The queue of mature cinema-goers that snaked its way on Saturday night from the local art house cinema, and halfway out of the shopping complex that houses it, looked more like something you would expect at a summer rock festival than in the leafy private school belt.

(Here’s a cinema interview that the 40 plus types will like)

But people will queue - because in the 40+ market, the cinema seems to have triumphed.  This particular venue has refined its product to the point where the mirrors in the bathroom don’t show anything below the bosom, and the lights Photoshop you in a flattering 40w - which is ideal for any middle-aged viewer as she mulls over what to select at the candy bar.

Not so long ago, the potential supremacy of the cinema as a leisure activity was undermined by the absence of alcohol.  But this hurdle has now been overcome - with the double-edged result that you can experience the tension in your bladder rise in tandem with the tension in the plot.

While many may debate with their partners what actual obligation there is to talk at social occasions, the cinema realises the dream of a great number by removing - nay, precluding - any such obligation.  Husbands everywhere know they can spend the night with their wife, and as many of her friends as she chooses, without wanting to dig out their eardrums after half an hour. 

Like sushi, cinema also belongs to that rare and miraculous class of things that are both good for you and enjoyable.  I say good for you, because it is a cultural pursuit.  And let’s face it, cultural pursuits are not always enjoyable.  Unless it’s your particular poison, culture can be more like an abdominal crunch: kind of satisfying, certainly good for you, but not really pleasant. 

In contrast, film is like the long-touted fat pill – all the benefits with none of the work. 

Generally, cultural activities are also pretty personal.  For many refined individuals, opera is an opiate; for others it is more like a rhinoceros: undeniably astonishing, but no need to subscribe.  I waited in fear at Christmas when a particular opera fanatic told me she had bought me tickets to something very expensive and special. 

I can’t refuse such tickets in case it means I’m ungrateful, wasteful, a Philistine or all of the above.  At least with the cinema we can all invite and be invited with reckless abandon – confident that no one is attending because they think they ought to.

And as for the candy bar, where else but the cinema is it perfectly normal for a 50-year-old executive to walk around with half his face obscured by a chocolate-coated ice-cream cone; an appetising legitimisation.

Perhaps the cinema’s stiffest competition on a Saturday night is from restaurants.  But if your predilection is for fine food you have a choice between a film at $18, and an El Bullian style foam at about that price per gram. Fancy restaurants also require greater organisation in the form of bookings, greater effort in terms of appearance, and that elusive consensus between friends over what constitutes a fair price for a coddled quail’s egg or three slivers of pearl meat. 

Maybe it is a consequence of modern life, but the idea of retreating to a soft spot, in a semi-dark, climate-controlled room; where no one can talk to you, and apples and blackberries are not in season, is increasingly appealing.

It’s almost as good as a womb.

Lastly, there are the amenities.  There comes a point in life where seats matter.  Meeting at the cinema is like going to a 10 minute cocktail party that ends with a guaranteed seat.  And where they serve popcorn instead of pumpernickel. 

And of course, if you do the 7 o’clock session, you can keep your social life alive and still be in bed by 10. Perfect.

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    • Mahhrat says:

      05:25am | 28/03/11

      I guess the home cinema is really starting to bite, eh? I’m 35, my lady 24, and we love movies, but we don’t go cinema, even with our fledgling setup. Much prefer to have a couple mates over, cook something nice, not pay $8 for half a nip, and enjoy a movie in the comfort of my own home.

    • TChong says:

      05:49am | 28/03/11

      The old Valhalla in Glebe used to be THE place to go for the alternative - Liquid Sky ( original ) , Eraserhead, Schlock, Rocky Horror etc, as well as old mainstream - 2001, (seemed to be on every week) ,Koyanisquaat (sic) Apocalypse Now, BladeRunner.
      The Valhalla posters were considered a work of art in themselves, often blu- tacked to a kitchen or loungeroom, ( and for the true arty) , bedroom wall , and kept many a stoned young uni student amused for hours, just looking at the little pics.
      Mike Walshes nothern Sydney venue ( cant remember the name) ,with its guilded cherubs ,often had similar flix, but less of the grungy,eclectic , (mostly) stoned patrons that the Valhalla attracted.

