Went to buy a card the other day for a friend’s birthday. Approached the vast card stand along the side of the wall (why are card rows ALWAYS against a wall?) and found the selection on offer was (c)ardly very good.


Cards typically go one of two ways. Both were pretty evident in this newsagency. There’s the “this is your age in fluoro writing! Congratulations!” genre. They’re fine. Nobody has a problem with them. They’re simple and to the point, a little bland for a good friend though. And then there’s the “dirty joke combined with crude stereotype” card.

They are everything that is wrong with the card business. Many makers of these pieces of cardboard at the heart of our present-giving tradition figure that everyone, male or female, fits neatly into a gender stereotype. For instance, if you’re a bloke, Hallmark and co. assume that your mate Jimmy Jones would love a card with a a beer, a sports-car, an electric guitar or a hot cardboard sheila on the front.

Greeting cards, they’re just so arousing.

If you’re a woman, you’ve got a different selection of things on the front of your card. A lot of the time, cartoon stilettos. Cute animals. A near-naked cartoon dude wearing a cop’s hat.

And when you start pushing your mid-twenties, a joke about getting wrinkles. If you’re a woman who loves beer or a man who’s getting wrinkles, then sorry, no card for you.

Now, cards aren’t the most important thing. In most cases, we just do a polite inspection of them (unless they say something substantial and heartfelt) and then we quickly lunge for the present they’re buddied up with.

The folded pieces of paper provide an important service though. It’s great to receive a card sometimes, filled with wishes. They’re a medium through which we can communicate a message, a thought, a hand of kindness to another.

We’re big on cards. The Australian Greeting Card Association website (...yes, there’s an Australian Greeting Card Association. No, I’m not pulling your leg.) claims that the average Australian consumes 22 cards per annum(!) and we’re the third-biggest card consumers in the world.

The industry could consider itself a critical pillar of the Australian economy. It’s involved in the employment of some 22,000 people, the association claim, and card sales are more than $500 million a year. The Punch wasn’t able to verify the figures as the association’s spokesperson was out of the office yesterday, probably away on pressing card-related business.

It’s difficult to predict the card industry being replaced by e-cards. There’s something that seems a little lazy about the electronic version, even if your e-card is a detailed animation of various people you know singing La Cocharacha. They’re computer generated, rather than hand-written. And with physical cards, someone had to at least go to the newsagents and find an appropriate card for you.

Now, the problem with every card being a crude stereotype not matching reality is one of economics. The card industry is dominated by a few big suppliers aiming at the mass-market.

Perhaps the way of the future for customizable cards. A ‘choose-your-own-card-design’ booth in your newsagents. Where there are cards with messages you can print off that recognise that your friend Sally drives a Ferrari and Bobbo is a big gardener.

Or maybe, unless you’ve got something better to say than just “happy birthday”, we could just ditch the card and put its $6.99 cost towards a better present. You were going to get them a present as well, right?

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    • Debbie says:

      07:18am | 25/05/12

      “Perhaps the way of the future for customizable cards” ... the future is with us now and has been for a few years. There a several companies online where you are able to upload your own design or customise one of theirs. They then print it on card and mail it to the recipient.

    • Daniel Piotrowski

      Daniel Piotrowski says:

      08:12am | 25/05/12

      Requires a lot of foresight though! Not many people are organised enough to buy their cards in time for online delivery, I’d wager grin

    • stephen says:

      07:23am | 25/05/12

      They’re getting pricey at $6.99.
      Writers for these card companies who are on a particular contract, get paid only the cards that the company wants, and they reject the rest.
      Many words on cards are insipid, they are meant to mean not much at all, and some companies prefer it this way so the card can appeal to more people.
      I like a definite speech on my card, (I buy maybe 20 a year) pointed, and with the highest sentiment.
      Seven bucks for a piece of cardboard must go a long way to reflection, otherwise I’ll ring and save myself the postage, too.

