Shove your shoulder pads and pipe down about the equal pay debate.

This week’s annual Equal Pay Day completely overlooked the fact that it’s flexibility that woman want. And we’d prefer not to beg for it, thank you very much.
Yes, women still earn approximately 17.5 per cent less than male counterparts in full-time work. Actually, it’s been that way for about 25 years.
And yes, only a handful of women sit on boards of the ASX 200 companies, and only six of those companies have a female CEO. But maybe that’s an accurate reflection of just how few of us actually want a slice of that pie.
Academics and feminists who continue to prioritise the closing the gender-oriented wage gap disregard the huge list of unmanageable priorities that come with a top job.
Arduously long hours where you’re expected to be in the office till 11pm. Overseas trips at the drop of a hat. Tired, cranky, over-wrought, eating dinner at our desks instead of with our families.
No thanks. Not even for a big fat pay cheque. Or a seat at the top of a table at the board meeting.
Sixty per cent of Australian women employed by the public sector say their current working conditions let them balance their life and family commitments.
That’s according to this year’s annual Community and Public Sector Union survey that shines a rare light into the realities of life for working women. And it’s largely ignored by the tired chants of the equal pay debate.
The truth is, today’s women have a massive advantage.
Our grandmothers fought for equal rights and our mothers worked hard to raise families, regretting the years they couldn’t spend building up a career.
We’ve seen enough to want it all. But we know better that to actually want it all - including the unreasonable working conditions.
We’ve learned compartmentalisation and compromise; we work hard to get ourselves a job but we also factor in a considerable chunk of our middle years to raising a family. If we chose to have one.
Most women – and probably many men would feel the same way too – don’t want to sacrifice everything for their career. So companies have to stop demanding total sacrifice.
That is much more important than how much we are paid and that’s what the national policy should reflect.
As one friend put it:
I want both. I think that I have both. I want both of my jobs to understand that the other has to be flexible. So sometimes I miss dinner. Other days I go to Athletic Carnivals. Both bosses (aka my boss at work and my husband and family) get that it is going to be that way and understand that I am much happier when I am not feeling 1) guilty or 2) as if I don’t have enough time to do both things well.
Even women occupying these seemingly sought-after top jobs agree.
Sue Morphett, the CEO of Pacific Brands, said the expectations of long working hours are killing off women’s chances of gaining senior positions; and we’ll only ever make it to the top when everyone is allowed to go home for dinner.
Employers need to realise they don’t have to tie themselves up in knots.
The majority of working women are asking for a company that understands the pressures of combining work and home life, respects our skills when we take time off to raise our families, and offers enough incentive for us to come back when we’re ready.
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