    • stephen says:

      07:52am | 28/03/11

      The Valhalla shut down cause people there found something better to do : go to the Opera. Though I’m surprized they did, cause Glebeites, who don’t normally do anything, (no-one in Glebe know what a verb is, and what it does) would like nothing better than to be manipulated by editors in a Lab at 16 bucks a session.
      No such thing as cinema now ; it’s all done for you by the splicer and mixer in a dark and dusty room.
      Winona Ryder didn’t really hang from a beam covered in alien slime, the Director told her, in her levis, to just sit in your harness, smile darlin… ‘and turn on the tap, clapper’...and we’ll fix it up in the lab.
      There hasn’t been a movie made as one since about 1983, when coincidence ? pop music became pap music.
      There’s only two bad Operas doing the rounds, and that’s only because one of them is still maintained by a film director - ho-hum - and the other one’s by Beethoven. (He’s excused.)
      Plenty of bad films. In fact, one out of three is junk, and it’s what the dunny door in the foyer is kept open for : so you can have a puke AND a dump.
      For 16 bucks I can get a six pack, or a pair of jeans at Lowes, and if I wanna get my buttons pressed, I’ll pay a bit more and get some love and kisses at the same time, which is the only time recently I’ve walked out of a darkened room a happy man. Seen only one reasonable film in the last 3 years - True Grit - and that, I bet, was a fluke.

      And Scorcese’s a pretentious bag of wind.

    • dex says:

      09:38am | 28/03/11

      The Cohen brothers dont make flukes. May I suggest O Brother Where Art Thou, Burn After Reading, No Country For Old Men, Fargo, The Man Who Wasnt There, Barton Fink, The Big Lebowski etc etc.

    • stephen says:

      12:45pm | 28/03/11

      No you can’t suggest…
      Miller’s Crossing’s their best film, and even that was an accident.
      They had so much trouble with it that the time it took to finish it yer could have written 2 Operas, won and fought a revolution and had three kids.
      I like movies,( or rather now, the concept) but the way they’re put together now makes Marg. and her margarine look like Ludwigs opus 165.

    • Martha says:

      04:49am | 29/03/11

      Oh wow, you sound positively painful.
      Please dont inflict yourself n others anymore i beg you.

    • Bill09 says:

      08:31am | 28/03/11

      Thanks Amy for reminding us that good humour , intelligence and whimsy make for an interesting and amusing conversation..Perhaps you and yours might consider moving into our street ...its sorely in need of some..

    • George says:

      09:54am | 28/03/11

      While we’re quoting Hitchcock (sort of): A good film is when the price of the dinner, the theatre admission and the babysitter were worth it.
      I guess this explains the decline in visits to the cinema.

    • Arnold Layne says:

      10:15am | 28/03/11

      It’d be nice if the multiplex cinemas in the suburbs actually showed different films at different locations, or if an independent opened that didn’t end up being get bought out by Greater Union or Hoyts.  I’d go to the movies more often if my choices weren’t so restricted.  It’s not always convenient to go to the inner city unfortunately.

    • TracyH says:

      10:24am | 28/03/11

      Spot on dex…cohen bros create great stuff…you would probably like Stranger than Fiction if you like Oh Brother Where Art Tho. Don’t be put off by the fact it stars Will Ferrel…it really is a great concept movie smile. Also, Adaptation, and Being John Malkovich.

    • Kate says:

      11:11am | 28/03/11

      My only reason for avoiding the cinema is the same reason I download TV shows - I can’t stand waiting weeks for something which is already available in Europe or the US. Then if you want to see a less popular film, it’s only showing for two weeks at The Palace and it’s hard to find the time. I saw two great Aussie films last year - Animal Kingdom and The Loved Ones - which I wouldn’t have been able to see had they not been available for download.

      Plus, you can’t snuggle up with a blanket in your pyjamas at the cinema, which is my favourite part of watching a movie.