    • Tubesteak says:

      12:52pm | 25/05/12

      Arts grads have to do something

    • Alison says:

      07:35am | 25/05/12

      Get with the times Mark.  I Personalise my cards online from my computer.  My photos and my words.  It’s printed like a proper card and sent directly to the lucky birthday girl or boy.  Too easy, and no need to climb the card mountain at the newsagents.  And extra surprise; it’s a Hallmark service from their website.

    • Alison says:

      08:54am | 25/05/12

      Sorry Mark = Dan.  Online cards are printed same day if you order in the morning.  Then its in aus post hands!

    • stephen says:

      07:38am | 25/05/12

      Card companies pay their writers for only those cards they want ; otherwise they reject the rest.
      Nowadays, though, (I buy maybe 20 cards a year) the style of cards is insipid.
      I like my words pointed and definite, and the eventual reader to get a flush, and to want to ring me ... ‘hey steve, how did you afford the $6.99 ... didn’t steal this card, did you ?’

      Oh well, least they think of me.

    • acotrel says:

      07:43am | 25/05/12

      Have you noticed that if you simply want to send a greeting card renewing an old friendship, with no particular event to celebrate, there isn’t much available which would suit ?

    • Scott says:

      09:20am | 25/05/12

      I’ve noticed too many choices for just sending a card anytime which include thinking of you or even a blank card witch could work. I love cards there are more and more options every time I have a look. But you might not find them in the bargain bin at the Reject Shop.

    • Jamie says:

      10:36am | 25/05/12

      Try writing a letter then…..

    • Pete says:

      11:04am | 25/05/12

      That’d be because sending a card to ‘renew an old friendship’ is a ridiculous reason to send a card. So they don’t exist, because to do that task you should be writing a short letter. Far more personal, cheaper and just all-round less lame.
      The greeting card industry (a phrase which sounded ridiculous ever since Maxwell Smart claimed it as his profession) sounds slightly nasty. They’re a rip off, and you can always find nicer, locally made, interesting cards for about the same price by avoiding bland American brands like Hallmark. The sheer size of retail space in newsagents devoted to these banal, unimaginative offerings suggests there’s some kind of rort going on. I feel sorry for old pensioners who end up paying $7.00 for this kind of sh*te, kinda daggy and cute though.

    • Steveo says:

      08:38am | 25/05/12

      Try local arts markets, small art studios and Etsy. I know I can pick up some amazingly funny and off the wall cards there and have considered commissioning a few from an artist I am very fond of. I like to support the little guy because they don’t fall into the cookie cutter mass produced stereotyes. You end up with something that is one of a kind and usually cheaper to boot!

    • Rachel says:

      09:06am | 25/05/12

      etsy has some of the best cards of all time. I would NEVER buy a card from the local news agency.
      There is nothing worse than giving a card and finding out that they already have the exact same one from another person.

    • Smidgeling says:

      09:36am | 25/05/12

      Or the oatmeal.com. They have some pretty hilarious cards. A lot of effort to get them shipped here though…

    • Lee says:

      11:57am | 25/05/12

      Rachel if the worst thing that happens to you is giving a person a card they already have you must not have much go wrong in your life. Frankly I don’t give a stuff if all my cards are the same, they all go in the bin anyway

    • Dollyness says:

      08:43am | 25/05/12

      I have several friends who wouldn’t dream of buying those dreadful cards. Not only are they very boring, but often quite offensive. My friends make their own, and mostly they are all quite different and very clever.
      Also, any of those dreary store bought cards are usually far too expensive.

    • Slick says:

      08:44am | 25/05/12

      Well you know, you could always buy a bit of cardboard and make your own?
      Much cheaper, more heartfelt, and then you can say what you want.

    • Scott says:

      09:22am | 25/05/12

      Sounds great if your under the age of 10

    • Elliot says:

      12:52pm | 25/05/12

      If you’re over the age of 10, then you should be able to spell, Scott.
      I make all of my cards and have done since they started charging over $5 for a bit of cardboard with a sticker on the front. My absolute pet hate though is the cards, that you are supposed to be giving to someone you apparently like, that are designed to make them feel crap about getting older.

