It is week two of the election campaign and we have hardly seen the prime minister’s partner, Tim Mathieson. I can’t remember an election campaign where voters have seen so little of the candidates’ better half. So what is going on?

Julia Gillard and Tim Mathieson at Kevvin Rudd's Kirribilli House Christmas drinks in 2007. Photo: Vanessa Hunter

Even the erratic Mark Latham travelled around Australia with the gorgeous Janine Lacy in tow. Yet, so far, apart from the odd appearance in Canberra, Ms Gillard’s boyfriend of four years has not been seen.

If Australia’s first female PM is formally elected by the people on August 21, she will make history by being the first person in the top job to be unmarried and living in The Lodge. (The only other PM not technically married while in office was the then recently widowed John McEwen, who held the top job from late 1967 to early 1968. He married soon after.)

For that reason, while it is not critical to how Ms Gillard will perform, I do think voters would like to know a bit more about the First Bloke. In the United States, no stone is left unturned in the dissection of President Barack and Michelle Obama’s lives. The spouse of the newly elected British prime minister, Samantha Cameron, is also well known to UK voters.

We know that Tim Mathieson was a hairdresser, then a hair products salesman. We know he has been married before and has adult children. We also know that he is now employed as a marketing executive, selling luxury apartments for the Ubertas Group, in Melbourne.

Yet voters expect to see more of their political leaders’ partners at election time and this is no exception. Which begs the question: are Labor Party minders hiding him and, if so, why?

Perhaps Labor’s wily campaign chief, National Secretary Karl Bitar, is just concerned that Ms Gillard’s modern relationship could be an electoral turn-off in conservative seats, particularly the electorally important state of Queensland. Whatever the reason, I would like to see more of Mr Mathieson.

I think Opposition leader Tony Abbott has been slow to bring his wife into the campaign. Margie Abbott has never relished the high-profile role and still looks slightly awkward when confronted by the frenzy of photographers and reporters, but she is certainly one of his biggest electoral assets.

Her presence alongside Mr Abbott also reinforces the message that Mrs Gillard is unmarried and does not have a traditional family life.

Mrs Abbott and the couple’s three daughters – Louise, Bridget and Frances appeared in The Australian Women’s Weekly in February and they immediately helped change people’s perception of the Liberal Party leader. Yet our request to photograph Mr Mathieson with Ms Gillard for AWW’s August cover was politely declined.

In the past, prime ministerial spouses have often been reluctant contributors to public life. Janette Howard never looked comfortable in the role, but she was always by her husband’s side, especially on the big occasions. Paul Keating’s wife, Annita, was also awkward, especially as English was not her first language. She famously caused uproar during the 1993 election when she posed for a stunning Vogue magazine shoot, with straight hair and designer clothes. She looked beautiful, and she did have a genuine interest in Australian fashion but it was seen as a long way from the Labor Party heartland.

Thérèse Rein undertook a rigorous gym regimen during her husband’s brief time in the top job. She claimed it was about climbing Mt Kilimanjaro with her son, but many people wondered if it was also partly to do with the pressure of being constantly photographed with her husband.

The two stand-out prime ministerial spouses in modern times have been Hazel Hawke and Margaret Whitlam. They were greatly admired by the Australian public for the way they handled this difficult role. Mr Mathieson also seems to have some of their “Australian-ness”, but I am not sure we are going to get a chance to find out during this campaign, which is a great pity. I for one would like to know more.

By contrast, I expect Liberal Party strategists will be doing all they can to keep the impressive Mrs Abbott, and those three photographic daughters on the TV news bulletins as often as is physically possible.

- Helen McCabe is the Editor-In-Chief of AWW. The July issue of the magazine is out tomorrow, July 28

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    • jamie says:

      03:20pm | 27/07/10

      Interestingly, what I’m hearing a lot of in canberra is that Julia Gillard is pretty much incompetent, lacks experience to lead and that she is to blame for all the ALP stuff ups in their first term (along with Rudd, Tanner and Swan), and yet, they are still going to vote ALP.

