Turn on the six o’clock news most days of the week and you’ll more than likely be bombarded with images of pain and despair.

Quadriplegic Kieron D'Netto

It’s pretty easy to become desensitised in the journalism caper, but recently a 23-year-old quadriplegic served me a serious reality check.

Producing a talkback program comes with a healthy dose of climate change scepticism, asylum ranting and political debunking. 

The tragic death of Brisbane student, Whitney Heuvel, whose daredevil stunt on the Eleanor Schonell Bridge whilst ‘skylarking’ with friends, has stirred opinions on the airwaves.

Whitney reportedly asked his friends to film the ill-fated stunt.

Whilst looking for an authoritative voice on the issue, I came across Kieron D’Netto.

Five years ago Kieron was doing what he loved most, having fun with some of his closest mates on the Gold Coast. Most weekends were rounded off with a daring jump off the Macintosh Island Bridge.

Until one fateful day.

In a momentary lapse in thought, the plucky teenager grabbed a close-by boogie board and leaped over the bridge railing. When Kieron hit the water he knew straight away. The impact broke his neck immediately and rendered him unconscious.

If it wasn’t for the last ditch efforts of close friend, Nathan McKay, who scooped him out of the depths, Kieron knows he wouldn’t be here today.

He is now strapped to a wheelchair, utterly dependent on his single mother Elaine. A business owner who was forced to give up her job to become a full-time carer for her only son.

When he spoke to our Michael Smith, the phones fell silent, and we all listened to the tragic tale of the fearless youth in all our pasts.

When the BBC called later than night, I was presented with the opportunity to meet with Kieron face-to-face.

When I arrived at the D’Netto home, its normality caught me off guard. The single-story building did not flaunt the trimmings of special attention.

Kieron may be confined to a remote controlled chair, but his passion for life almost leapt up to greet me. 

Every day life does not come without its struggles. He needs assistance to feed himself, to bathe, to go to the bathroom, the basic every day tasks of which we give no second thought. In his words, he lost his right to dignity.

As a quadriplegic Kieron may not be able to live a ‘normal’ life, but he is yet to give up on his chance to educate others.

A few months after the accident, Kieron returned to the Macintosh Island Bridge. In a horrifying case of déjà vu, a group of teenagers were bridge jumping at the time.

One youth was headed for the bridge with boogie board in hand. Kieron yelled out from his wheelchair: “I hope you’re not planning on jumping.”

The boy looked back and said, “What’s it to you?” before turning his back on the boy strapped to his chair.

The ignorance doesn’t surprise Kieron, he might have reacted a similar way all those years ago.  But that won’t discourage him using his last remaining asset - his voice - to help whoever will listen.

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    • RT says:

      05:03am | 18/11/09

      There’s a story in the news today about another kid who died after hitting his head while jumping off a rope into the water. What can you do? As long as there are boys there are some who will die or become paralysed this way. Writing well intentioned articles full of sober warning won’t change it in reality.

    • Nick says:

      08:04am | 18/11/09

      You can also become a quadriplegic playing football, or swimming at the beach, or riding a bike, or doing any number of other things that we generally consider fairly safe and normal things to be doing. But when one person jumps off a bridge and becomes a quadriplegic it is suddenly the most dangerous thing you could ever do.

      Doing almost anything except sitting at home wrapped in bubble wrap is going to involve some kind of risk. That doesn’t mean we stop living our lives. So lets be realistic about this. Jumping off a bridge, provided you go about it sensibly, is not particularly dangerous. We don’t need the fun police to come out and tell us not to do it every time someone gets hurt doing it.

    • Anne S says:

      08:04am | 18/11/09

      This is an important article as it reflects the impact of media on our youth’s thinking.  It is courageous of this young man to speak out.  Yes, young teens and young adults do think that they are invincible however, television media in particular has fed into this thinking with shows presenting stupid and dangerous feats being undertaken in the name of entertainment. 
      This also reflects the “15 minutes of fame” mentality (which television media also influenced) that is prevalent in our society with feats ranging from undertaking dangerous activities to assassinations of famous people making security one of the largest industries. 
      This is an important story that needs to be presented in the media as our youth are important and rather than just promote dangerous activities as entertainment our youth need to be aware of consequences.

    • Lexi says:

      08:20am | 18/11/09

      An insightful article, Aaron - it sent shivers down my spine.  Thank you.

    • Stephen Pickells says:

      11:18am | 18/11/09

      I totally disagree with Nick. Of course everything in life carries some risk, but the idea is to live in such a way as to minimise that risk. I wouldn’t have thought that jumping off a bridge with a boogie board was particularly dangerous, but when you read about what happened to Kieron, then it becomes obvious that it is. We don’t need the “fun police” telling us not to do stuff. What we need is to be made aware of the danger, so that we can make an informed decision. Unfortunately for Kieron, he found out the hard way.

    • darren says:

      11:54am | 18/11/09

      Great article- just another reason why we deserve a national disability insurance scheme -

    • L Spencer says:

      01:01pm | 18/11/09

      “Jumping off a bridge, provided you go about it sensibly, is not particularly dangerous.”
      “provided you go about it sensibly”
      Exactly.

    • Aura says:

      01:11pm | 18/11/09

      Good food for thought Aaron!! increasing social awareness is a duty of every citizen ! Well done.

    • Tom says:

      06:33pm | 19/11/09

      Stephen, you forget that taking risks is fun. If you truly live your life seeking to minimise risk at every opportunity, then I truly pity you. Some people will get injured severely in life, it is truly tragic for those involved, but ultimately unavoidable.

    • Anna Tullemans says:

      08:44am | 20/11/09

      A very sobering thought Aaron. So often we think we are invincible especially in our teenage years and do some very stupid things in the name of fun. I hope your article reaches some of our youth who might think twice before carrying out some really stupid stunts that they see on some very famous TV shows (all carried out in the name of entertainment.

    • John Byron says:

      01:04pm | 20/11/09

      It is also not often that you read an article like this written by someone as young as the author appears.
      When so many other young writers are being attracted to the superficial or popular topics looking for exposure.
      As a parent of teenagers, it is a pleasure to read a selfless article displaying a warning that reminds us just how a single moment of can destroy so much.
      It is by only a sheer miracle that for most of us were lucky enough not to find ourselves in a similar situation attempting stupid youthful acts of bravado.
      Aaron is sadly right, would we have listened?
      The author displays a depth of character well beyond the author years and I will look forward to his next article.

 

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