    • Rachel says:

      09:02am | 25/05/12

      I make my own cards. MY friends love nothing more than plain cream card with the words “Happy Freaking Birthday” stamped on the front and droll message of love and BFF-ness inside.

      The letter stamps cost me $15. Done and done!

    • Ashola says:

      09:07am | 25/05/12

      Ugh, I hate to be “that person”, but you’ve used the wrong version of ‘stationery’ in your tags.

    • Nick says:

      10:11am | 25/05/12

      I admire your eye for detail

    • miloinacup says:

      09:18am | 25/05/12

      The last card I bought said “Happy Birthday Wanker” on the front. Nothing inside. It was for my brother and it was quite fitting.

      Aside from that, I enjoy http://www.someecards.com. They have some hilarious cards on there, they are free, and it works if you aren’t going to see the person for a while (it was perfect for my mum for mothers day since she was overseas)

    • Markus says:

      09:21am | 25/05/12

      “If you’re a woman who loves beer or a man who’s getting wrinkles, then sorry, no card for you.”
      I’ve seen plenty for the latter, they generally not-so-subtly hint at wrinkles developing in the nether regions.
      And given that the former are make believe, like elves and gremlins and eskimos, I see no need for a card.

    • Me says:

      09:55am | 25/05/12

      What sort of dinosaur still buys cards? Online customisation all the way. You don’t foresight either, it’s a very quick process.

    • Tom says:

      09:58am | 25/05/12

      I just got engaged and got four of the exact same card.

    • Nick says:

      10:07am | 25/05/12

      Does anybody under 50 buy cards anymore?  I almost never buy cards so someone out there is buying 44 per year.  Probably my mum.

      If I do buy a card I always choose blank ones, but for the most part I print a photo out on a bit of card folded in half, write whatever seems suitable inside and add a few xxxes, a squiggle etc and then forget to send it.

    • lee says:

      12:04pm | 25/05/12

      Cards are good to put birthday cash in but that is about it. I would rather receive a text, I still get to know someone is thinking of me and I don’t feel guilty throwing it out in 3 months time

    • Susan says:

      10:19am | 25/05/12

      A little irrelevant but one of the best ads I’ve ever seen - and it has remained with me for years - was a greeting card company ad where an elderly lady kept going to her mailbox every day to see if she had any mail..and she didn’t. There was often a look of wistful sadness on her face.  A younger female neighbour would watch her and could see the sadness..and so she bought her a card and posted it to her.  The JOY when the elderly woman went to the box and found and opened the card.  And the two women came together and hugged.  That to me is the heart place of sending something personal.  And there are so many people who never receive any personal mail.  So, at the end of the day, sure, many card messages are trite..but for some..trite will be pure magic and a gift beyond compare.

    • Stanly K says:

      01:03pm | 25/05/12

      These days she (the old lady) is more likely to wander over and yell at you to stop harassing her. Or send the cops to do it for you. However I live in the city and lost a lot of my compassion for my neighbours many years ago, when another of my cheery “good mornings” to my neighbour was again answered with a grunt. I wish I lived in mt Thomas. Or cheers.

    • Lee says:

      10:24am | 25/05/12

      Just prior to Anzac Day I saw Happy Anzac Days cards. I was puzzled as for me it isn’t a date that is suitable for a card. What are you supposed to write in it. To Gran Your brother was shot down over Europe and his body was never recovered so have a Happy Anzac Day. WTF??????

    • Susan says:

      10:51am | 25/05/12

      smile Never seen those. Yes..what situations and people do they suit? I bet there’s some interesting answers to that.