    • Steely Dan says:

      05:09pm | 27/07/10

      Yikes.  Tells us something about Abbott then, doesn’t it?

    • Belle says:

      09:43pm | 27/07/10

      A very intelligent friend of mine said she’d vote for Labor because “At least they’ll do what they say they’ll do”.  How she could come to that conclusion after the past three years is beyond me.

    • watty says:

      07:27am | 28/07/10

      Steely Dan I would suggest it says even more about the IQ (or lack of) of the friends you have in Canberra.

    • Steely Dan says:

      09:42am | 28/07/10

      @ watty

      What does my comment about jamie’s friends in Canberra have to do with the IQ of the friends I don’t have in Canberra?

    • Geoffrey Tobin says:

      12:42pm | 28/07/10

      Well, I heard that Howard personally cropped the photos of sinking boats in order to create the false impression (some would say “criminal fraud”) of mothers trying to drown their children.

      How that was supposed to be credible when they were all clearly wearing life-jackets does raise the question of the blatant gullibility of the media and some electors who seem to be all ears and no eyes.

    • Wah says:

      03:27pm | 27/07/10

      I honesty can’t work out of Helen is serious or not.
      What’s it matter who shows up to stage managed photo opps with the candidates? What does it prove?
      This is one aspect of American electioneering we need not have copied.
      At least Julia won’t be torn between family and government in doing her job.

    • Tails says:

      04:04pm | 27/07/10

      You mean at least she won’t have people around her who love her unconditionally to keep her grounded, yeah?

    • Julie Coker-Godson says:

      08:15pm | 27/07/10

      @Wah: “This is one aspect of American electioneering we need not have copied”.  Completely agree with you on this.  It is unnecessary and, given some of the questions put to Julia today, I think it is quite nasty, to quote Bob Brown on tonight’s ABC news.  We don’t need this and I stopped buying women’s magazines many years ago when they started what I call “trash” reporting: i.e. the intimate lives of high profile people.  The AWW should get back to what it used to do so well but has obviously forgotten - quality articles of interest to intelligent women.

    • Reg says:

      08:56am | 28/07/10

      Love is always conditional tails. Just try having it off with the lady next door and see what the wife thinks. smile Or in other conditions, just vote for a different political party or none. If you’re that unified you’re a boring old fart.

    • Saskia says:

      03:42pm | 27/07/10

      Let Tim be.  He probably doesn’t want to get into the limelight.  He may not even be that serious about Gillard.  A real man doesn’t follow a woman about like a lapdog.

      Be you own man Tim and refuse to appease the feminazis. 

      Abbott has it all over Gillard in regard to family and a relatable life.  Abbott also knows a lot more about what women want as he has a wife, 3 daughters, a female dog and a female deputy!

      As a woman I simply cannot relate to Gillard’s life choices, politics and dress sense!

    • Sven Gali says:

      08:45pm | 27/07/10

      A female dog too, Saskia ? I heard a rumour that even his mother was a woman. Julia Gillard will always know a lot more about what women want than Tony “some of my best friends are women” Abbott, because she IS a woman. Does a real woman follow a man about like a lapdog, Saskia, just out of interest ?

    • Sirro says:

      12:40am | 28/07/10

      “She IS a woman” ..... ? says Sven Gali !
      She never really looked like a woman prior to becoming PM and getting a 2 hour makeover. Looked more like a femo lefty bolshie and sounded pretty much the same.
      The real winners out of her move on Rudd have been the makeup companies and speech therapists.

      In tems of Timmy M. Good luck to you mate ... I wouldnt want to be seen in public with her either. Though it should also be noted that the number of times her roots have been gray while the rest of her head is bright red does not reflect well on his skills as a hairdresser.

      The sooner she returns to backwater victoria the better.

    • Geoffrey Tobin says:

      12:38pm | 28/07/10

      Saskia:  Tim is not a candidate for election.

