen and his team. The serious stuff is the way internet use can actually bring on more serious mood disorders like depression and manic attacks.

For many sufferers of these disorders, the online world becomes home, creating a vicious cycle of isolation, lack of exercise and natural sunlight, constant interruption, interactions with others who may or may not exist, switched focus – a gumbo that can actually trigger serious episodes.

Rosen is not blaming technology on these effects, indeed he admits to embracing his handheld himself, but he does pose some serious questions about what whether we are allowing our new toys to send ourselves mad.

And if we are what can we do? Like any addiction the first step is admitting we have the problem - that its not OK to interrupt the family meal or risk lives on the roads because someone has texted us.

From there a bit of tech-free time every day would help, as would a national consensus that emails are a convenient but not-urgent mode of communication.

Who knows? Before long we may even be asking friends out for dinner rather than just clicking the like button when they cook something and post the photo online.

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    • thatmosis says:

      07:36am | 15/08/12

      From my observations I would say that we are in the throws of an epidemic of techno dependency.
        I don’t go to the big smoke all that often, thankfully, but its always a great place to people watch and the number of people who hold their electronic devices in their hands ready at a moments notice to answer that text or call, check the latest gossip makes one wonder what would happen to these people if suddenly these devices stopped working.
        I think, just through observation that women and girls are the main offenders who must be in contact 24/7 or their insignificant lives would end. I see mothers completely losing track of their children because they are busy texting or talking or checking the latest fashions on their phones and letting the real world pass them by. People walk out in front of vehicles because their eyes are glued to their mobile phones just in case they miss something, people driving their cars whilst either on the phone talking or texting and think nothing of it and get very indignant if the police pull them over and fine them because they cant reconcile the fact that they might be missing something life changing if they obey the rules.
        Contrary to popular belief the world will still turn if you miss a call or a text and the latest news or fashion extreme will still be there at a later date. Its not the end of civilisation to actually take time out to smell the real roses, not the electronically digitised ones on your phone or laptop or whatever, the world will not end if you don’t use your phone for an hour or even a day and do something really silly like look at the real world, smell the smog, watch the people not interacting, because like you they have their noses in their electronic devices and realise that yes, there is a whole world out there which doesn’t need anything but a person to look at and appreciate.

    • ace leo ace says:

      01:48pm | 16/08/12

      “throes”

      Spell checker won’t catch that one.

    • Mahhrat says:

      07:47am | 15/08/12

      I’ve been noticing this in myself.  I think I’m going to try deliberately leaving my mobile places away from me.  Good article.

    • Colin says:

      08:11am | 15/08/12

      The mobile ‘phone has just replaced the dummy, the teddy bear, the comfort blanket, the favourite toy, and every other succession of comforting pieces of paraphernalia we have clutched to our cheek or stuck in our mouth to pacify us…It is our new “Familiar”; our Gonk, our Pet Rock, our Lucky Jacket, our Favourite Hat.

      It is just another ephemeral item that we obsessive-compulsive humans use to lull our twitching brains. It is the modern equivalent of the comb run through the hair every five minutes, the cola bottle swigged from incessantly, the stroked dog, the chewed pen, the flipped coin, the checked mirror, the doodled drawing, the sniffing nose…

      For the weak-willed, the obsessive, and the socially-insecure, it is a familiar, soothing friend that we can reach out to and touch; it reassures us with its friendly, bright familiarity and its potential promise of fun. The mobile ‘phone is at once both our friend and our confidante. It is our electronic teddy bear that we turn to when we want reassurance that we ARE special. After all, we continue to upgrade our familiars with newer, brighter versions of the same thing because we know just how IMPORTANT that makes us feel…

    • Arnold Layne says:

      08:24am | 15/08/12

      When he started high school, my son started receiving text messages from girls, well one in particular.  We had purchased him a VERY basic phone for safety when travelling alone.  After message upon message I implemented a rule that all phones were to sit on the bookshelf in the lounge room.  Not only did the messages slow down appreciably, but it had an impact on the way I used my phone too.  It’s amazing how the lack of interest in getting up and going to get the phone overrides the curiosity about what’s happening in SMSland and the Twitterverse!

    • Greg says:

      09:59am | 15/08/12

      How dare your son text girls, oh the outrage

      Back before phones it was the sly note across the classroom, nowadays it’s the sly sms across anywhere. 

      Sure ban the phone from meal times and family time, but to sabotage young love is just plain mean you might have ruined not only your sons chance at a potential relationship but also your relationship with your son.

    • Arnold Layne says:

      10:34am | 15/08/12

      Ummm Greg, I think you misunderstand me.  It wasn’t the texting, it was the constant use of the phone.  He wasn’t forbidden, he was just asked to keep it under control. 

      As to questioning the relationship, you couldn’t have been more wrong.  We talked about things when it was happening and I was there for him, as I always am.  He and I have a very strong father-son relationship.