    • Geoff says:

      11:18am | 28/03/11

      Sounds really appealing, except I actually like talking to my wife and friends, like good food, and can stand up for several minutes at a time without my decrepit body giving out from under me.
      Not sure when being a fat bloke with an ice-cream hiding from other people in a dark room became something desirable….

    • Ben says:

      11:24am | 28/03/11

      i’ve slowly stopped going to the cinema, for many reasons.
      primarily there hasn’t been anything that’s really caught my attention as something i really wanted to see in years, but on the odd accasion (maybe once a year) when i do go, the inflated prices, the ads continuing even after the announced movie start time, the dirty floor, the occasional obnoxious/loud person in the audience, the inflated price (movies don’t cost hundreds of millions to make, that’s just what they choose to pay themselves and their associated companies), the unbalanced sound meaning that to be loud to hear the quite parts it’s too loud in others, and the inability to watch again without paying again all make the whole experience pretty poor.
      really all cinema has going for it is the time (you have to wait to watch at home) and the big screen, 2 pros in a mountain of cons.

    • Sam says:

      11:39am | 28/03/11

      People still go to the cinema?!?Once you have a decent sized flat screen TV and a reliable internet connection there is no reason to race to a cinema to be there at a certain time, pay $18 for a ticket then $4.50 for a bottle of water, find your allocated seat, and sit on a dirty seat with strangers to watch 20 minutes of ads before the movie starts. I would much, much rather sit on my own couch, in my own time, with my own tap water/sensible priced bottle of wine and watch it in the comfort of my own home. You can also press pause if you need to go to the toilet/get a snack!

      Cinemas were great and relevant 15 years ago.

    • Natalie says:

      11:43am | 28/03/11

      Something is killing cinema these days…oh I know what it is, the people that won’t shut up the whole movie, seriously thinking they are in their lounge room at home, the constant texting, the phones going off…just to mention a few things. I would much prefer to go to a theatrical productions these days, movie theatres are over rated and quite honesty can’t justify spending good money to listen to the person next to me continue do all of the above after politely being asked not to.

    • Anne71 says:

      12:39pm | 28/03/11

      Agreed, Natalie. I still remember the time I went to the movies and some bogan’s phone rang halfway through - and they actually answered it and had a conversation! This on top of other people chatting to each other - at regular volume, not even attempting to lower their voices - throughout the film and the kids behind me kicking my seat while they yelled at their mum for more junk food to stuff into their horrid little faces. It’s just not worth it any more. These days, I just wait for the movie in question to come out on DVD.

    • Lynne says:

      01:06pm | 28/03/11

      I was at the Opera last week and the woman next to me started texting during the overture ...

    • KH says:

      01:22pm | 28/03/11

      Lynne -where was that?  The Arts Centre in melbourne has an electronic loop that renders phones unusable during the performance - you often see people going outside to make calls during intervals…..maybe you should suggest it for your venue?!

      I went to see a movie a couple of weeks ago - it was a mid week session, but busy.  There was a group of elderly women sitting a few rows back, who insisted on talking all the way through the movie, forcing me to move several rows forward to try and block them out.  I mean really - why go if you are just going to talk all the way through it?!  Idiots on their phones and the chip packet crunchers are two other reasons to avoid busy sessions.  If I want to see something that appeals to teens, I will pay for gold class - most of them can’t afford it, and it means I can see Harry Potter in peace…....hehehe

      No matter how big your TV is, you really can’t recreate the cinema experience at home, unless you are really wealthy and can afford a dedicated home cinema…....that would be nice….....

    • Kate says:

      01:34pm | 28/03/11

      I agree - the ones with their phones out during the whole movie drive me nuts!

    • Sludger says:

      12:09pm | 28/03/11

      I really do love the choc tops though, and the popcorn.

    • troy says:

      08:30am | 29/03/11

      not for the price….i sneak my own in. 5 bucks for a icecream and 10 bucks for popcorn….waste of money.

    • JoeC says:

      12:27pm | 28/03/11

      Natalie, I agree. This is the dawning of a golden age for theatre, whether amateur or professional. With every home having essentially what is a home theatre, there is now something special that we can make a big deal out of: the stage.

