Is it un-Australian to be scared of the ocean? If so, I’m a traitor of the worst kind.

As New Year’s Eve countdowns by carefree, salt-encrusted water rats echoed around our beach resorts, I was thinking of the Poseidon Adventure: “... five, four, three, two, one, Happy New… Oh, Christ, a tidal wave!”... and the passengers who are having the most sex, drinking the most, laughing the loudest and having all the fun die horribly.

Aussie surf champ Stephanie Gilmore considers the sea a refuge from nutcases with iron bars - but really it is a cold and forbidding place.

It’s not only deep, averaging nearly four kilometres down, it’s even called THE DEEP.

I’m not just scared of dying in it but petrified of entering that deep dark void. In the scenes from the Poseidon Adventure (both of them) I don’t fear for the people hanging from the chandeliers or falling 50 metres from the top of a Christmas tree into a glass fixture, but the people who will be swamped by the dark (oh shudder) ocean.

And not so dark that you don’t find yourself wondering if that’s a piece of seaweed there or an unblinking black eye. And what’s that white bit: a fin, a set of serrated teeth? And if you survive the carnivores of the sea there is the slow descent to the dark depths; to lie on the ocean floor never to be found. It’s an ironic bastard too: where else can you die of thirst in 1.3 billion cubic kilometres of water?

I nearly drowned once (in the days before Bondi Rescue) off Bondi Beach. Noticing eventually that no other swimmer had ventured out I began to swim towards those frollicking in the shallows.

After several vigorous strokes I realised I was slowly being drawn away from the shore. The small blue gap between me and the other swimmers began to look like a fatal one, as did the brown one over by the sewerage outlet. Eventually some laconic bloke dragged me out of the rip.

On the beach afterwards he asked me if I was alright, but I could feel his contempt dripping on me like his 30+. And how come ironmen and women never get stuck in rips while swimming for the buoy a kilometre offshore? 

And for crying out loud who was responsible for making the film Titanic a love story (and boy-man DiCaprio as a serious love interest)? Throughout the film I was thinking only of the people who would soon be dropping into the frozen North Atlantic and the sunken staircase covered in silt and molluscs.

The largest cruise ship in the world, The Allure Of The Seas, is 360 metres long, weighs 225,000 gross tonnes, and can carry 8,565 passengers and crew with a total area of 25 hectares. It has 24 restaurants, a boardwalk, nightclub, jazz and comedy clubs, a shopping promenade and a theatre with the Broadway production of Chicago. And while sitting in 361 million sq km of water it still insists on having 21 swimming pools, a floating park, 2 wave surfing machines and an ice rink.

Now while I’m tempted to take a cruise in one of these things I cannot help thinking they’re an abomination.

“Hey ocean, you’re not going to stop us doing whatever we want whenever we want,” they seem to taunt. But someone should remind them that on average at least two rather large ships disappear somewhere in the world’s oceans every week.

It is assumed that massive seas are to blame. There have been eyewitness accounts of huge waves rising from perfectly still waters, completely vertical like enormous slabs of black marble, and waveless at their top. The sea contains powerful forces and all sorts of fluid dynamics that scientists can’t fully explain.

Rupert Forsyth-Jenkins calls out to his wife waxing herself in the Allure’s deluxe bathroom: “Portia, did you hear the delightful news that we’ve retained the Ashes? Just popping out on to the balcony to take in the beautiful view”, seconds before taking in a monster tidal wave. Portia would have drowned too if she hadn’t first been impaled on the (complimentary) baby grand piano. 

For anyone contemplating a trip on the Allure Of The Seas I offer this from a review: “There will be little to celebrate in Turku, Finland. The shipyard has no more work after Allure and half of its 3300 employees have already been laid off”.

So there were blokes working on the ship, hammering and welding, knowing they would soon be sacked? I suggest you take a room well above the waterline and if you hear anything that sounds like rushing water - do the Australian thing: abandon ship and jump into the ocean.

I’ll be on the balcony, cowering.

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    • Seano says:

      07:45am | 08/01/11

      It should be un-Australian to use the term un-Australian.

    • scaper... says:

      11:55am | 08/01/11

      I can’t stand people who rap themselves in our flag.

    • Seano says:

      09:27pm | 08/01/11

      Yep I really hope I don’t see people wrapped in our flag harrassing people and thinking that’s what being Australian is all about this Australia day.