      If you’re going to be nasty, do you also attack Margaret Thatcher’s wimpy husband Dennis for being in her shadow?

      Perhaps you should attempt to be consistent, and speak ill of all the women who aren’t “real women” because they meekly follow their men around, instead of doing the strong motherly thing as Boadicea did.

      We are not voting to impose our own preferred “life choices” on other people.  For instance, some of us would love to have children, but cannot.  Will you condemn widows for being single mothers, next?

      Perhaps you despise Elizabeth the First, who was also a redhead, Welsh and childless.

      Dress sense is an issue for the Queen, catwalk models and Melbourne Cup show-ponies, but has no bearing on policies.

      Grow up, Saskia!

    • SuzieQ says:

      03:53pm | 27/07/10

      As a woman, I can relate to Gillard’s life choices. I don’t really want to have kids. I’m ambivalent about marriage.

      Does this influence my voting towards Jules over Tony? No.

      I’m also not sure why we need to see so much more of Tim. I’d really rather the media focused on policy. Did some reporter really ask Julia about her earlobes today?

      Disgraceful

    • RJB says:

      04:03pm | 27/07/10

      If you’re looking for something to influence your vote towards Julia, I suggest you buy a copy of tomorrow’s Womans’ Weekly, one for the sisterhood there.

    • Steve says:

      10:05am | 28/07/10

      @SuzieQ
      “I’d really rather the media focused on policy.”

      They’ve tried that, but cannot find much to differentiate the parties, because Labor keep trying to minimise the differences.

      The other possible differentiators are competence, and the personality and character of the leaders. Labor don’t want to focus on competence, so they have focused their attacks on Abbott’s personality and character. How many times do we hear them talking about his unelectability, his women problems, his extreme (religious) values, and so on. A lot of it is very personal and hateful.

      If then we are expected to make a decision on the basis of personality and character, is it not reasonable to consider issues that tells us more about who Julia is and what makes her tick?

    • Phil says:

      09:37pm | 28/07/10

      RJB

      Serious airbrushing on the cover by the looks of the photo I saw. Is it really Gillard?

      More than a touch up I say.

    • iansand says:

      03:58pm | 27/07/10

      Maybe he doesn’t want to.

      This is another example of journalists creating something from nothing.  Haven’t you some policies to analyse?

    • NeilM says:

      06:54pm | 27/07/10

      Given the quality of analysis from journalists they had best keep to what they know best. On second thought perhaps they had best just be paid to go away. Unfortunately journos are as competent as the Libs.

    • Super D says:

      04:28pm | 27/07/10

      You’d have to think that if the wisdom inside ALP headquarters was that Tim would help the campaign he’d be everywhere.  I don’t think they want voters reminded that Julia isn’t married or dwelling on her other past relationships.

    • Sodapoppy says:

      06:51pm | 27/07/10

      I would say they don’t want a microscope run over his past. Keep your head down and your eyes closed and don’t mention your kids.

    • Geoffrey Tobin says:

      11:52pm | 04/08/10

      Tony Abbott of course has had past relationships.  Remember how he was taken in by the faux love child?

      But is that a reason not to vote for him?

    • DD Ball says:

      05:08pm | 27/07/10

      On one hand I really don’t care that much about the person, but the policy. But policy comes from the person, their hopes and aspirations, and on that score I think Mr Abbott is living a more wholesome life. I would be proud if my son lived that way, or my daughter lives as his wife does. I wouldn’t wish it that my imaginary children live the lives of Gillard or her partner. I am sure they are happy, well adjusted people, I just don’t think that lifestyle is easy and I don’t think it lends itself to graceful old age. I won’t mind dying old and surrounded by family, and so Gillard’s choice sounds a warning to me. But then, I am a member of the Liberal party running as an independent in Blaxland .. so what would I know? Maybe that is bias.

    • Beagle says:

      05:49pm | 27/07/10

      you switched from the one nation party to the liberals?  Now that’s a surprise.