    • Colin says:

      08:35am | 15/08/12

      @Arnold Layne 08:24am | 15/08/12

      I hope that the girl you had him ignore wasn’t too shattered that the boy she so shyly texted (because she was too coy to speak directly to him) appeared to spurn her affections. Maybe she cried for days at his rejection, silently sobbing herself to sleep, dreaming about that which would never be…

      All because you stopped your son from enjoying some harmless text messaging with a girl that liked him. Nice.

    • Arnold Layne says:

      02:43pm | 15/08/12

      Gees you can’t post anything on this site without people taking it completely out of context.  Re-read what I wrote and take a chill pill.

    • Inky says:

      04:28pm | 15/08/12

      @Arnold Layne

      And now you’re advocating drug use?!

      Sorry, couldn’t resist.

    • Troy Flynn says:

      04:56pm | 15/08/12

      @Inky, Did you know that Arnold Layne is the title of a song by Pink Floyd back in their psycadelic period of the 60’s and is synonomous with LSD? I’ve always associated his name with drug use smile It always makes me smile when I see it.

    • Like says:

      09:37am | 15/08/12

      I like this article and will share it with my friends on Facebook.

    • Inky says:

      09:52am | 15/08/12

      “Keep your hands off your electronic device.”

      It worked fine until I had to scroll the page down. Then i eyed my mouse suspiciously.

      “Keep your hands off your electronic device.”

      So that’s what they’re calling it thesedays.

    • Norm says:

      09:58am | 15/08/12

      Im reading this on my phone so im out instantly

    • Giraffe says:

      10:10am | 15/08/12

      My wife and I have been watching one of her facebook ‘freinds’ slowly but surely disintergrate into a self obsessed, compulsive attention seeker over the last couple of months. It started as a few status updates a day, then went onto several photos of her cooking, gym clothes, dogs, whatever. Recently it was photo’s of herself in the mirror because ‘everyone has a mirror shot’ and photos of herself in a bikini under the folder ‘Womens excercise motivation’. I think last night was the beginning of the end though - a video of herself doing a gym workout. The best bit is all of her minions making the obligatory comments - ‘stunning’ ‘beautiful’ ‘love’ etc etc

    • Colin says:

      10:48am | 15/08/12

      @Giraffe 10:10am | 15/08/12

      ...and you and your wife diligently followed her online antics all the while.

    • Carramaena says:

      12:12pm | 15/08/12

      You know I tried to get into the whole facebook thing, all my friends and some of my family are on there. I can last maybe a week of updating maybe every day and then I just can’t take it anymore. I stop completely and end up with an inbox full of “updates” that try and suck me back in until one of my friends guilts me into another week of frenzy. One of these days I will have the courage to delete my account.. but oh the guilt, what is with that?  People think that you don’t love them because you don’t “like” every little status update they post on facebook?

    • neo says:

      01:11pm | 15/08/12

      Apple fails. That is all.

    • iansand says:

      02:27pm | 15/08/12

      I had a Newton moment and read this as “apple falls”.

    • Troy Flynn says:

      06:24pm | 15/08/12

      That’s alright iansand. An “Apple Newton” made by Sharp was the first foray into the PDA market so you’re still on topic smile

    • iansand says:

      02:31pm | 15/08/12

      My daughter has standards.  She will send texts while she is in lectures, but will not answer the phone.

    • Mont says:

      02:41pm | 15/08/12

      “Facebook is a neutral tool, it’s what you do with it that matters. You think the “I’m better than everybody!” status updates are evidence of narcissism, and maybe they are, but the deeper pathology exists in those who derive their identities from that online presence while simultaneously retreating from the real world. Show me a man or woman who posts pictures of themselves in bathing suits and I shrug my shoulders. Show me a person who spends more than an hour a day on Facebook and it isn’t their job and I’ll show you a future divorce even if they’re not married yet. Show me a middle aged person who spends >1 hr a day on facebook, and I’ll show you someone who has been to a psychiatrist. It’s not an insult, it is a statement of fact. Each person tries to find ways of affirming themselves; but when it is done through identity and not behavior, it always leads to misery.”  - The Last Psychiatrist

    • oem software says:

      02:57pm | 15/08/12

      MSUAXl wow, awesome post.Thanks Again. Awesome.

    • Alison says:

      04:55pm | 15/08/12

      I can’t stand it when you go to a party, and you are there to chat with people, face to face, and every 5 seconds they are looking at their phones, swiping the screen, and checking, checking checking again…hey, I may as well sit in the corner, and send you a picture of what I look like rather than stand in front of you and talk!! It’s so rude! Same goes for meeting friends for lunches at cafes, and one will insist on sitting there with a magazine, or newspaper, and flip through them and read them while you are trying to hold their attention. Never mind that you haven’t seen them for several months, and actually would like some “face time!!” I’ve resorted to trying to meet in places where there are no magazines / newspapers to distract.

 

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