    • scaper... says:

      06:24pm | 09/01/11

      Do you recall when this flag wrapping commenced or the event that made this crass behaviour chic?

      I only can trace it back to the Sydney Olympics off the top of my head.

    • Seano says:

      07:30am | 10/01/11

      Interesting question. I couldn’t say but the Sydney Olympics sound like a reasonable guess.

    • Gregg says:

      10:10am | 08/01/11

      Join a SLSC Andy and you’ll learn all about ocean swimming, out on the ripping jet stream and in with the waves.
      If there is a golden rule about ocean swimming it is do not attempt to swim against the rip for that is what will tire and panic you before drowning unless some laconic bloke or shiela happens to be handy.
      Once you have that bronze medallion, get a bottle of the Bottle Blond stuff Andy and with red and yellow cap and budgies, we could have the new Don’t Hastle the Hoff!

    • Steph says:

      11:26am | 08/01/11

      Not stupid to be afraid of the ocean.

      I’m afraid of it for… different reasons. I’ve got a phobia of fish.

      As such, I don’t go too close to the ocean. Or any aquariums, fisheries, or fish and chip shops with the big fake fish hanging off the wall. It can be a bit distracting trying to shop for an outdoor setting at ray’s outdoors when I can’t walk past the barramundi tank. And downright embarrasing waking in a cold sweat after dreaming about fish in fish tanks.

      So, is it stupid to be afraid of the ocean? I don’t know, but you’re not alone.

    • Gregg says:

      12:50pm | 08/01/11

      You know the old story Steph?
      Fall off the horse and you need to get straight back on!
      Well you may not have taken to the Movie JAWS
      But get the video out and just watch it often for you never know it could be thge therapy you need.
      Did you hear the one about….......well maybe not!

    • Steph says:

      09:20am | 09/01/11

      For some reason I don’t identify sharks as fish (as in, the phobia doesn’t stretch to them). Who doesn’t shudder looking at the Great White’s teeth, but I’m more likely to be left paralyzed with fear by a snapper or oscar.

      I wish I could find exposure therapy for this - it can be a real annoyance when shopping - but I haven’t found anywhere in Melbourne that offers it :( Only hypnotherapy. Which I don’t really trust to do its job.

    • Adrian says:

      12:48pm | 10/01/11

      Start with a goldfish and work your way up perhaps?

    • stephen says:

      12:00pm | 08/01/11

      What is it with the Ocean ?
      Tim Winton wants to save it, James Bradley edited it, (The Penguin Book of the Ocean, and a good read too, by the way), and now Mr Sutherland has a whole lot of feelings about living in it. (I can’t even swim in it).
      We shouldn’t even think about it, then the foremost can keep it, the former can saviour it, and the latter can stop worrying, because we’ll all probably be living under the ground instead, which means now we gonna get a whole lot of nasty letters from Miners.

    • HeatherG says:

      12:49pm | 08/01/11

      I also have a “fear” of the ocean, and I can’t explain it, because I am not afraid of water.

      Don’t get me wrong. I’m not using quote marks because I think the fear is bogus, but because I actually don’t feel afraid. There is no emotion attached to it. I just cannot enter the damned thing. If I try (or someone tries to pull me into it), my body simply immobilises and if forced further, stops breathing. I have not nearly drowned in the ocean and am not (afaik) afraid of sharks, beyond whatever would be considered normal. I swim happily in rivers, pools, ponds and streams.

      Part of me thinks discovering why would be nice, but given I’m a fair-skinned redhead I avoid the beach anyhow (I get sunburned just by thinking about a day at the beach), so there’s not a lot of point, I guess. But, you are not alone here.

      PS: I also despised Titanic, but it was because of the ghastly, horrible excuse for a “love story” and the sheer selfish arseholery of the main character not because of the sinking. wink I’m also not fond of the “disaster film” genre, water or no, so… meh.

    • Mr Pod says:

      01:00pm | 08/01/11

      “The allure of the seas” sounds like a block of housing commission flats next to a shopping mall in a flood zone.  It must be based on Depot Hill in Rockhampton.

    • kerrie o'rourke says:

      02:18pm | 08/01/11

      Inland Australia is now an Inland Sea.
      If you are too scared to go to the sea then the sea will come to you with floods.