    • Reg says:

      09:06am | 28/07/10

      Exactly DD, what would you know. No experience of the trials of raising kids and you imagine the artificial tranquility of staunch families all about. Well pet, take it from a father of six, that is dreamy bullshit and a dreamer such as you we do not need in out government flitting from one rosy tulip to another. Your concerns are duly noted and dismissed.

    • jb says:

      05:13pm | 27/07/10

      Abbott is a family guy Gillard is clearly not, simple as that.
      She can’t compete with him for that vote so why bother trying.
      Better to have her concentrate on other matters like telling the truth and actually answering a freaking question…
      Oh and bring in some policies in the next term not the one after that….

    • Peasant #3167 says:

      05:31pm | 27/07/10

      Tim looks like a guy that that doesn’t go for the superficial BS, the media pack vultures, the fake smiles and the spin. I reckon he is a normal guy. So stay off his case.

    • NEFFA says:

      05:47pm | 27/07/10

      Are you kidding me? do you think we should be inviting Julia around so we can plait each others hair and talk about boys?

      i don’t care who shes sleeping with. i only want to know if she can run the country.

    • Ted says:

      06:23pm | 27/07/10

      Since she has been a major contributor to this government, I can safely say she CANNOT run the country.

    • Glen says:

      05:56pm | 27/07/10

      In November 2008, Tim Mathieson was appointed as a Labor Government men’s health ambassador, despite having no qualifications in the health field.  It was claimed Julia Gillard (then Deputy PM) had no role in his appointment to that position.  Labor’s Health Minister, Nicola Roxon, claimed Mr Mathieson was chosen because he could ‘engage with men’.  It was claimed Mr Mathieson’s rural background and 30 years experience as a hairdresser and hair colour salesman made him uniquely suited to the role of Government men’s health ambassador.  It was suggested that men and women open up in a hair dressing salon better than they do if they are in with a psychologist, a psychiatrist or in a doctor’s or GP’s.  Mr Mathieson is now also an ambassador for Kidney Health Australia, a patron of the Australian Men’s Sheds Association,  involved with the Indigenous Diabetes Association in Alice Springs and with mental health group beyondblue.  Mr Mathieson should be applauded for his volunteer work.  With involvement in all of these associations you’d be hard pressed attempting to claim Mr Matheison doesn’t want to get into the limelight.  So, Ms Gillard, why aren’t we seeing more of Mr Matheison ?  What’s going on ?

    • iansand says:

      07:40pm | 27/07/10

      Unpaid position.  I wish I could be even handed here, but the Liberal fanboys make it very difficult.

    • Sirro says:

      12:49am | 28/07/10

      Its a great credit to him that he hasnt ended up like all the other Labor spouses, kids, uncles, cousins, neighbours, mates etc. Working as paid electoral officers for one of the factional colleagues. Common practice in NSW state Labor circles. Just ask Joe Tripodi how its done. Hangers on everywhere bleeding the taxpayer dry with a nice payout when we finally get to ditch them. Typical Labor behaviour. Vote them back and get used to it.

    • Julie says:

      05:57pm | 27/07/10

      I’m sorry, but WHO CARES? If people vote based on this, then this country clearly needs to get its priorities straight.

    • Elizabeth says:

      06:02pm | 27/07/10

      Labor Party Campaign Officials advise Ms Gillard what to do and what to say during this election campaign.  Is that why we are not seeing much of or hearing anything from Mr Mathieson ?