    • Sean says:

      10:26am | 25/05/12

      Cards, puhaha you mean the paper and the ink type, that’s big time out of date!..get with the program guys and girls:) the World’s Gone Digital

    • Susan says:

      10:49am | 25/05/12

      Sorry..yuck.  I hate being sent an ‘online’ card to my email.  Generally those who send these - in my world at least - are people who love getting in-hand cards themselves but claim they are too busy and too forgetful to action back in kind.  Usually they have forgotten your special day - whether it be a birthday or graduation or whatever - and rather than send you flowers or similar, they go onto a free card site.  I know this is an attitude thing on my part but I just hate this and find it mildly insulting.  It’s the clayton’s card and the person has made no effort as such at all. I would rather not get these.  And these are, by the way, no less trite than the cards bought from shops.  Customised card services who arrange digital imagery of your choice and a unique personal message and then send the cards by post is another thing entirely.

    • James says:

      11:08am | 25/05/12

      “Usually they have forgotten your special day ” pleeeeeeeease…

      To Quote Tyler Durden:

      “Listen up, maggots. You are not special. You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake. You’re the same decaying organic matter as everything else. “

      end of story, lets get back to work shall we?

    • Susan says:

      11:46am | 25/05/12

      James…to equate my statement with me thinking I am some special, fluffy princess is taking a phrase out of context and working it to death. I didn’t think anything when I wrote “special” but clearly one needs to forensically examine every single utterance made or be damned.

    • Lee says:

      12:08pm | 25/05/12

      Susan - Hate to tell you but I read your comment as follows.
      Online cards are free and I want people to spend money on me
      By people spending money on me for whatever occassion it validates my worth.

    • Jinx says:

      12:42pm | 25/05/12

      Susan - WTF it’s Hyacinth Bucket -

    • Elliot says:

      01:03pm | 25/05/12

      Susan, I read your comment as follows. The whole point of giving someone a card to to tell them that you care. If someone wants to send a card which requires almost no investment on their part, it is clear that they don’t care. The only reason that they do it is to receive the goodwill of the receiving person, and that is offensive because they are using your celebration to extort something for nothing. I’m not avaricious, shallow or insecure either, that’s probably why I didn’t assume you were.

    • Susan says:

      01:54pm | 25/05/12

      Loads of projection going on here methinks.  However, if so many of you gained that impression then i did a bad job on the post.  For the record, i rarely get presents, sponsor elderly people for Christmas, gave several bags of useful items like bandaids and antiseptic cream that I had bought across the year at Christmas also to homeless people via the Salvos.  i guess if i say that i dislike free online cards and would prefer someone went and bought one, and so many take that as being money grubbing, then you’re all pretty cynical.  It’s not the money, it’s the effort and caring behind the act.  Jinx..I cracked up as my last name would suit your quip.  Eliot, you understood exactly what i was trying to say. Cheers.  A shame so much presumption based on a post but I bet Eliot that you’re a nice guy with a compassionate outlook on life.

    • Angry Fat Bitch says:

      06:28pm | 25/05/12

      Your comment:Sean - I half agree with you.

      If you’re just generally wishing someone a happy birthday, or telling them to get well soon, then there is no harm done by a wall post or a tweet.

      But when attending a party and giving a gift, you need to somehow mark that gift so they know it was from you. That’s where paper and ink cards come in handy.

      And sympathy cards. Tweeting “sowee yo pop died xoxo” is not appropriate.

    • Holly says:

      10:50am | 25/05/12

      Try Phoenix Trading - the cards are just as nice (if not nicer) than hallmark, and a lot cheaper. Also only sold by ‘independent phoenix traders’ via direct selling, so you’re supporting a someone from your local area who will hand deliver them to your door. They’re all blank inside too so most of them can be used for a whole variety of people and occasions.

    • VampressJess says:

      11:11am | 25/05/12

      I cant see the point of spending $6.99+ to give someone a piece of cardboard they are going to read once and then throw out with the wrapping paper. I never give cards (with the exception of those events where people are likely to keep them, 1st birthdays ect) and put that extra money into giving them a better present. No one has ever complained.

    • prosperity says:

      11:21am | 25/05/12

      There are many very attractive cards available from various charitable organisations.  Keep a few in a draw and send them out with your own message for absolutely every occasion.  Save money, too, on those awful, vacuous, often American greeting cards.