    • Mark says:

      12:33pm | 28/03/11

      Having worked as a cinema projectionist in my younger days at the Star Cinema at Padstow for 7 years, there was always something magical about being in the cinema. From the bio box I had a great view of the audience and their reactions - laughter, fear, screams, stunned silence etc - which made me understand how performers on stage get when they hear the approval of the crowd. It all started loosing its lusture when when everyone tried to be the same as Hoyts, Village (remember them?) and GUO. Plus with the big 3 moving into the suburbs with multiplexes the writing was on the wall for a number of single screen cinemas. Some survived (Beverley Hills, Cronulla, Kogarah just to name a few) but they also had to change into mini-multiplexes.

      When we all start doing the same & our individuality is pushed aside, our magic goes & we all become robots of the same factory.

    • Benjamin says:

      12:37pm | 28/03/11

      The cinema is made better when you pick the right session. I’m 28 & my wife 23, we’ll see family films late @ night because there are no children and see comedies in the first session of the day because there are no teenagers.

      But have to agree that Coen borther are winners. Nobody writes dialogue like them.

    • stephen says:

      01:08pm | 28/03/11

      Their dialogue is nearly always too good. The Coens are best at the visuals, at scene ‘description’.
      Nice scene near the end of their Western, the Sheriff atop his horse racing to take the girl, snake-bit, to the Doc.
      Reminded me of the Erlking.
      Anyone can do a good script.
      It’s the seeing that’s the key, and their Miller’s is the best example of it.

    • Johnson says:

      01:04pm | 28/03/11

      The image and sound quality of the cinema keeps me going. Sitting around home watching movies just doesn’t provide me with the quality of movie fix I desire, even with blu-ray and a big screen.

    • Ned says:

      01:04pm | 28/03/11

      I haven’t gone to the cinema in years, I had enough of screaming kids, the back of my seat being kicked, people chewing loudly, leaving their mobile phones on and paying $5 for a bottle of water. Plus a cinema ticket isn’t much less (and is sometimes more!) than buying the movie on dvd a couple of months later.

      I have a good setup at home with a big screen TV, blu ray player and surround sound so I prefer to watch movies from the comfort of my own couch.

    • Niente says:

      01:17pm | 28/03/11

      I love going to the cinema and I’m happy to go on my own when my friends don’t want to see a film I want to see. But I usually wait until the film’s been showing for a few weeks so it’s not so crowded. I’m lucky I’m within a short bus ride to an inner west independent cinema and I always feel young when I go to see a film there because everyone else is a lot older. And they are better behaved than the patrons at the big mulitplexes.

    • David Strettons hernia says:

      01:35pm | 28/03/11

      Kids animated movies are the only thing really worth making the effort of going to the cinema for. My seven year old thinks it is a treat and we love the choc tops. A couple of trips a year to the drive in too, complete with picnic dinner packed in the eski and kids oplaying in the playground in their pyjamas, dressing gowns and runners. But again, only for kids animated movies. I agree with the earlier post that no real movies have been made since 1983. As for Australian movies, (with the exception of Animal Kingdom, The Castle and Kenny), why did we stop making anything of substance. (Jindabyne was the worst movie EVER!!! Hint to writers, most of us do not dress in black and hang around in cafes sipping semi decaf skinny soy lattes talking about the plight of gay whales in Tibet. ) Hollywood only gets over this by producing lots and lots through which we can sift for a couple of gems. British, well an occasional inspiration, but struggling like our own industry.

      So, until we get something decent to watch, its the video store unless my young ones want a choc top or a play on the swings at dusk before the cartoons start.

    • wonko speaks says:

      01:57pm | 28/03/11

      No one talks? Maybe if you cull their mobiles then no-one talks. 
      Oh, and @David Strettons Hernia - I’m a would-be writer who’d love to get a really good Australian film out there, but no-one wants to know.  It’s hype-hype-hype, quick-bang-for-buck and treat the world as one-cell-brain-boys.  It’s the same with publishers - they’re not interested in new stuff, in challenging stuff, in stuff to make you think.