    • Christian Real says:

      06:06pm | 27/07/10

      Petty radical liberals, petty radical comments, another reason why they should never regain government.
      Having her partner with her on the campaign trail is not a big deal, and it is more important to have policies, something which Tony abbott seems to lack, because he has no real policies ,no real ideas and no real direction which to take Australia.
      It shows that the Liberal party the media and the liberal party supporters have no real life or direction , is they have continually got to look for petty little things that is of no real importance to the leadership , policies or the direction that   will need to be taken to shape Australia in and progress forward . It is time to look forward and not go back in time like Tony Abbott and the Liberal/National party.
      The broadband plan is a grand plan to keep Australia in step with the rest of the World, and yet Tony Abbott wants to scrap it should he get in as Prime Minister.
      It is time to embrace the technology that is available, not scrap it, or put it on the back burner like Tony Abbott wants to do,he will take Australia and Australians back to the fifties, where he apparently feels to be in his comfort zone.

    • Aitch B says:

      09:00pm | 27/07/10

      Jeez…....... talk about one-eyed, rusted on, CR. “Never” regain government??

      There’s a real world waiting out there for you, mate….... should you choose to embrace it.

    • jamie says:

      10:48am | 28/07/10

      Tony Abbott wants to do,he will take Australia and Australians back to the fifties

      This stupid comment gets dragged out all the time.

      So, tell me, in fact, tell everyone, how is Abbott going to ‘drag us back to the 50s’? Give us proof. Will we all be driving Morris Minors and EK Holdens? Maybe we’ll all live in fibro bungalows?

      And a creditable source would be helpful.

      Or is the phrase just another lazy and meaningless ALP slogan?

      Come on Christian, back up your words.

    • Sirro says:

      01:34pm | 28/07/10

      Jamie,

      Not sure about the morris minor but the EK Holden didnt actually come out until the early 1960s ...1963 i think it was from memory.

      Aside from that I agree with you. Labour lines and blather fortunately is turning the electorate against them.

    • PaulB says:

      10:02am | 29/07/10

      EK was 1962 Sirro, but the design was done in the 50s and launched in 1960 as the FB so I guess Abbott can still get us to the 50s in an EK….sorta.  Morris Minor?  1948.  Maybe we’ll go back there.  It was a vintage year for great cars and everyone was all overexcited about the end of the war.  Beats today.

    • Joan says:

      06:07pm | 27/07/10

      Well he`s going to live at the lodge at taxpayer expense if Gillard moves in .... we should be able to checkout this guy. Hey Tim get your ukulele out and Tip toe through the tulips…....

    • Reg says:

      03:11pm | 28/07/10

      As with any responsible man Joan, I’d expect he would be very proud to make a contribution to the household expenses as well as supporting his extended family. We’re not all high maintenance blood-sucking Liberals, forever attached to the teat of the humble taxpayer. smile

    • Jim Scott says:

      06:22pm | 27/07/10

      Helen I hope your husband proof read your article before you published it. And can you tell us what you were wearing when you wrote it. We can do with a lot more of your type of deep analysis of where the country is heading.
      Just imagine if Miranda Kerr was standing for PM she could tow around Orlando Bloom with her to show what a family girl she is and she would whip Tony in the bathing suit battle.

    • jb says:

      06:37pm | 27/07/10

      I’m with Joan he’s going to be living of us so why shouldn’t it be a package deal?
      Something to hide here???
      Comon Julia bring Tim (if thats his real name) on the road or are you frightened he may embarrass you or something?

    • Peasant #3167 says:

      06:58pm | 27/07/10

      Who said this is a boring election? With Rudd giving all these leaks to Laurie Oaks I’m on the edge of my seat each day wondering what’s gunna be next.
      BTW did you see Rudd polyflute signs. No mention of Labor on them.
      Gillard worst enemy is not Abbott, it’s Rudd!
      Ha Ha ha, this makes for great entertainment.

    • Peter says:

      01:32pm | 28/07/10

      Peasant - have you seen Turnbull’s signs and the Liberal signs in Liberal and Labor marginal seats.  There is no mention or photo of
      Tony Abbott anywhere.  Are they ashamed of him?
      Rudd has been using those signs for yonks.  Probably recycles them every election and saves money.

      Who cares whether Tim is on the campaign or not.  He’ll turn up to the big events but why would he want to hang around where there are a lot of journos banging on about nothing much.  It would be boring as heck.

