It would be interesting to know just how much longer our football administrators are prepared to tolerate the oafish behavior of some of the country’s top class players who seem hell bent on turning themselves into low rent non-celebrities.

Several names come to mind but first it might be just as well to take a look at the long term effects their actions might have on the hundreds of young blokes who look up to them as the sporting giants they once were and try to emulate their incredible achievements on the field.

Role modeling is an important part of growing up and it might be interesting to get the take on what’s been happening lately from the dads and mums and older brothers who devote their Saturday mornings taking the very young kids to Auskick.

Part of that exercise is taking the nippers to the big games and before they know where they are the years roll on and the 5 year olds are teenagers, they have their favorite teams and they have selected their favorite players – their role models.

Now in the main, those who make up the top class teams in the top AFL competitions are men who most teenagers can look at and say – wow, that’s who I want to play like, that’s the kind of guy I’d like to be.

Well, nobody’s perfect and sometimes those good guys get into thrall of drugs or alcohol or both. Celebrity does funny things to some people and when they are loaded with substances of varying kinds, all hell breaks loose.

As it did the night of the Brownlows at Crown. And the combination of grog and celebrity got to one of the Leagues greatest stars, the $700,000 a year champion goal kicker Brendan Fevola.

Nobody really wants to see such a gladiator throw up or accost other players and their partners anymore than they want to see Wayne Carey being carted out of his apartment by a pair of cops.

And the sight of Ben Cousins being accosted by police in a city street wasn’t all that enlightening either.

To be fair Wayne and Ben have taken action to get their addictions under control – what Brendan is doing hasn’t been made public…which is probably just as well.

It’s a well known fact that anonymity is an absolute necessity when people addicted to substances which make them lose control are being addressed.

If those young blokes who look up to these sporting greats read they are trying to kick their habits it’s an example for them to follow if they happen to have the same problem. But the other side of the coin is what happens if their heroes happen to “bust” and that makes the front pages?

Oh well – it didn’t work for them it won’t work for me is their catch cry and the young blokes are back on it.

Sporting heroes owe it to their adoring public to behave and they owe it to themselves to address in private whatever their problems happen to be.

And the clubs have every right to unload the bad guys onto competing clubs - and those clubs need their collective heads read if they cling on to them once they repeat their offences.

And if Crown continues to host gala awards nights and continues to turn a blind eye to oafish drunken shenanigans its license to operate needs to be examined.  It has been reported that the multi-million dollar earner James Packer has been thrashed with a feather and fined $3000 for plying Brendan with more liquor after he got out of control.

It’s time the sporting community grew up – what’s happening in many cases is the destruction of some of the most important members of our community.

- Barry Everingham is a Melbourne based writer.

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    • E says:

      11:06am | 20/10/09

      this whole conversation is stupid.
      Footballers are not role models, they are the male equivalent of dancing girls, purely entertainment with no social function apart from ooh-ahh look at that high kick.
      The idea that they were role models was floated in the mid 80’s to justify their increasing salaries. I remember, I was in primary school and we discussed it a lot. It was considered a ‘sure thing’ and ‘easy money’ by a staggering number of none to bright classmates (who failed to realise that the competition isnt big enough for them all to make it).
      Before the mid 80’s, football wasnt a career, it was a hobby, and it should have remained so. But because the lowest common denominator is so huge, there was quite a lot of money to be made selling advertising during the games, and later sponsorships to the teams. This increased to requirement to win, which necessitated football playing becomming a full time job, which neccessitated higher pay.  Rinse, repeat.
      So basically, hundreds of thousands of kids around Australia are being robbed of legitimate hopes and dreams (such as science, law, engineering or being a sucessfull tradesman, running their own business or even just tertiary education) which are achievable by most, robbed of these authenitc aspirations by dreams of a quick win multi-million dollar footy career, followed up with being an overpaid media hack.
      All this because TV networks wanted to make more cash off the backs of the those obsessed with some ball sport. Its really sad that the lives of all those Australian kiddies are being stunted by the desperate chase for a quick buck. Football is as bad for the country as alcohol.

    • stephen says:

      02:21pm | 20/10/09

      Football may be an avenue of success that, because of limited finances or i.q. (not to be rude about it), a career in law or financial administration is way out of bounds. By the way, your letter has a distinct lack of charm ; i’d rush off to a footy game if i was you.

    • E says:

      02:37pm | 20/10/09

      yep because drunken hooligans are sooo charming, perhaps we can go to the strippers on the way home, but dont tell ‘da missus’ smile

      Football is increasingly nepotistic anyway, and my contention is that loads of Aussie kiddies are not making the most of opportunities they do have based on un-realistic dreams of sporting, media or romantic sucess. Its possible to try hard in school AND footy training.
      And that the idea of footballers being ‘role models’ was only floated as an excuse for why their salaries are justified. Seriously, this was a big discussion in ‘the media’ circa 1988, why should some footy player get 60K when all he does is play with his balls? Because he isnt a sportsman, he is a ‘role model’. But they arent.

    • stephen says:

      02:59pm | 20/10/09

      Sport- or a need to play games - may be a symptom of psychological distress, and not a cause. Sport may, in other words, simply appeal to a ‘wayward’ character, in which case the fault may lie with personality i.e. a person’s history. In the absence of their career, their misdemeanors could have been much more serious. All children love role-models, and looking up to a chap who runs around after a ball, gets dirty and chases after da’ girls, well, we can’t all want to be Artur Rubenstein.

    • ts says:

      03:37pm | 20/10/09

      e - you’re a moron.  i actually agree with you on the role model point, they shouldn’t need to be, but why exactly are they being ‘robbed’ of careers in other industries?  i certainly haven’t been.  my family - some of who have had football ‘careers’ haven’t been.  the group of guys i went to uni with haven’t been. what’s your point?
      stephen - so sick of this ‘i.q.’ and sport argument.  you may not be semi good at more than one thing, but don’t assume no one else can be.  and it doesn’t take a whole lotta iq to be a ‘financial administrator’... at least e chucked in a range of profesional references!
      there seems to be a recurring theme on this site of bagging out any sport.  you don’t enjoy it? ignore it. quit whining.

 

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