    • kerrie o'rourke says:

      02:28pm | 08/01/11

      So you must have been really really afraid of old yank television shows like “Voyage to the Bottom of the Sea”, “McHale’s Navy”, “Gilligan’s island”,“Baywatch”, “Adventures in Paradise”, ” Riptide” , “Flipper” and the ” Batman 1966 movie”.

    • HeatherG says:

      12:45pm | 09/01/11

      Who *wasn’t* afraid of Baywatch?

      Eeeeeeeesh….

    • Amy says:

      02:59pm | 08/01/11

      I burst into tears at the end of Titanic and could not be comforted. Not because it was beautiful and sad but because of the morbid shot of the rusted and decrepit wreck morphing into the decadent and lush interior it had been prior to sinking, complete with the now-dead passengers and crew clapping and cheering. I couldn’t even take comfort that “it’s only a movie” as the script had tried to be as historically accurate as possible in regards to both the setting and the characters, and I knew the people represented had all died horribly from drowning or hypothermia.

    • stephen says:

      08:10pm | 08/01/11

      But they were comforted.
      They were drunk.

    • Steph says:

      09:24am | 09/01/11

      Aww :( Don’t go to the Titanic exhibition if it ever comes back to Australia… it’s a thousand times worse. Personal articles from people who drowned, etc…A jacket of a waiter with his name written on the inside who didn’t make it out, it can get really heartwrenching. Especially the stories of people (like an old couple who wanted to stay together - it was quoted from them something like “We’ve lived our lives togther, and we’ll die together too” when the wife was offered to get on a lifeboat) who didn’t make it.

    • Steph says:

      09:30am | 09/01/11

      And now I can’t get “Under the Sea” from out of my head. Sigh.

    • HeatherG says:

      12:48pm | 09/01/11

      I ended up with “Octopus’ Garden” instead. Yikes.

    • Tom says:

      03:11pm | 09/01/11

      At least you would get to visit an octopus’s garden in the shade.

    • Dave C says:

      06:21pm | 09/01/11

      I agree with the author. Having grown up on a farm and nearly drowning in a dam when I was about 6 I too dont like going into the ocean. At least in a pool the water had defined edges, if you go too far out to sea then aaaaahhhhhhh. Also the ocean has bluebottles and sharks and other nasties, if you get a mouthful of water its salty and yeah generally I just dont see the appeal of it. When I travel over salt water such as crossing the Harbour bridge I have a small stupid fear in the back of my mind of the bridge collapsing and me ending up in the ocean. I cant explain it so I can just say I sympathize with the author.

      The difference however is coastal people grow up near the beach, learn to surf and generally accept the beach as part of their lifestyle, but its not for me.

      However because I now live on the coast my daughter (who is 8 months) is already going to swimming/water safety lessons. She wont have the fear I have so when her and her friends go the beach when shes much much older she can handle all the risks.

      I agree with the campaign by Laurie Lawrence and even if you fear the ocean like me every kid should learn to swim to avoid drownings or worse brain damaged children as a result of not knowing how to swim.

      Cheers.

    • Chris says:

      10:17am | 10/01/11

      i dont understand the point of what your writing, your scared of the ocean??? Wow big deal, pretty sure a few people these days are scared of it.

    • Clear water swimmer says:

      12:26pm | 10/01/11

      Hmm, I also agree with the author somewhat. I grew up on the coast swimming in the ocean, pools, creeks, rivers… the lot! I grew up and then swam for QLD for a while and did some lifesaving for a year or so. Now while I have done all these things, the deep sea daunts me.

      I use to go Jetskiing quite a bit at stradbroke Island and alot at Amity point (yes, even with the sharks) and everytime I would fall off I would scramble back on in one leap from fear of the darkness below me. I am fine swimming with sharks (i have done so at Seaworld), but treading water and feeling the cool icy water around my feet that are dangling in the blackness does get me scared.

      I would say that growing up and just knowing the potential things that could happen in the nothingness of the ocean is why myself and others do not like the deep ocean.

    • notSue says:

      12:33pm | 10/01/11

      Don’t EVER watch “The Perfect Storm” then Andrew. You’ll be breaking out in a cold sweat after the first five minutes. Rogue, MONSTROUS waves ahoy!

      And I agree, ‘tis perfectly natural to be terrified of the deep, dark cold of the ocean. Howeve, I’d never be caught ton one of those floating abominations for the main reason that being stuck on board with thousands of strangers, whilst the ship heaves and haws is my idea of a particular version of hell!

 

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