    • Desert Dave says:

      07:14pm | 27/07/10

      If the voters are going to be paying for Tim’s board and lodging if his defacto partner becomes Prime Minister again, then I think he, and the Prime Minister have an obligation to show us and tell us all more about him.

    • Peasant #3167 says:

      08:20pm | 27/07/10

      Desert dave: Why? That is just crazy. he is her boyfriend, she has her job and he has he’s. I’m not voting for him. I don’t interfere with my wife and her job. I can’t stand the job my wife doe’s but I still love her. (she is a nurse, wiping bums). But why should it be my business to tell her not to do it. She was doing that before I met her. And if her position gave her accommodation what would it matter what I did for a job?

    • MarK says:

      01:00am | 28/07/10

      Nah.

      i am sure they have checked out Tim from a security point of view.

      That is all that needs to be done. I am sure he is fine on the security side btw.

      let him go, he doesn’t count as such. As long as he acts fine good on her. he should be allowed into the lodge (or wherever) and his privacy respected if he chooses to remain private.

    • wally the worker says:

      05:41am | 28/07/10

      Nah mate, don’t go there, this bloke started off as a salesman, so he knows how to get a quid. His missus gave him a job anyway, something about men’s health, so that’d pay for a bit of tucker, roof over the head, and any extras I’d reckon mate.

    • Reg says:

      09:18am | 28/07/10

      Obviously a man attracted to intelligence and a good sense of humour. It’s a bit of a worry that so may Liberals have their roots in the law with the dreadful implications for their reputations of trustworthiness. Reveal yourselves boys.

    • Fiat Lux says:

      07:30pm | 27/07/10

      Tony Abbott is more likely than Julia Gillard to attract votes from those Australians who go to the trouble of both getting married and staying married .

    • CapnBazza says:

      10:47pm | 27/07/10

      “Trouble” getting married? You poor sod. I did it for love.

    • Reg says:

      09:26am | 28/07/10

      Ok you two, you’ve obviously researched this. Of the ~50% of Australians who are divorced, what is their political persuasion? Oh hang on, you’re guessing wildly. Of those who stay married, how many suffer in silence and how many do it for the sex and a good meal, oh, and the washing.
      That should keep you off the street for a while. Get back.

    • dead to me says:

      07:34pm | 27/07/10

      Okay her personal life is just that personal.

      Gillard is moving on to health care.

      Did we solve the asylum issue and address the ETS/environmental issues, insulation debacle and the whole Rudd affair?

      Moving on seems easier than actually solving problems. The fact that she is unmarried without children and wants to help working families move forward shouldn’t be the main reason she isn’t PM material. Her inability to be loyal and her lack of experience should be the concerns we have about having her as PM.

    • Jb says:

      07:45pm | 27/07/10

      She clearly has a commitment phobia…

    • Carl Palmer says:

      11:23pm | 27/07/10

      ha ha ha I’ll pay that.

    • kp says:

      07:53pm | 27/07/10

      Helen McCabe - don’t you think that there may be something a little more important than your above subject ?  It sounds a little trivial when we have an election on and we WANT TO KNOW POLICIES.  We don’t, as the people of Australia, give a bloody damn if she is married, red haired, grey haired, gay, straight, believes in God or doesn’t, we only care about her policies, but sadly, that is where Julia and her stupid government is lacking. So please, do not bore me with your nonsense about whether she is getting married or not or whatever, because it is so inconsequential at this very important moment in time !!!!!!!!!

    • Markster says:

      11:35pm | 27/07/10

      All such lightweight drivel.  We are talking about running the country! I am starting to move my views from compulsory to voluntary voting.  If you base your vote ..for or against.. based on a women’s magazine article, makes you wonder about the level of depth of the debate!

    • Markster says:

      11:37pm | 27/07/10

      All such lightweight drivel.  We are talking about running the country! I am starting to move my views from compulsory to voluntary voting.  If you base your vote ..for or against.. based on a women’s magazine article, makes you wonder about the level of depth of the debate!