    • Horthy says:

      01:34pm | 25/05/12

      Read this piece. Noticed that pronouns are no longer necessary. Had a sad.

    • JennaFelicity says:

      03:20pm | 25/05/12

      On the weekend I actually saw cards for $9.99.

      Normal sized, no pop-ups in the middle, not even a fancy “plays a bloody annoying tune when you open it” mechanism.

      Just one tiny diamonte glued on the front and you want to charge me 10 bucks?!

      I was horrified, to say the least.

    • Angry Fat Bitch says:

      05:39pm | 25/05/12

      Organisation is the key… let me share my strategy.

      Step 1 - forget the newsagent. Proper stationary stores sell much nicer cards. Typo and Kikki K are good, there are also some nice boutique stores around that sell cards, all of which are much prettier and trendier than what’s on offer at the newsagent.

      Step 2 - buy more than one. Each time you’re in one of these stores buying a card, buy a few extra. Sneak in there even when you don’t need a card, because you happen to be at the shops. After a while you have a stash at home of cards at the ready. Just be sure to add to your stash from time to time, and you’ll never have to make that last-minute newsagent run again.

      Step 3 - collect a stash of wrapping paper as well. Always have a roll of something pink for girls, something blue for boys, and something elegant for weddings.

      Sounds like a lot of effort, I know. But it means most of the time you can shop for a gift without having to worry about wrapping and cards. It’s a blessing when you’re buying gifts online.

    • MV says:

      08:25am | 26/05/12

      Cards are a waste of time and money. I don’t believe in them. The only cards that exist in my world are the “To and From” tags on gifts and post cards. I hate getting a card, I hate the feeling of being obliged to keep it, even though I eventually chuck them out and have a weep at the money wasted by the giver.

      As for the digital and hand made cards, I end up thinking less of that person. Digital cards are just like spam, and hand made are always terrible and cheaply printed out on cruddy hp inkjets that are low on ink and end up just being 8 times folded A4 paper sized. Go ahead and fold up an A4 peice of paper. You’ll notice that when you “open” it, there is a extra layer that springs out and wants to unfold again. Urg, so amature and tacky.

    • NESLIHAN KUROSAWA says:

      12:48am | 27/05/12

      Hi Daniel,

      It is always nice to be remembered by our loved ones and family members even in the smallest way possible!  However on this occasion, I would have to say “what a total waste of good paper and hard earned cash, really!  Surely at this day and age, even the tiniest gift given from the heart and with good intentions, should really be enough, right?  But how many trees have to die for this very old fashioned and lazy way of remembering special occasions such as birthdays and anniversaries?

      I only have to say that there is a huge market out there for the ones who can’t seem to think out side the box, no offence intended.  I guess some of us never get the message that “less is more”, especially when it comes to our almost obsession with using paper products in a very wasteful way, in our daily lives.  We simply have to get the message to some people that we all should do our bit to conserve our natural forests and what we already have before it is far too late!  As well as get into the habit of giving gifts which could be used, read, loved & appreciated again and again. 

      We just have to be a little more creative as well as use our imagination when it comes to gift giving in general. Instead of giving convenient and standard greeting cards which may end up in the rubbish bin eventually, we should all give a little bit of thought and consideration to how we are all depleting our natural resources, constantly.  May be this could be a positive step towards conserving our natural resources such as forests.  I also feel that being a “throw away society” could only hurt us all in the long term.  Kind regards to your editors.

    • Joan Bennett says:

      08:34am | 14/06/12

      I like the blank cards from the Reject Shop or Cheap As Chips.  They have pictures of nature or animals and you can write your own message.  Much more genuine than the over-sentimental rubbish in the other cards.  And you can choose one with an animal that suits the recipient.  Koala for a real “Aussie”, tiger for a powerful, colourful personality or a lily for someone that is gentle and sweet.  And they’re only about 75 cents each.

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