    • David Strettons hernia says:

      02:40pm | 28/03/11

      Good on you wonko, I hope you do get in their and shake the tree a little. We really do need some original ideas transposed into scripts and then onto film. The thing that really irks me about the Australian film industry is that when they do it well, Holy moses it is just f%$#@&^n brilliant. When they don’t, well, it’s probably a good thing that no-one has ever heard of the movies that get AFI awards each year, let alone had to endure them in a darkened room.

      Go forward wonko, carry the flag, the industry NEEDS you.

    • Scott says:

      03:44pm | 28/03/11

      Amy,
      You make going to the cinema’s sound so good! It almost makes me want to go there tonight with my wife, pay the $36 for the ticket ($39 if it’s 3D). Maybe buy some popcorn and a drink, another $10. Wait in line while they clean the cinema. (That’s what they say they’re doing but I’ve never seen any evidence of this.) Will the movie be good, well the critics said it will be good. Amy….it wasn’t any good. Now I’ve got to go home, still cook dinner, or get takeaway, another $30. All up the nights cost me $76.  Wait a minute, what if I instead got a DVD. DVD $5, takeaway $30, a few drinks $10, popcorn (I’ll pop my own). Total cost $45. And if the movie isn’t any good, I’ll just go back to the video store and get another movie. Yay!!

    • Ellemmennopee says:

      06:52pm | 28/03/11

      The only reason I still go to the movies (and I go a lot!) is because of the Grand Cinemas Grand card - a one-off fee of $25 for the year, then for the whole year all your tickets are $10 each, plus heaps of coupons for free tickets, discounted lollies etc. Add to that taking my own snacks and drinks, going to the cinema is quite a cheap night out. Watching movies at home is okay, but who wants to spend their life just sitting in front of the TV night after night??

    • Michael says:

      09:49pm | 28/03/11

      A properly built and maintained cinema with the right equipment is truely a experience, nothing at home can compare, it will take you on a journey that will be memorable and enjoyable. Unfortunately, most cinema’s do not seem to appreciate this as is shown in their aging complexes. All the money they make is being spent on big shiny candy bars and marketing to try to sell us candy. When the real reason we go to the cinema, to be immersed in a movie, is lost.

    • jason says:

      10:57pm | 28/03/11

      cinema is dying.  it cost a family of 5 $100 to see a 3D move ie
      $22 each.  The average cost in the US for a ticket is $7.85.

      No wonder Australians pirate movies so much.

    • ted thorne says:

      07:07am | 29/03/11

      Your article has overlooked the most annoying aspects of cinema, the over inflated prices for any snacks & drinks, the noise of the potato chip packets being opened, the chatter from other patrons and the mobile phones that ring throughout!

    • Debs says:

      09:24am | 29/03/11

      We haven’t gone to the cinema for years - it’s just too expensive!!  Between ticket prices, snacks and drinks - two of us going to a movie is a fairly costly night out.  Thank heavens we don’t have kids! 

      We’d MUCH rather wait a month or two, buy the DVD at BigW for $15 or $20, and watch it in our own media room with a bottle of wine and some chocolate.  And even better, our dog & cat can watch the movie with us (our dog is addicted to TV) rather than being stuck at home alone.

      Cinemas are going the same way as drive-in theatres - remember those?

    • Lee says:

      09:53am | 29/03/11

      I don’t know which cinemas everyone on here goes to but it sounds horrible! I don’t remember the last time someone talked so loud it wrecked the movie, the last chip packet that rattled was mine BEFORE the movie came on, there were no noisy kids and no mobile phones ringing. Maybe I’m lucky? Oh and I brought the chip packet in - who’s silly enough to buy at the candy store anyway? Too expensive! And the bizarre thing is - you don’t have to buy anything from there! Wow!
      How can you compare the cinema to a big screen tv? Really is it that big? I’ve seen projected movies in peoples homes and it’s not the same. Like someone else said, you pick the session that doesn’t suit the movies audience or wait a few weeks. But your so impatient, you need to see a new movie NOW because Europe has it first…

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