    • Shelley says:

      03:59am | 28/07/10

      The other half of each PM candidate should be front and centre. We’re voting for a team here whether they like it or not.  They’ll be meeting heads of state and business officials from everywhere on the taxpayers $.A sharp businessperson gets to pick up a fair shake from these contacts. We have a right to know who they are. .If their butt is going into government housing, dust them off and put them on show!

    • Timmo says:

      07:00am | 28/07/10

      Of Course Julia Gillard has grown up and experienced normal family life, probably as well experienced as any one of us. Her Mum and Dad seem like normal traditional Welsh Family people to me. But she has chosen not to marry. Choosing not to marry is quite acceptable in modern societies and good on her for it. It’s not for us to denigrate her because of it. How many marriages last these days anyway. Not very good figures at the moment. So Julia may be applying some wisdom there. And if her Man Mr Mathieson is with here in the lodge well that’s good, where else would you expect him to go and live, down the road, around the corner.

      Now we’ll see all the liberal pundits trying to run him into the ground as some unmarried immoral person, not good enough to live in the Lodge or Kirribilli House. Hey people, they’re only houses after all and Julia and her man are real people and true to themselves which is good.

    • Holly says:

      07:57am | 28/07/10

      Some very bigoted comments above.  I think the more the spouse and family keep out of politics the better.  Much was made during the Howard years of Jeanette’s backstage involvement.  Tony’s stage managed attempts to soften his image have been somewhat sickening.  His wife works in an occasional child care centre I read.  Tony’s child care policies will benefit occasional child care providers I read.  So where did this policy come from?  Was it run past shadow cabinet.  Was there any dissension in discussions.  Better get Laurie onto this one.  The whole article and issue is ridiculous but sadly very Australian.  When will we mature as a nation I wonder?

    • Dash says:

      02:42pm | 28/07/10

      I reckon the mature decision is to get rid of this joke of a Labor government who has given us nothing but lies, waste and rorts. Not to mention the record levels of foreign debt and a $40.4billion defecit. That would be a very mature decision made on fact and based on performance rather than words. Otherwise, like you say Holly we’ll stay shallow blinded more by the airbrushed Woman’s Weekly and what our PM doesn’t have in her pants!

    • KB says:

      08:57am | 28/07/10

      This is absolute rubbish, but you would expect that from a women’s magazine. You hit the nail on the head when you said “it is not critical to how Ms Gillard will perform”. EXACTLY. So why are we still talking about it?

      It’s just more rubbish in this election campaign that is overshadowing the real issues.

    • Rosie says:

      09:27am | 28/07/10

      Yes Julia come clean, you cannot have it all your way! Part of Australia’s population do not believe in de facto relationships and beleive in God so it is our democractic right to question if we wish to do so. You are intelligent enough to realize that under the controversial circumstances you become the appointed PM you will be scrutinized.

      Kevin Rudd when he and his family was leaving the Lodge said they were leaving the “People’s Home” It is the people home so if you are going to move in we have the right to find out what we want to know about your boyfriend if he is going to shack up with you in the Lodge!

      PS “Marriage will legalize his stay in the Lodge” and next time you have a photo shoot with Woman’s Weekly wear big flat earrings to camouflage the ear lobes. It is a tip, people might then listen to what you are trying to say instead of being distracted by those ear lobes.

    • Geoffrey Tobin says:

      12:03am | 05/08/10

      Rosie, the Law of Moses states that de facto equals married.

    • Josef says:

      09:27am | 28/07/10

      Helen, you have no idea what you speak about.

      You’ve obviously never been in a political family.  I have.

      Can you imagine having to sit quiet when you think something is wrong… or wanting to pitch in but your involvement will detract from the cause?

      That’s a political family life.  A lot of stress… and if things get bad, it’s tabloid, gossip, et al.  That’s just a rought life to be in a political family.

      Therefore, I wish unfocused people like you would either get to policy issues or spoil your ballot.  The focus should be for you on women’s issues such as cutting breast cancer, good schools for the kids, less gender discrimination and the like.  Not on who’s sleeping with whom…

    • Rossco McGlashan says:

      09:35am | 28/07/10

      I dont give a flying **** about campaigners partners, I care about their policies.

    • Aitch B says:

      11:06am | 28/07/10

      And what they’ll do to help you set the world land speed record, Rossco? smile

    • Brian Ward says:

      11:02am | 28/07/10

      You say ‘voters expect to see more of their political leaders’ partners’. No, we don’t. We don’t care. They are their own people with their own lives and careers and should not have to appear as accessories on TV. Your argument is pathetic.

    • 6c legs says:

      11:35am | 28/07/10

      Apparently it’s Open Season on Punch on the personal lives of lefties, whereas Conservatives/ their families ‘habits/behaviours’ are Off Limits.
      Well if Conservatives don’t want *their* dirty linen aired, they best play by the rules themselves!  (or at least make sure that their media campaign does)

    • DR says:

      01:19pm | 28/07/10

      I’ve heard quite a few times that Gillard is a lesbian and that her and Tim’s relationship is just that of a “cosy arrangement” for the cameras and party.  Similar to Keatings.

    • Geoffrey Tobin says:

      02:35pm | 06/08/10

      Wow, two unsubstantiated innuendos in one assertion.  While we’re at it, I heard that Abbott is in fact an animatronic marionette manipulated by the unwashed sixth toe on John Howard’s left foot, which was transplanted illegally from Anne Boleyn’s frozen corpse.

    • Greg says:

      02:34pm | 28/07/10

      I’d prefer to see more of the woman he dumped for Julia. That way fewer women would be prepared to vote for her and we might all be saved from having a character from Kath and Kim as our PM.

    • Cat says:

      02:59pm | 28/07/10

      We will not see too much of Tim simply because nobody in the ALP, least of all Ms Gillard, will want to remind people of his existence. The ALP is well aware that it will be an embarrassment if Ms Gillard is living with someone to whom she is not married. It is an arrangement that will be quite unacceptable in some countries and could well affect our foreign relations in the most fundamentalist countries.
      Whatever our personal views about the relationship (and frankly I could not care less on the personal level) it does matter if you want to lead the country and have any standing internationally.  Ms Gillard needs, at very least, to acknowledge that and leave her partner in Melbourne.

    • Lisa says:

      09:49pm | 28/07/10

      This whole discussion seems to summarize the split approach Australians have to marriage. On one hand, we are very quick to dramatically and repeatedly overstate the number of people actually experiencing marriage breakdowns… but on the other hand we seem to instinctively see that in spite of the propaganda, the unreported rates of de facto relationship breakdown are actually much higher.

      We have to ‘get real’ and admit that Gillard’s home arrangements are really a reflection of where our society has taken us since the widespread adoption of hormonal birth control.

      Regardless of a woman’s personal feelings on the matter, such is the social outlook that very many modern women feel they have little choice but to be pragmatic and live with a de facto, rather than hold out for the wedding.

      Gillard has said that she knew from an early age that she would probably not marry. In this way, she is living an honest life, and is uncompromised.

      In contrast, so many other women are living in dishonest de facto relationships, where they would prefer to be married, but feel they must compromise to attain a close relationship.

      No point blaming Gillard for that. Can we get back to the politics please?

    • Elle says:

      02:29am | 29/07/10

      Lisa, How could you say jooolia is living an honest life, when she has had affairs with other pollies & with one she broke a marriage up, is that honest, i don’t think so ,ask Mrs C Emison what it felt like .

    • Greg says:

      09:00am | 29/07/10

      I’d prefer to see more of Craig Emerson’s wife! She wont be voting for Joolia now will she! How many women would find the other woman attractive enough to vote for?

 

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